生男生的油飯禮俗 - 婚姻

By Frederica
at 2022-01-24T16:35
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好吧,是真的請教大家因為習俗這種東西上網查版本一堆
要怎麼做我們家真的不懂。有補充了對習俗的狀況
我爸爸只拜自己祖先(甚至連清明節都不掃墓只有過年去掃)
我媽媽基督教徒不拿香
我大學畢業到30歲都在桃園(客家庄跟南北部習俗可能也有差異)
我上有兩個姊姊,結婚通通只有吃大餅(百斤內)
禮俗儀式等等我爸媽的態度都是請對方提出他們一律配合
我兩個姊姊生了五個孫子我爸也都沒有要求要幹嘛
就只是包紅包給孫子跟女兒。也沒有遇到姊夫家有說我們習俗上可以幹嘛
對於油飯的認知,我跟我爸都以為這是我生兒子他得了孫子
因為疫情沒有辦宴客所以藉機發油飯給親朋好友一同分享喜悅
說給外婆六盒並不是說你不能發油飯還是怎樣。就一個單純請你們也吃油飯
至於我看大家推文反映確實跟我一開始認知相同。各自統計各自處理
我爸有問我老婆問他阿你的油飯你是要另外訂還是跟我們一起訂都可以
我爸認知是已經結婚就算本家人。但外婆那部分當然不再範疇內
補充大概這樣吧。你們的針貶我可以理解
但我就單純想知道究竟是我們家太失禮俗還是我岳母有點硬ㄠ
以上
至於我太太。他本身比較木訥不擅於協調。所以我也不會怪他也都跟他好好溝通
至於他跟他媽媽他有告訴我他跟他媽是無法溝通的。講到這件事情都被罵
他也不想再跟他媽講這些事情。感謝大家在推文內的指教
我自己看完大概知道我要用甚麼態度了
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要怎麼做我們家真的不懂。有補充了對習俗的狀況
我爸爸只拜自己祖先(甚至連清明節都不掃墓只有過年去掃)
我媽媽基督教徒不拿香
我大學畢業到30歲都在桃園(客家庄跟南北部習俗可能也有差異)
我上有兩個姊姊,結婚通通只有吃大餅(百斤內)
禮俗儀式等等我爸媽的態度都是請對方提出他們一律配合
我兩個姊姊生了五個孫子我爸也都沒有要求要幹嘛
就只是包紅包給孫子跟女兒。也沒有遇到姊夫家有說我們習俗上可以幹嘛
對於油飯的認知,我跟我爸都以為這是我生兒子他得了孫子
因為疫情沒有辦宴客所以藉機發油飯給親朋好友一同分享喜悅
說給外婆六盒並不是說你不能發油飯還是怎樣。就一個單純請你們也吃油飯
至於我看大家推文反映確實跟我一開始認知相同。各自統計各自處理
我爸有問我老婆問他阿你的油飯你是要另外訂還是跟我們一起訂都可以
我爸認知是已經結婚就算本家人。但外婆那部分當然不再範疇內
補充大概這樣吧。你們的針貶我可以理解
但我就單純想知道究竟是我們家太失禮俗還是我岳母有點硬ㄠ
以上
至於我太太。他本身比較木訥不擅於協調。所以我也不會怪他也都跟他好好溝通
至於他跟他媽媽他有告訴我他跟他媽是無法溝通的。講到這件事情都被罵
他也不想再跟他媽講這些事情。感謝大家在推文內的指教
我自己看完大概知道我要用甚麼態度了
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