本以為結婚後是親情 產後發現愛情還在 - 婚姻

By Liam
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是這樣的 我跟我太座是從大學2年級開始交往
交往9年後結婚到現在也已經將近11年了
其實婚後相處已經變成像家人一樣的相處方式
頂多就是看看電視 聊聊工作 兩個互相白目讓對方森77
也會因為生活習慣的不同 對彼此會有情緒
不過一直到昨天 我才發現我對她的愛還是很重?
我們本來預產期是7/5 結果在昨天凌晨4點半的時候 她跟我說她羊水破了
一直到晚上9點半才順利生產完(差點吃全餐)
晚上大概7點左右 她開始劇烈疼痛(子宮收縮的點滴有加強)
因為3點有進食的關係所以預計要在11點麻醉 剖腹
所以就沒有讓她打無痛 她也說她撐得住
可是大概到8點左右 她開始歇斯底里
也就是在這短短的3小時 我非常不忍 也很無助不知道該做甚麼能幫助她
也因為她開始歇斯底里 我說 不用等11點了 現在請麻醉師來幫她打無痛
就算兩針無痛也沒關係 起碼我不想看她這樣
而我當下的情緒 是非常非常心疼到 我自己都哭出來那種
就在護理師聯絡麻醉的同時 她說她忍不住了 一定要出力
護理長馬上來幫她內診 8點測的時候 還是4指
忽然在9點 已經開到8指了,也因為早產 體重才2300
護理長當下馬上推產房 請院長接生
說到這裡 先給我老婆一個respect 她沒有打無痛 麻醉師來不及過來了
一直到生完 我關心的不是小孩子 而是我老婆變輕鬆了嗎 舒緩了嗎
她解脫了嗎 平安了嗎 當下的想法一直是這樣 根本不想管小孩是否早產
只是不想讓我老婆繼續忍受這種痛苦的想法
我還叫護理師趕快把小孩抱到嬰兒房 我沒很想看
(對了 我沒進產房觀察生產,我老婆強烈拒絕我跟著進去)
直到她平安出產房 對我笑的那刻 我才放鬆
也才意識過來 雖然在外面嘴巴講歸講 原來我還是這麼在乎她
在這邊跟所有男人講啊 不要再說你大男人啦
在這煎熬的16小時 我體會到 大男人你妹啦!!你甚麼忙都幫不上
最有成就感的時候只有到櫃台結帳 慶幸你還有錢可以繳這樣而已啦
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交往9年後結婚到現在也已經將近11年了
其實婚後相處已經變成像家人一樣的相處方式
頂多就是看看電視 聊聊工作 兩個互相白目讓對方森77
也會因為生活習慣的不同 對彼此會有情緒
不過一直到昨天 我才發現我對她的愛還是很重?
我們本來預產期是7/5 結果在昨天凌晨4點半的時候 她跟我說她羊水破了
一直到晚上9點半才順利生產完(差點吃全餐)
晚上大概7點左右 她開始劇烈疼痛(子宮收縮的點滴有加強)
因為3點有進食的關係所以預計要在11點麻醉 剖腹
所以就沒有讓她打無痛 她也說她撐得住
可是大概到8點左右 她開始歇斯底里
也就是在這短短的3小時 我非常不忍 也很無助不知道該做甚麼能幫助她
也因為她開始歇斯底里 我說 不用等11點了 現在請麻醉師來幫她打無痛
就算兩針無痛也沒關係 起碼我不想看她這樣
而我當下的情緒 是非常非常心疼到 我自己都哭出來那種
就在護理師聯絡麻醉的同時 她說她忍不住了 一定要出力
護理長馬上來幫她內診 8點測的時候 還是4指
忽然在9點 已經開到8指了,也因為早產 體重才2300
護理長當下馬上推產房 請院長接生
說到這裡 先給我老婆一個respect 她沒有打無痛 麻醉師來不及過來了
一直到生完 我關心的不是小孩子 而是我老婆變輕鬆了嗎 舒緩了嗎
她解脫了嗎 平安了嗎 當下的想法一直是這樣 根本不想管小孩是否早產
只是不想讓我老婆繼續忍受這種痛苦的想法
我還叫護理師趕快把小孩抱到嬰兒房 我沒很想看
(對了 我沒進產房觀察生產,我老婆強烈拒絕我跟著進去)
直到她平安出產房 對我笑的那刻 我才放鬆
也才意識過來 雖然在外面嘴巴講歸講 原來我還是這麼在乎她
在這邊跟所有男人講啊 不要再說你大男人啦
在這煎熬的16小時 我體會到 大男人你妹啦!!你甚麼忙都幫不上
最有成就感的時候只有到櫃台結帳 慶幸你還有錢可以繳這樣而已啦
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By Charlotte
at 2021-05-26T09:43
at 2021-05-26T09:43
住所地點的選擇?

By Mason
at 2021-05-26T09:31
at 2021-05-26T09:31