每次開車就會大吵... - 婚姻
By Kelly
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是否同意記者抄文:NO
我在大學時期就有考到駕照
但因為之前娘家在市區 且婚前工作都在娘家附近(騎車10分鐘內)
娘家爸爸跟哥哥都會開車 所以就沒有積極練習開車
婚後因為搬到新北比較偏遠地區
因我跟先生都是在台北市區內上班 所以目前都是先生開車到公司 我再轉公車到公司
(上班時間也是要45-50分鐘)
若先生休假 則是我自己搭大眾交通工作 單趟就要1小時左右
因為住家附近 實在是比較偏鄉下 附近只有便利商店
要買東西、看醫生等等 都是要騎車或開車
雖然我會騎車 但是下雨天等等總是比較不方便
且之前先生生病就一直抱怨我不會開車不能載他去看醫生
但之前每次先生教我開車 總是講的不清不處 做不對馬上就被責罵
所以我自己找了道路駕駛的教練來學
上完四堂課12小時道路駕駛後 我也終於有點信心可以上路 至少慢慢開沒問題
但是每次要出門 還是會大吵 因為先生總會不斷批評
像是說我等紅綠燈手放開方向盤啦
或是煞車太急 車速太慢(限速40 我都開到47-48了) 或是沒有開在路中間等等
不然就是說這樣對車子不好 之後車有問題也是他要善後等等
我覺得先生自己開車也很危險 老愛變換車道、逼車等等
但是我從來不會批評
因為吵太多次 所以我就直接嗆說那以後你就不要抱怨說每次都是你在跑東跑西
先生則是說開車技術本來就是我以前婚前就要自己學會的 (我如果沒跟他結婚住家裡 根
本不需要學開車好嗎?!)
我們雙方堅持自己沒有問題
我認為先生對於新手要求非常高(要不違規 速度快 車子穩 轉彎順)且只會不斷批評
先生堅持說我就是亂開 是馬路三寶
想請問大家 針對這個情況 有什麼比較好的溝通方式嗎?
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我在大學時期就有考到駕照
但因為之前娘家在市區 且婚前工作都在娘家附近(騎車10分鐘內)
娘家爸爸跟哥哥都會開車 所以就沒有積極練習開車
婚後因為搬到新北比較偏遠地區
因我跟先生都是在台北市區內上班 所以目前都是先生開車到公司 我再轉公車到公司
(上班時間也是要45-50分鐘)
若先生休假 則是我自己搭大眾交通工作 單趟就要1小時左右
因為住家附近 實在是比較偏鄉下 附近只有便利商店
要買東西、看醫生等等 都是要騎車或開車
雖然我會騎車 但是下雨天等等總是比較不方便
且之前先生生病就一直抱怨我不會開車不能載他去看醫生
但之前每次先生教我開車 總是講的不清不處 做不對馬上就被責罵
所以我自己找了道路駕駛的教練來學
上完四堂課12小時道路駕駛後 我也終於有點信心可以上路 至少慢慢開沒問題
但是每次要出門 還是會大吵 因為先生總會不斷批評
像是說我等紅綠燈手放開方向盤啦
或是煞車太急 車速太慢(限速40 我都開到47-48了) 或是沒有開在路中間等等
不然就是說這樣對車子不好 之後車有問題也是他要善後等等
我覺得先生自己開車也很危險 老愛變換車道、逼車等等
但是我從來不會批評
因為吵太多次 所以我就直接嗆說那以後你就不要抱怨說每次都是你在跑東跑西
先生則是說開車技術本來就是我以前婚前就要自己學會的 (我如果沒跟他結婚住家裡 根
本不需要學開車好嗎?!)
我們雙方堅持自己沒有問題
我認為先生對於新手要求非常高(要不違規 速度快 車子穩 轉彎順)且只會不斷批評
先生堅持說我就是亂開 是馬路三寶
想請問大家 針對這個情況 有什麼比較好的溝通方式嗎?
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