管教小孩的夫妻溝通 - 婚姻
By Xanthe
at 2022-08-12T23:43
at 2022-08-12T23:43
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如題,目前女兒五歲中班昇大班了,
平時活潑好動,在外也算是懂禮貌跟規矩
但我們夫妻的管教上有比較大的分歧
老婆主張要教規矩,做錯了什麼就要講到或兇到小孩回答正確的答案
有時情緒大到問的問題一下問要回可以,一下問要回不可以,如果回答錯就是繼續生氣
有時為了這個搞到小孩是又哭又吐完之後才結束這場管教...
我是比較平淡的管教,遇到做錯了就陪小孩一起收爛攤子,然後回頭跟她說這個會造成的
後果跟危險性
跟太太溝通他也會覺得我平常不管教不要干涉她的方式,要我不要一副老好人的態度去批
評她...孩子下班是她陪比較多...
這樣下去我實在不知道女兒的心理會不會有創傷...
該怎麼引導比較和緩正向的管教方式呢....
補充一些日常狀態
平日一到五,有兩到三天會由我陪女兒
洗澡陪玩聊天到說睡前故事
另外一兩天則是我下班去運動,結束後回家洗碗洗衣晾衣
假日則是夫妻一起帶小孩出遊
老婆理性時也是疼愛小孩的好媽媽
幾次過頭我要制止,跟她好言相勸時,她會覺得我在說風涼話,這樣軟弱配合小孩反而沒
法教好小孩,把我趕到房間不要我介入...
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平時活潑好動,在外也算是懂禮貌跟規矩
但我們夫妻的管教上有比較大的分歧
老婆主張要教規矩,做錯了什麼就要講到或兇到小孩回答正確的答案
有時情緒大到問的問題一下問要回可以,一下問要回不可以,如果回答錯就是繼續生氣
有時為了這個搞到小孩是又哭又吐完之後才結束這場管教...
我是比較平淡的管教,遇到做錯了就陪小孩一起收爛攤子,然後回頭跟她說這個會造成的
後果跟危險性
跟太太溝通他也會覺得我平常不管教不要干涉她的方式,要我不要一副老好人的態度去批
評她...孩子下班是她陪比較多...
這樣下去我實在不知道女兒的心理會不會有創傷...
該怎麼引導比較和緩正向的管教方式呢....
補充一些日常狀態
平日一到五,有兩到三天會由我陪女兒
洗澡陪玩聊天到說睡前故事
另外一兩天則是我下班去運動,結束後回家洗碗洗衣晾衣
假日則是夫妻一起帶小孩出遊
老婆理性時也是疼愛小孩的好媽媽
幾次過頭我要制止,跟她好言相勸時,她會覺得我在說風涼話,這樣軟弱配合小孩反而沒
法教好小孩,把我趕到房間不要我介入...
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