紅包是看交情還是場地(代po) - 結婚
By Charlie
at 2020-03-31T16:25
at 2020-03-31T16:25
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(家人沒有帳號所以代po)
因為疫情的關係,
新人本身也只想和熟識的朋友,
有個溫馨聚會,接受祝福,
所以選擇包下整間小型餐廳,
(餐廳客滿約20幾個座位),
請10幾位好友吃2萬價位的料理,
當天沒有安排活動,
新人簡單打扮,沒有穿禮服,
沒有主持人,沒有婚攝,
都是用手機拍照,
主要就是吃料理,
吃飯過程中和朋友聊聊天,
最後致詞敬酒感謝大家出席,
然後送餅送客答謝。
新人有一位認識超過10年的好友,
簡稱A。
A前幾年結婚時,
在婚宴會館請客幾十桌,
新人攜伴參加,共2位出席,
因為認識很久也很要好,
所以包了1萬元紅包,
新人當時包1萬的原因是,
不論對方是否有請客,
對方結婚一定是包1萬紅包出去,
因為交情就是值得那樣的數字。
今年新人以上述方式請客,
A也回包了1萬,
事後跟新人說,
「是基於禮數才回包1萬,
但是以當天餐廳等級,
其實頂多包3600
紅包的金額是會隨餐廳等級增減的。」
新人困惑的點是:
當初包1萬是以10幾年交情決定的金額,
A因為新人辦得比較簡單,
就認為其實不用包相同金額回禮,
頂多包3600就好,
是合理的嗎?
疫情期間想辦得簡單也好難啊.....
搞得好像虧待了朋友......
新人不知該怎麼調適朋友A的說法,
因此想看看其他人的看法,謝謝!
--
因為疫情的關係,
新人本身也只想和熟識的朋友,
有個溫馨聚會,接受祝福,
所以選擇包下整間小型餐廳,
(餐廳客滿約20幾個座位),
請10幾位好友吃2萬價位的料理,
當天沒有安排活動,
新人簡單打扮,沒有穿禮服,
沒有主持人,沒有婚攝,
都是用手機拍照,
主要就是吃料理,
吃飯過程中和朋友聊聊天,
最後致詞敬酒感謝大家出席,
然後送餅送客答謝。
新人有一位認識超過10年的好友,
簡稱A。
A前幾年結婚時,
在婚宴會館請客幾十桌,
新人攜伴參加,共2位出席,
因為認識很久也很要好,
所以包了1萬元紅包,
新人當時包1萬的原因是,
不論對方是否有請客,
對方結婚一定是包1萬紅包出去,
因為交情就是值得那樣的數字。
今年新人以上述方式請客,
A也回包了1萬,
事後跟新人說,
「是基於禮數才回包1萬,
但是以當天餐廳等級,
其實頂多包3600
紅包的金額是會隨餐廳等級增減的。」
新人困惑的點是:
當初包1萬是以10幾年交情決定的金額,
A因為新人辦得比較簡單,
就認為其實不用包相同金額回禮,
頂多包3600就好,
是合理的嗎?
疫情期間想辦得簡單也好難啊.....
搞得好像虧待了朋友......
新人不知該怎麼調適朋友A的說法,
因此想看看其他人的看法,謝謝!
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