結個婚真的很擾人 - 結婚
By Joe
at 2016-11-24T01:44
at 2016-11-24T01:44
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文有點多,只是想宣洩情緒QQ
真心覺得結個婚怎麼變得很神經質,什麼都可以讓我不爽.....
我跟我老公在一起10年,今年2月未來婆婆說可以準備去我家提親談我們的婚事,雖然還
沒被求婚,但長輩開口我也只能說好在跟我爸媽確認休假時間,隔月3月老公也計畫也求
婚了,原本以為雙方媽媽都蠻開明應該可以順順利利籌備,但我錯了!根本沒有!
老公是嘉義人,我是桃園人,男方希望結婚前一天我們先下去住飯店然後隔天飯店迎娶,
我媽原本說好後又說結婚不想家裡冷清,堅持當天迎娶,老公家雖然妥協,但他們家還是
有點抱怨,因為凌晨2點就要出發來桃園,加上媒人婆是老公的姑姑,沒什麼在做中間協
商,我媽跟我又無法溝通,總之目前等訂婚完才要再商量結婚,但最受不了就是每次談結
婚的事情我們很容易鬧不愉快,我承認我脾氣不好容易發怒冷戰,結婚很花錢,所以我也
盡可能的節省一點...
因為老公是做修車師傅,我知道他需要人脈,而我們結婚預計10桌,說多並不多但也不少
,原本想找婚佈也沒有,想說自己去大創簡單買來佈置入口桌,就算被偷也比較不心疼,
因為婚禮很簡單,但還是希望大家來是開心的,來點活動不過分吧?抽捧花是給自己姐妹
所以老公覺得ok,當然我也希望男生可以有參與感,但老公說他朋友應該不喜歡抽花椰菜
,我覺得既然是你好兄弟,事先講ok也可以吧?為什麼沒問就直接否決?
沒關係還不確定就先擱著之後再說,好啦!今天跟他討論活動小遊戲,想說跟賓客有個互
動,因為他大多的朋友甚至老闆都很愛玩,如果只是單單吃喜酒也太過無趣,想說幫他做
面子,婚禮已經很簡單了,不想場面太乾所以想來個小活動,結果說完,老公一開始回我
再想想,後面說為什麼要搞到這麼複雜,已經有抽捧花為什麼還要在刮刮樂,當下我是有
點不開心,最後老公說,你想怎樣就怎樣吧!這句話聽了更火.....所以我就不說話了,
陷入冷戰,他最後只說他覺得我講出來並不是跟他商量,而是我想這樣做,如果他否決我
就不爽,那不如我想怎樣就怎樣...
聽了很難過,是不是自己控制欲太強,但我也希望他跟我說的是有其他替代方案或是一個
我可以接受不需要這活動的理由,可是在氣頭上所以後面沒跟他說,兩個人就不愉快的結
束通話,如果可以我也想只登記就好....
常常為類似情況鬧不愉快,我們怎麼可以在一起10年啊!不過還是希望婚禮可以順順利利
...
單純發洩,謝謝看完的大家QQ
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真心覺得結個婚怎麼變得很神經質,什麼都可以讓我不爽.....
我跟我老公在一起10年,今年2月未來婆婆說可以準備去我家提親談我們的婚事,雖然還
沒被求婚,但長輩開口我也只能說好在跟我爸媽確認休假時間,隔月3月老公也計畫也求
婚了,原本以為雙方媽媽都蠻開明應該可以順順利利籌備,但我錯了!根本沒有!
老公是嘉義人,我是桃園人,男方希望結婚前一天我們先下去住飯店然後隔天飯店迎娶,
我媽原本說好後又說結婚不想家裡冷清,堅持當天迎娶,老公家雖然妥協,但他們家還是
有點抱怨,因為凌晨2點就要出發來桃園,加上媒人婆是老公的姑姑,沒什麼在做中間協
商,我媽跟我又無法溝通,總之目前等訂婚完才要再商量結婚,但最受不了就是每次談結
婚的事情我們很容易鬧不愉快,我承認我脾氣不好容易發怒冷戰,結婚很花錢,所以我也
盡可能的節省一點...
因為老公是做修車師傅,我知道他需要人脈,而我們結婚預計10桌,說多並不多但也不少
,原本想找婚佈也沒有,想說自己去大創簡單買來佈置入口桌,就算被偷也比較不心疼,
因為婚禮很簡單,但還是希望大家來是開心的,來點活動不過分吧?抽捧花是給自己姐妹
所以老公覺得ok,當然我也希望男生可以有參與感,但老公說他朋友應該不喜歡抽花椰菜
,我覺得既然是你好兄弟,事先講ok也可以吧?為什麼沒問就直接否決?
沒關係還不確定就先擱著之後再說,好啦!今天跟他討論活動小遊戲,想說跟賓客有個互
動,因為他大多的朋友甚至老闆都很愛玩,如果只是單單吃喜酒也太過無趣,想說幫他做
面子,婚禮已經很簡單了,不想場面太乾所以想來個小活動,結果說完,老公一開始回我
再想想,後面說為什麼要搞到這麼複雜,已經有抽捧花為什麼還要在刮刮樂,當下我是有
點不開心,最後老公說,你想怎樣就怎樣吧!這句話聽了更火.....所以我就不說話了,
陷入冷戰,他最後只說他覺得我講出來並不是跟他商量,而是我想這樣做,如果他否決我
就不爽,那不如我想怎樣就怎樣...
聽了很難過,是不是自己控制欲太強,但我也希望他跟我說的是有其他替代方案或是一個
我可以接受不需要這活動的理由,可是在氣頭上所以後面沒跟他說,兩個人就不愉快的結
束通話,如果可以我也想只登記就好....
常常為類似情況鬧不愉快,我們怎麼可以在一起10年啊!不過還是希望婚禮可以順順利利
...
單純發洩,謝謝看完的大家QQ
--
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