為什麼好像是我一個人結婚 - 結婚
By Hazel
at 2020-03-25T23:36
at 2020-03-25T23:36
Table of Contents
婚事繁瑣,真的考驗了感情還有兩人的個性和價值觀
姑且不論討論儀式的各種爭執
就連決定什麼時候要做什麼
都是女方我在決定
什麼時候要找婚紗公司
什麼時候要找場地
新秘婚攝要找誰
活動要怎麼辦
拍照要什麼風格
六禮什麼時候要買
你什麼時候來我家溝通
為什麼什麼事情都是我要決定好,安排好
好像結婚是我一個人的事
自己的媽媽一直生氣
覺得男方家長不聞不問
新郎也一樣
什麼事情講好的,都會忘記,或是沒有溝通好
媒人也形同虛設
連一通電話都沒有
最後是我條列式所有流程和要準備的東西
跟自己的媽媽溝通完後拿給男方。
如果我規定說,你要去把某件事完成,
只會聽到好累喔,好啦我會做,我會改
然後呢
然後呢
然後呢
一而再再而三的催促和溝通
一定要等到我發飆
才會趕快去完成
我真的好累喔!
這就是我的搭檔嗎?
上班很累我可以理解
但下班之後,為什麼還是一樣呢?
六日也可以幫忙想啊
這個人就是我未來要一起生活的對象嗎?
其實婚禮前就是各種的考驗
我現在確實知道他是這種人
撇除這點,他還是很愛我為我做很多事
但是這點真的讓我很崩潰啊!
該如何調適心情
而且就這樣每次調適,我要調適一輩子啊!
各位過來人們
可以幫我開導一下嗎?
這禮拜就要訂婚了
還是我應該踩煞車?
比較有空的人就應該負責全部?
有時候真的覺得他的心態根本沒有準備好...
只會開給我空頭支票
還是我根本還沒準備好要接受這樣的他?
更別說,他們家很亂很髒,對方家長還希望我們住在家...
生活習慣我真的無法忍受
已婚朋友只會說,過了就好了
真的會好嗎?
我只覺得崩潰啊
--
姑且不論討論儀式的各種爭執
就連決定什麼時候要做什麼
都是女方我在決定
什麼時候要找婚紗公司
什麼時候要找場地
新秘婚攝要找誰
活動要怎麼辦
拍照要什麼風格
六禮什麼時候要買
你什麼時候來我家溝通
為什麼什麼事情都是我要決定好,安排好
好像結婚是我一個人的事
自己的媽媽一直生氣
覺得男方家長不聞不問
新郎也一樣
什麼事情講好的,都會忘記,或是沒有溝通好
媒人也形同虛設
連一通電話都沒有
最後是我條列式所有流程和要準備的東西
跟自己的媽媽溝通完後拿給男方。
如果我規定說,你要去把某件事完成,
只會聽到好累喔,好啦我會做,我會改
然後呢
然後呢
然後呢
一而再再而三的催促和溝通
一定要等到我發飆
才會趕快去完成
我真的好累喔!
這就是我的搭檔嗎?
上班很累我可以理解
但下班之後,為什麼還是一樣呢?
六日也可以幫忙想啊
這個人就是我未來要一起生活的對象嗎?
其實婚禮前就是各種的考驗
我現在確實知道他是這種人
撇除這點,他還是很愛我為我做很多事
但是這點真的讓我很崩潰啊!
該如何調適心情
而且就這樣每次調適,我要調適一輩子啊!
各位過來人們
可以幫我開導一下嗎?
這禮拜就要訂婚了
還是我應該踩煞車?
比較有空的人就應該負責全部?
有時候真的覺得他的心態根本沒有準備好...
只會開給我空頭支票
還是我根本還沒準備好要接受這樣的他?
更別說,他們家很亂很髒,對方家長還希望我們住在家...
生活習慣我真的無法忍受
已婚朋友只會說,過了就好了
真的會好嗎?
我只覺得崩潰啊
--
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