第一次籌備婚禮就上手(?) - 結婚
By Skylar Davis
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以下純文字版
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跟身邊的朋友比起來算是早婚,結完婚之後陸續有朋友詢問如何準備
想說與其一個一個說,不如寫下來,以後有人問就丟文章連結
不知道到底是太懶惰還是太勤勞XDDDD
因為已經是過來人了(怎麼好像是得意的意思),可能有些敘述會過於理所當然
如果覺得有哪裡解釋不清楚,可以再問我唷!
-----
首先,很大略地說,結婚包括求婚、提親、文定、訂婚宴客、迎娶、結婚宴客
順序不一定是這樣↑ 有人可能先提親才求婚,或是裝死沒求婚直接覆蓋進到下一關
也可能儀式(文定&迎娶)和宴客不同天,或是訂結同天
求婚不用解釋,鑽戒廣告都有演,強烈建議男士為了後半輩子耳根子清淨,
怎麼樣都要交代(?)一下
提親就是男方和媒人一起去女方家,
由媒人幫男方爸媽跟女方爸媽說我家小孩要娶你家小孩甘賀
文定就是新娘奉茶、婆婆媽媽準備金飾組給新娘新郎、有聘金給聘金、有嫁妝給嫁妝
(註:聘金是男方準備給女方,一般聽到的大聘小聘;嫁妝是女方準備給新娘帶去夫家)
訂婚宴客是女方請吃飯,男方通常只會有1~2桌親戚桌,男方要付自己人桌數的壓桌禮
結婚宴客是男方場子,女方通常只會有1~2桌親戚桌,女方桌錢由男方出
(娶媳婦就是花錢啊...)
(註一:所謂訂結同天就是雙方一起宴客,分兩邊收禮,通常是住的縣市較近可以一起合
辦)
(註二:新娘通常在訂婚只穿禮服,結婚才穿白紗,不知哪來說法白紗只能穿一次,不介
意就沒差)
(註三:訂婚場有男方吃到魚料理時要先離席的習俗,不過兩邊講好、女方不介意也是可
以吃到結束)
我們是2014年2月兩個人有共識要結婚,也想好大概在2015年4月前完成
歐文打電話跟爸媽講,我也稍微跟謝爸暗示之後
歐文先在2014年3月某天來我家跟謝爸謝媽提結婚的事(聽說有人那幾天邊洗澡邊re台詞)
2014年4月歐文家來提親,有提日子和聘金問題
2015年3月文定儀式+訂婚
2015年4月迎娶+結婚
結婚入門必會名詞搞懂意思了嗎?這才只是一開始啊!
我覺得籌備婚禮的過程中,最重要的是取●得●共●識
因為有好多人要橋、好多錢要花,能花錢解決都算事小,但確認各種細碎小事真的很花時
間跟耐心
我跟歐文採取的做法是:
1. 自己先想過什麼事情該怎麼做,例如想要隔年四月結婚
2. 各自跟爸媽提我們預計怎麼做,有認知落差就開始說服/洗腦,例如見紅(周末)就是好
日,跟人家擠「宜嫁娶」就什麼都要搶很麻煩
3. 回頭確定溝通結果,開始執行,例如兩邊爸媽都沒有一定要看日子,我們就選定之後
就直接去訂餐廳
爸媽都沒意見最好,新人想怎麼做就怎麼做
自己的爸媽自己最清楚,所謂的「沒意見」是真沒意見,還是其實不太同意生悶氣、現在
沒意見之後意見一大堆
爸媽超有意見或一直改意見,也只能認了...
雖然是兩個人的結婚,但儀還是得尊重長輩或傳統、婚禮是爸媽的場子(新娘邊敬酒邊
O.S:阿北你哪位)
-----
Q:結婚首要任務是什麼?
A:定日子。
Q:決定日子要幹嘛?
A:搶餐廳、搶新秘、搶婚攝!!!!!
