老公的...性向 - 婚姻
By Agatha
at 2011-06-05T07:46
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事情不是發生在我身上
是朋友的朋友
所以是以我的角度來寫
(文長 慎入)
去年初去喝了這A小姐跟B先生的喜酒
兩人都是非常虔誠的基督教徒
B先生是基督教家庭
A小姐本身是信奉基度教 家人是不是我不確定
他們結婚前認識很久(從大學開始)
A小姐現在32(實歲) B先生則是33(實歲)
兩人大學時念同科系而認識
畢業後交往四年多
後來分手
A小姐在兩人分手期間有跟其他男生交往
但是因為男生要到國外進修
加上這位男生有了女朋友卻管不住自己
雖然沒有抓到有明顯偷吃行為
但是生活上的小細節反應出的行為和想法讓A小姐很沒安全感
於是就沒有進行到遠距離這段
直接分手了(大約交往兩多年)
後來A小姐與念念不忘的B先生又聯絡上
兩人復合
後來就結婚了
婚禮籌辦時期
B先生的好友Z先生積極幫忙
婚禮上播映的投影片是Z先生準備的
從拍攝到後製 相當用心
當然Z先生也是兩位伴郎之一
婚禮當天也相當盡責
婚禮上的影片內容是新郎新娘跟Z先生和其他兩位朋友
一起在某婚宴廣場的接待室討論婚禮細節
新郎B先生藉著有事暫離
然後偷偷從後面出現捧著花拿著戒指跟新娘A小姐求婚
(是的 他們等於是協議結婚的)
最後是兩位新人被拱親親的畫面
據A小姐的說法
那是兩人第一次親吻
(兩人之所以會結婚 情況有點像雙方父母都覺得年紀到了 該結婚了
尤其是B的父母想抱孫子 於是B就跟A結婚給雙方父母一個交代
但是A是真的很愛B才嫁給他的)
婚禮落幕後
A小姐有跟B先生提到蜜月的事情
因為B先生是貸款辦婚禮的
所以A小姐想 就算只是在國內走走也好
想要幾天兩人世界
結果B先生跟A小姐說
"好阿 要蜜月 那我要帶Z一起去"
A小姐那時候只是納悶
為什麼他跟她老公的蜜月要帶她老公的好朋友去?
但是婚後兩人都忙(忙著賺錢養家跟還貸款)
所以蜜月沒有成行
A小姐婚後盡責的照顧公公婆婆(公婆身體都不好 領有殘障手冊)
努力上班幫忙老公維持家計 還貸款
B先生也很努力的上班
(兩人同行)
看似平靜幸福的生活
其實不然
A小姐在婚後兩個月跟我朋友講電話講到
他與B先生在婚禮上親吻過後就沒有了
沒有更進一步
同床共枕但什麼都沒有
直到現在
都一年多了
兩人的關係跟婚前一樣
仍然沒有進展
每次A小姐跟B先生提到這類的事情
對方都沉默然後找機會離開現場
不然就是跟A小姐大吵一架
而且會跟A小姐冷戰好幾個禮拜甚至一兩個月
這中途不管A小姐怎麼做
討好 扮小丑 一哭二鬧 全都沒有用
B先生要到自己開心了才會理會A小姐
但是B先生對Z完全不是這樣
下班第一個打給Z
心情不好打給Z 心情好打給Z
有時間出門打給Z
帶A出門如果Z有空也一定帶著Z
A小姐曾經在B先生的電腦裡面發現了秘密資料夾
裡面是男男的謎片
那次 A看到後崩潰
跟B攤牌
B說
"你不要逼我 不要告訴別人 不然你永遠都不會知道真相"
雖然A還是跟我朋友說了(不然我怎麼會知道)
但是A還是沒有辦法處理
A跟母親的感情非常點到為止 不講心事的
而且A媽媽也比較寵小A6歲多的小女兒
對於A的心靈層面比較不注重
A很獨立 很負責任
他擔起自己的生活 也負擔媽媽的
但是母女是這樣的關係
A完全無法對自己的母親開口這些事情
B的父母常常在催促兩人"怎麼肚皮還沒傳出好消息?"
B總是隨便帶過
壓力全掉在A頭上
但是A也不可能跟B的父母說
兩人又是基督教徒
離婚這一事基本上是很難的
(我對他們在教堂舉辦的結婚儀式還非常印象深刻 就是從頭到尾的不棄不離)
而且A深深的愛著B
就算B這樣傷害他
A還是處處為他著想 犧牲自己奉獻給B
(我跟朋友的推斷 B是因為有賴以為生的才華才讓A深深迷戀)
A早就很想要小孩了 但是對於性是這方面B不想提
A也不想跟B冷戰 所以也不逼B面對
但是歲月不饒人
A就算今年懷孕 也算是高齡產婦了
更何況他不只想要一個
但是這些B都沒為A打算過
一直不斷跟A強調"他需要時間" 還有 "不要逼他"
前陣子AB的朋友生了寶寶
A藉由朋友寄給他的照片趁機點了B一下
"你看~**的寶寶耶!好可愛"
B馬上擺臭臉走掉
兩人一同出席朋友的聚餐
被問到"什麼時候要生小孩"
A看著B甜甜的說"那要看B囉~"
B不會做任何反應 當場放空讓A尷尬
A曾經爆炸問過B
難道B都不會有生理需求?
B回答會
A不解
問B怎麼解決
B說他自己會有辦法 而且不會讓A知道
A也曾經苦苦哀求B
要B多嘗試看看
當晚B可能就會牽著A的手睡著
僅止於此
兩人持續周旋
雖然這樣感覺有點皇帝不急急死太監
(其實皇帝超急的 蛋沒有人可以說 也不知道該怎麼做)
我們旁觀者也都為A著急
但也幫不上忙
(畢竟B不知道A其實有說出去)
A是個善良認真負責任也很熱心的好女孩
雖然外表沒有那麼突出 不過身材也蠻不錯的
看他這樣子一直拿熱臉貼人家冷屁股 真的很替他難過
請問有沒有什麼辦法或建議呢?
謝謝大家
P.S.不好意思敘述的有點亂 如果有其他需要補充的地方一定會補充上來 謝謝
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