朋友想要離鄉去開餐廳 - 異國戀

By Charlotte
at 2013-03-31T04:21
at 2013-03-31T04:21
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當時大學空閒時後報考多益,想說趁求學最後階段考考英文證照
同寢好朋友提議一起去XX村學美語增加聽寫能力
當初聽聽想說是很好的學習機會,也就二話不說一同參加了
考完之後同寢同學還是依然天天去,甚至連午餐都不跟我們吃了
後來逼問之下,原來他跟一位jason的老師有往來(而且聽說很快就..)
當然大家也覺得很棒,恭喜阿,而且可以有個免費的英文老師多好阿
事過一年,再過不久大家都要畢業了,當大家都在替自己的出路頭昏腦脹
他也頭昏腦脹,分享出來才知道,原來當初jason說等他畢業要帶他一起回texas
開家賣披薩的精緻小餐廳,現在即將畢業.可是大家也知道的,亞洲父母傳統觀念很重
嫁出去也就罷了,可是這兩位連同居都沒有,說什麼也很難接受.
而且覺得沒見過對方家庭跟父母,也不知道對方家庭背景如何
同學則是很理智的把感情跟就業先分開,認為在台灣現在出來頂多26K還未必有升遷機會
如果在台灣26K又跟感情綁在一起生活會比較辛苦,兩全其美的辦法就是去一趟texas開餐
廳,自己當老闆請員工比較賺,生活也比較愜意,而且在國外環境眼界可以看更遠.
所以同學就覺得幸福是自己的,且嫁出去了也是跟夫家,打算義無反顧的搭機走人
我是尊重他的決定,不過想請問板上很有經驗的大家
如果這樣出國,有沒有國籍的問題?
還有需要注意什麼??
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同寢好朋友提議一起去XX村學美語增加聽寫能力
當初聽聽想說是很好的學習機會,也就二話不說一同參加了
考完之後同寢同學還是依然天天去,甚至連午餐都不跟我們吃了
後來逼問之下,原來他跟一位jason的老師有往來(而且聽說很快就..)
當然大家也覺得很棒,恭喜阿,而且可以有個免費的英文老師多好阿
事過一年,再過不久大家都要畢業了,當大家都在替自己的出路頭昏腦脹
他也頭昏腦脹,分享出來才知道,原來當初jason說等他畢業要帶他一起回texas
開家賣披薩的精緻小餐廳,現在即將畢業.可是大家也知道的,亞洲父母傳統觀念很重
嫁出去也就罷了,可是這兩位連同居都沒有,說什麼也很難接受.
而且覺得沒見過對方家庭跟父母,也不知道對方家庭背景如何
同學則是很理智的把感情跟就業先分開,認為在台灣現在出來頂多26K還未必有升遷機會
如果在台灣26K又跟感情綁在一起生活會比較辛苦,兩全其美的辦法就是去一趟texas開餐
廳,自己當老闆請員工比較賺,生活也比較愜意,而且在國外環境眼界可以看更遠.
所以同學就覺得幸福是自己的,且嫁出去了也是跟夫家,打算義無反顧的搭機走人
我是尊重他的決定,不過想請問板上很有經驗的大家
如果這樣出國,有沒有國籍的問題?
還有需要注意什麼??
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