有人因為狗或寵物跟另一半離婚的嗎? - 婚姻

By Ursula
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先說我是狗本,看不下去的人請勿閱讀
我跟先生在一起前就有一隻養了5年的狗
當初交往前他就知道我有多愛他以及我是會讓狗上床的
他起初都沒有任何意見也常常陪我帶狗出去玩
後來他才跟我說其實他是完全不愛任何小動物的
但因為我的狗很乖,在家不會吠叫,會定點小便
所以他覺得還可以接受
交往同居時間久了,他也開始會嫌棄我的狗
例如會掉毛、有味道、沒尿準尿在地上等等
也會跟狗吃醋,說我睡覺都抱狗不抱他
那我自己的原則就是
狗是我養的,跟狗有關的所有一切生活用品飼料尿布
包含清潔用的溼紙巾甚至空氣清淨機等等
我一定都是自己買
再來餵飯加飲用水大小便清潔一定都是我自己做
所以常常我比較晚下班到家
家裡有狗屎或尿味,我先生完全不用處理(他鼻塞聞不到不影響)
上超過12小時的班我也不會要求他要幫我餵狗
我會自己設定自動餵食機
我只是想表達,狗是我養的,我不會麻煩到他
但他當初既然交往前就知道我如何養狗,他沒有異議
他就不要有「狗重要還他重要」的這種想法
他沒有不重要,但狗對我來說真的就像無法生活自理的小孩
他沒有我可以活,但狗沒有我不行,我一定會選狗的
當然中間也有因為狗在家裡搗蛋引發各種衝突
但我仍然十分感謝我先生對我的狗的一切包容
上個月我的狗生病走了
送她離開的時候我先生給我非常多的支持
我只能說真的要能互相理解跟同理
這個不太容易,因為狗本跟非狗本基礎上真的差太多
所以愛狗的人不要把一切當理所當然,不要造成他人困擾
但不愛狗的也不要動不動覺得「只是一條狗(畜牲)而已」
狗的確是畜牲的一種,人不也是嗎
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我跟先生在一起前就有一隻養了5年的狗
當初交往前他就知道我有多愛他以及我是會讓狗上床的
他起初都沒有任何意見也常常陪我帶狗出去玩
後來他才跟我說其實他是完全不愛任何小動物的
但因為我的狗很乖,在家不會吠叫,會定點小便
所以他覺得還可以接受
交往同居時間久了,他也開始會嫌棄我的狗
例如會掉毛、有味道、沒尿準尿在地上等等
也會跟狗吃醋,說我睡覺都抱狗不抱他
那我自己的原則就是
狗是我養的,跟狗有關的所有一切生活用品飼料尿布
包含清潔用的溼紙巾甚至空氣清淨機等等
我一定都是自己買
再來餵飯加飲用水大小便清潔一定都是我自己做
所以常常我比較晚下班到家
家裡有狗屎或尿味,我先生完全不用處理(他鼻塞聞不到不影響)
上超過12小時的班我也不會要求他要幫我餵狗
我會自己設定自動餵食機
我只是想表達,狗是我養的,我不會麻煩到他
但他當初既然交往前就知道我如何養狗,他沒有異議
他就不要有「狗重要還他重要」的這種想法
他沒有不重要,但狗對我來說真的就像無法生活自理的小孩
他沒有我可以活,但狗沒有我不行,我一定會選狗的
當然中間也有因為狗在家裡搗蛋引發各種衝突
但我仍然十分感謝我先生對我的狗的一切包容
上個月我的狗生病走了
送她離開的時候我先生給我非常多的支持
我只能說真的要能互相理解跟同理
這個不太容易,因為狗本跟非狗本基礎上真的差太多
所以愛狗的人不要把一切當理所當然,不要造成他人困擾
但不愛狗的也不要動不動覺得「只是一條狗(畜牲)而已」
狗的確是畜牲的一種,人不也是嗎
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