現在的新人都很瘋狂,在婚期前一年就下訂的大有人在
有的熱門場地、新秘和婚攝一年半前就被訂走也有可能(以下開放聽過更扯的XD)
保險起見,最好平時就多看看不同新秘或婚攝的作品
有個口袋名單比較不會在趕時間時亂找
挑餐廳必須先預估宴客人數和價位,預約看場地時都會被問宴客日期和桌數
飯店、婚宴會館、海鮮餐廳價位上有差,選定一種就已經過濾大部分了
每對新人在意的點不一樣,理想和實際也很~~不一樣
像我們當初希望場地方正挑高沒有柱子、交通方便又好停車、預算11K-14K/桌、菜色好吃
、有贈佈置或主持人佳
然後咧,想也知道沒這種地方啊~~~
經過各種掙扎,覺得一場婚禮最重要的還是賓客開心
對賓客來說,方便到達、好停車、餐點好吃應該比有沒有柱子遮住舞台、
佈置美不美重要吧XD
新秘和婚攝就不多說了,重點只有一個:事前溝通
喜歡怎樣造型、什麼是地雷絕對不要出現在身上、膚質髮質如何巴拉巴拉
我有做一份跟新秘溝通的PPT,有興趣可以跟我索取唷!
→連結在此:https://goo.gl/yolxja←
如果有特別想要拍的人或場景,還是事前跟婚攝提,當天主動cue婚攝
我有點後悔的地方就是整場讓婚攝在旁記錄,事後發現有些人沒有合照到很可惜
但畢竟婚攝也不知道誰對新人比較重要,所以既然都請專業的來了,就物盡其用(?)吧!
------
最後,如果你是沒什麼想法、都可以都好、不確定想要什麼的新人
有比較多的閒錢可以找婚禮顧問公司,喜帖設計、婚禮主視覺、婚禮佈置、主持人、活動
安排什麼都傳便便
有一點閒錢可以找婚禮主持人,所有儀式、宴客活動安排、當天主持都可以handle
沒閒錢就多花點時間上網找資料多比較長知識長經驗
這次先寫個最初步的事項,下次再針對如何進一步籌備做分享!
有什麼問題可以問我唷
--
優惠、折扣、利益內容: 無
------------------------------------------------------------------------
好讀網誌版:http://goo.gl/WolYH8
要分享給朋友的,想說寫都寫了也po到這邊,或許可以幫上一些忙 :)
非常基礎的入門文章,歡迎經驗老到(?)的學姐們補充分享!
以下純文字版
------------------------------------------------------------------------
跟身邊的朋友比起來算是早婚,結完婚之後陸續有朋友詢問如何準備
想說與其一個一個說,不如寫下來,以後有人問就丟文章連結
不知道到底是太懶惰還是太勤勞XDDDD
因為已經是過來人了(怎麼好像是得意的意思),可能有些敘述會過於理所當然
如果覺得有哪裡解釋不清楚,可以再問我唷!
-----
首先,很大略地說,結婚包括求婚、提親、文定、訂婚宴客、迎娶、結婚宴客
順序不一定是這樣↑ 有人可能先提親才求婚,或是裝死沒求婚直接覆蓋進到下一關
也可能儀式(文定&迎娶)和宴客不同天,或是訂結同天
求婚不用解釋,鑽戒廣告都有演,強烈建議男士為了後半輩子耳根子清淨,
怎麼樣都要交代(?)一下
提親就是男方和媒人一起去女方家,
由媒人幫男方爸媽跟女方爸媽說我家小孩要娶你家小孩甘賀
文定就是新娘奉茶、婆婆媽媽準備金飾組給新娘新郎、有聘金給聘金、有嫁妝給嫁妝
(註:聘金是男方準備給女方,一般聽到的大聘小聘;嫁妝是女方準備給新娘帶去夫家)
訂婚宴客是女方請吃飯,男方通常只會有1~2桌親戚桌,男方要付自己人桌數的壓桌禮
結婚宴客是男方場子,女方通常只會有1~2桌親戚桌,女方桌錢由男方出
(娶媳婦就是花錢啊...)
