有多少人會變這樣的老母呢? - 婚姻

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The Wall Street Journal的文章

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Ph值頗低

所以設一個防爆頁

三思後再往下看















http://online.wsj.com/article/SB10001424052748704111504576059713528698754.html

Why Chinese Mothers Are Superior
Can a regimen of no playdates, no TV, no computer games and hours of music
practice create happy kids? And what happens when they fight back?

By AMY CHUA

A lot of people wonder how Chinese parents raise such stereotypically
successful kids. They wonder what these parents do to produce so many math
whizzes and music prodigies, what it's like inside the family, and whether
they could do it too. Well, I can tell them, because I've done it. Here are
some things my daughters, Sophia and Louisa, were never allowed to do:

‧ attend a sleepover

‧ have a playdate

‧ be in a school play

‧ complain about not being in a school play

‧ watch TV or play computer games

‧ choose their own extracurricular activities

‧ get any grade less than an A

‧ not be the No. 1 student in every subject except gym and drama

‧ play any instrument other than the piano or violin

‧ not play the piano or violin.

到這裡算小菜

文章很長就不貼完了,有興趣的板友可以點link繼續看

很多人一定會說太誇張,不可能變成這樣

確實有一些部份是誇張

但是少子化的影響(聽說有資源集中這種論調?) + 現在父母寶貝兒女的程度

是不是絕對不可能呢?

我只能科科了^^

http://online.wsj.com/article/SB10001424052748704111504576059713528698754.html

補一個相關新聞的link

http://udn.com/NEWS/WORLD/WOR3/6088367.shtml

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All Comments

Oliver avatarOliver2011-01-13
我被排除在外了,因為我兒子現在就在看電視和打電動..
Doris avatarDoris2011-01-14
PS3神童?不是年紀還頗小? XD
Damian avatarDamian2011-01-17
孩子生之前會想很多,孩子生了以後就隨便了。XDDD
Isla avatarIsla2011-01-20
哈哈哈 好文
Franklin avatarFranklin2011-01-23
靠...我正在教大寶二寶鋼琴 他們再大一點 內人就會教小提琴
有一種囧爆的感覺.......
Donna avatarDonna2011-01-25
借轉寶媽版 謝謝
Aaliyah avatarAaliyah2011-01-25
我家沒PS3,不過PS2、PSP、NDS、wii、iphone...他全會玩
Lily avatarLily2011-01-27
之前還把我WOW的角色開出城打怪...才四歲多而已...囧
Vanessa avatarVanessa2011-01-30
有天份....
Madame avatarMadame2011-02-03
剛剛在下面推文才講到這篇XDDDDD
Jake avatarJake2011-02-05
我覺得這個文章是提共美國家長一種不同的思考方向
因為美國家長是真的頗放任,但他們現在也面臨到一些問題
Damian avatarDamian2011-02-09
其實我自己接觸的經驗是韓國爸媽比華人爸媽更恐怖XDDDD
Olivia avatarOlivia2011-02-10
drama比我家的還強! 我家只到NDS、wii、iphone、iPad
Suhail Hany avatarSuhail Hany2011-02-14
為了不要讓孩子輸在起跑點,再多買幾台吧....
Franklin avatarFranklin2011-02-19
這個amy媽自己是耶魯法律系教授,老公是成功的猶太人
Eden avatarEden2011-02-22
而她菑v的父親更是史丹佛還是柏克萊(忘了)ee教授
Blanche avatarBlanche2011-02-24
拿這個然後再冠上個Chinese感覺就很方便
Kama avatarKama2011-02-28
說真的我一開始看這篇文章我還以為在反諷呢XDDDDDDD
Linda avatarLinda2011-03-04
但我某種程度上也同意文中某幾個觀點,像是當你把某件事
Kyle avatarKyle2011-03-04
做到很好時你才會享受這件事情,或是美國教育忽視了背誦
的重要性。我對她講的西方家長重視孩子自尊是因為他們假
Ina avatarIna2011-03-06
設自己孩子很軟弱,東方家長削孩子面子是因為他們認為自
Kumar avatarKumar2011-03-06
己孩子很堅強這類說法感到新鮮。不過凡事過猶不及....
Hedda avatarHedda2011-03-07
我家有ps3
NT300表示:標題漏了「英國科學家」
Lauren avatarLauren2011-03-08
這文章標題就引戰了 看到一個好引戰的comment:
This woman is a 21st century Chinese Nazi XDDDD
Enid avatarEnid2011-03-10
之前我有看到一本書,書名叫孩子的成功百分之99是媽媽的努力
別的韓國人爸媽是不知道,這個作者感覺有點恐怖XD
Thomas avatarThomas2011-03-13
不曉得那樣的韓國媽媽多不多就是了
Necoo avatarNecoo2011-03-18
我表姊真的這樣做(茶)她兒子高智商念MIT,女兒主修鋼琴,兩
個小孩都拿獎學金~~不過都是生活白癡