男友為了創業不結婚 - 結婚
By Rebecca
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在一起八年了,從一開始就是以結婚為前提交往。但到現在連結婚的日子都尚未確定。我
覺得我一直在等待,現在我該離開了嗎?從一開始在一起的第一二年他唸大學進修部我陪
他,後來休學了因為工作太忙沒辦法去上課。第三四年他補習考後醫我陪他,因為這是他
的夢想當醫生,雖然認識之前也有補習努力過,但沒考上。隨著年紀越來越大決定再給自
己一次機會,結論沒考過放棄了。之後的日子就是開店。他因為覺得員工不好請,所以要
員工上一到五的平日班,好讓員工可以兼顧家庭與生活品質。自己上六日或遇紅就休的連
假甚至過年除夕到初六的班及每天到晚上12點的班。而我是個上班族朝九晚五遇到國定假
日就休息過年也是長達九天的連假,每次看同事計劃連假去哪裡玩我連想都不敢想因為這
跟我一點關係都沒有我不可能去的。目前他打算頂另外一家店,但我覺得不要因為如果頂
了我的婚期就會無限期延長,如果頂了連休息的時間都沒有。年紀都這麼大了,連婚都還
沒結,有辦法看到小孩子大學畢業嗎?但我說不要頂之後他很難過,他覺得這是個很好的
機會可以賺錢以後可以早一點退休。我看眼前他看未來。我的點應該是連婚都沒結跟你打
拼這麼久最後的成果是雙手奉獻給別人嗎?他的點是如果這兩間店做得好以後我們兩個可
以不用工作好好享受生活。但人是貪心的會就這樣停止展店嗎?他周遭的人都很支持他大
家也紛紛的想投資入股,但你們有想過接下來的假日班誰要來上,過年你們要和家人相聚
還是要上班,不是入股丟了錢就沒事了事業需要經營的。結論,他是不想結婚還是不想跟
我結婚?
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覺得我一直在等待,現在我該離開了嗎?從一開始在一起的第一二年他唸大學進修部我陪
他,後來休學了因為工作太忙沒辦法去上課。第三四年他補習考後醫我陪他,因為這是他
的夢想當醫生,雖然認識之前也有補習努力過,但沒考上。隨著年紀越來越大決定再給自
己一次機會,結論沒考過放棄了。之後的日子就是開店。他因為覺得員工不好請,所以要
員工上一到五的平日班,好讓員工可以兼顧家庭與生活品質。自己上六日或遇紅就休的連
假甚至過年除夕到初六的班及每天到晚上12點的班。而我是個上班族朝九晚五遇到國定假
日就休息過年也是長達九天的連假,每次看同事計劃連假去哪裡玩我連想都不敢想因為這
跟我一點關係都沒有我不可能去的。目前他打算頂另外一家店,但我覺得不要因為如果頂
了我的婚期就會無限期延長,如果頂了連休息的時間都沒有。年紀都這麼大了,連婚都還
沒結,有辦法看到小孩子大學畢業嗎?但我說不要頂之後他很難過,他覺得這是個很好的
機會可以賺錢以後可以早一點退休。我看眼前他看未來。我的點應該是連婚都沒結跟你打
拼這麼久最後的成果是雙手奉獻給別人嗎?他的點是如果這兩間店做得好以後我們兩個可
以不用工作好好享受生活。但人是貪心的會就這樣停止展店嗎?他周遭的人都很支持他大
家也紛紛的想投資入股,但你們有想過接下來的假日班誰要來上,過年你們要和家人相聚
還是要上班,不是入股丟了錢就沒事了事業需要經營的。結論,他是不想結婚還是不想跟
我結婚?
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