(註一:所謂訂結同天就是雙方一起宴客,分兩邊收禮,通常是住的縣市較近可以一起合
辦)
(註二:新娘通常在訂婚只穿禮服,結婚才穿白紗,不知哪來說法白紗只能穿一次,不介
意就沒差)
(註三:訂婚場有男方吃到魚料理時要先離席的習俗,不過兩邊講好、女方不介意也是可
以吃到結束)
我們是2014年2月兩個人有共識要結婚,也想好大概在2015年4月前完成
歐文打電話跟爸媽講,我也稍微跟謝爸暗示之後
歐文先在2014年3月某天來我家跟謝爸謝媽提結婚的事(聽說有人那幾天邊洗澡邊re台詞)
2014年4月歐文家來提親,有提日子和聘金問題
2015年3月文定儀式+訂婚
2015年4月迎娶+結婚
結婚入門必會名詞搞懂意思了嗎?這才只是一開始啊!
我覺得籌備婚禮的過程中,最重要的是取●得●共●識
因為有好多人要橋、好多錢要花,能花錢解決都算事小,但確認各種細碎小事真的很花時
間跟耐心
我跟歐文採取的做法是:
1. 自己先想過什麼事情該怎麼做,例如想要隔年四月結婚
2. 各自跟爸媽提我們預計怎麼做,有認知落差就開始說服/洗腦,例如見紅(周末)就是好
日,跟人家擠「宜嫁娶」就什麼都要搶很麻煩
3. 回頭確定溝通結果,開始執行,例如兩邊爸媽都沒有一定要看日子,我們就選定之後
就直接去訂餐廳
爸媽都沒意見最好,新人想怎麼做就怎麼做
自己的爸媽自己最清楚,所謂的「沒意見」是真沒意見,還是其實不太同意生悶氣、現在
沒意見之後意見一大堆
爸媽超有意見或一直改意見,也只能認了...
雖然是兩個人的結婚,但儀還是得尊重長輩或傳統、婚禮是爸媽的場子(新娘邊敬酒邊
O.S:阿北你哪位)
-----
Q:結婚首要任務是什麼?
A:定日子。
Q:決定日子要幹嘛?
A:搶餐廳、搶新秘、搶婚攝!!!!!
現在的新人都很瘋狂,在婚期前一年就下訂的大有人在
有的熱門場地、新秘和婚攝一年半前就被訂走也有可能(以下開放聽過更扯的XD)
保險起見,最好平時就多看看不同新秘或婚攝的作品
有個口袋名單比較不會在趕時間時亂找
挑餐廳必須先預估宴客人數和價位,預約看場地時都會被問宴客日期和桌數
飯店、婚宴會館、海鮮餐廳價位上有差,選定一種就已經過濾大部分了
每對新人在意的點不一樣,理想和實際也很~~不一樣
像我們當初希望場地方正挑高沒有柱子、交通方便又好停車、預算11K-14K/桌、菜色好吃
、有贈佈置或主持人佳
然後咧,想也知道沒這種地方啊~~~
經過各種掙扎,覺得一場婚禮最重要的還是賓客開心
對賓客來說,方便到達、好停車、餐點好吃應該比有沒有柱子遮住舞台、
佈置美不美重要吧XD
新秘和婚攝就不多說了,重點只有一個:事前溝通
喜歡怎樣造型、什麼是地雷絕對不要出現在身上、膚質髮質如何巴拉巴拉
我有做一份跟新秘溝通的PPT,有興趣可以跟我索取唷!
→連結在此:https://goo.gl/yolxja←
如果有特別想要拍的人或場景,還是事前跟婚攝提,當天主動cue婚攝
我有點後悔的地方就是整場讓婚攝在旁記錄,事後發現有些人沒有合照到很可惜
但畢竟婚攝也不知道誰對新人比較重要,所以既然都請專業的來了,就物盡其用(?)吧!
------
最後,如果你是沒什麼想法、都可以都好、不確定想要什麼的新人
有比較多的閒錢可以找婚禮顧問公司,喜帖設計、婚禮主視覺、婚禮佈置、主持人、活動
安排什麼都傳便便
有一點閒錢可以找婚禮主持人,所有儀式、宴客活動安排、當天主持都可以handle
沒閒錢就多花點時間上網找資料多比較長知識長經驗
這次先寫個最初步的事項,下次再針對如何進一步籌備做分享!
有什麼問題可以問我唷
--
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