老婆對房事會排斥怎麼辦? - 婚姻

By George
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剛結婚時因為老公比較急要小孩,兩人的性生活幾乎都是以生育為目的,過程也都比較機
械化,最後也一直沒有好消息,結婚一年半後才懷孕的,不過這個時候老
公可能比較在意肚子裡的小孩,讓老婆的感受很差,覺得自己只是生產工具。
大寶出生後兩人的性生活有改善,畢竟已經比較沒有生育的壓力,不過總是老公要求比較
多,老婆常常自己覺得沒有意願但是又要配合,雖然偶爾會有幾次雙方都很投入,但也有
幾次不愉快的經驗。
這樣的生活又過了3年多,後來兩人決定要有第二胎,有了第一胎的經驗,老公也不再讓
老婆有生育的經驗,這時候老婆變得非常主動,而且也可以感受到老婆相當投入,而且令
兩人訝異的,兩個月之後就自然受孕了。
不過第二胎出生後,兩人的房事又陷入困境,老婆常抱怨,以前生第一胎時有種被逼迫的
感覺,因此對性生活有陰影,而且老公剛生完小孩就想行房也讓她反感,而且她也覺得老
公的技巧沒有很好。之後有幾次兩人又鬧得不愉快,最後老婆說如果你想做我就配合你,
但其實每個月老公也才主動要3次左右,但每次都是在老婆的催促之下草草結束。
最近兩個人又把這件事講開,老婆又提到了生第一胎時的陰影,她要淡化陰影需要一段時
間,但是要多少時間她也不知道,這次老公決定以後除非老婆主動要,不然不會要她配合
。不過讓老公感到焦慮與挫折的是,到底需要多少時間? 而老公有需要做些什麼(或不要
做什麼)才能讓她化解對性生活的陰影?
後續補充
謝謝眾多朋友的指教,其實與其說是技術不好,倒不如說是不會看氣氛,不過這部分我們
兩個人已經有進行溝通,現在會更注重對方的意願,而最近彼此的親密感也有回溫。
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剛結婚時因為老公比較急要小孩,兩人的性生活幾乎都是以生育為目的,過程也都比較機
械化,最後也一直沒有好消息,結婚一年半後才懷孕的,不過這個時候老
公可能比較在意肚子裡的小孩,讓老婆的感受很差,覺得自己只是生產工具。
大寶出生後兩人的性生活有改善,畢竟已經比較沒有生育的壓力,不過總是老公要求比較
多,老婆常常自己覺得沒有意願但是又要配合,雖然偶爾會有幾次雙方都很投入,但也有
幾次不愉快的經驗。
這樣的生活又過了3年多,後來兩人決定要有第二胎,有了第一胎的經驗,老公也不再讓
老婆有生育的經驗,這時候老婆變得非常主動,而且也可以感受到老婆相當投入,而且令
兩人訝異的,兩個月之後就自然受孕了。
不過第二胎出生後,兩人的房事又陷入困境,老婆常抱怨,以前生第一胎時有種被逼迫的
感覺,因此對性生活有陰影,而且老公剛生完小孩就想行房也讓她反感,而且她也覺得老
公的技巧沒有很好。之後有幾次兩人又鬧得不愉快,最後老婆說如果你想做我就配合你,
但其實每個月老公也才主動要3次左右,但每次都是在老婆的催促之下草草結束。
最近兩個人又把這件事講開,老婆又提到了生第一胎時的陰影,她要淡化陰影需要一段時
間,但是要多少時間她也不知道,這次老公決定以後除非老婆主動要,不然不會要她配合
。不過讓老公感到焦慮與挫折的是,到底需要多少時間? 而老公有需要做些什麼(或不要
做什麼)才能讓她化解對性生活的陰影?
後續補充
謝謝眾多朋友的指教,其實與其說是技術不好,倒不如說是不會看氣氛,不過這部分我們
兩個人已經有進行溝通,現在會更注重對方的意願,而最近彼此的親密感也有回溫。
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