是難解還是無解? - 婚姻

William avatar
By William
at 2020-10-01T10:34

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不要生小孩
不要強迫自己要當好女婿

你是不是覺得你當好女婿會增進老婆跟婆家感情?

沒有這回事的。

我們大概只有跟婆家關係差跟你們一樣
小家庭享受很多娘家資源
但娘家的事情,我不會要我先生去幫忙
除非真的有他該幫忙的(專業相關)
交際應酬就是以電話為主
一年大概一起吃三次飯
每兩三年會一起家族旅遊一次

沒有準備好,真的不要小孩
要雙方一致期待孩子來,兩人步調一樣
我目前在進行試管的療程
每天都瘋狂脹氣,無法入睡
但這是我想要的.....當然不是想要脹氣
我想要孩子,我先生也想要,我願意幫他一起要...但不是幫他生,因為我自己才是最想的
人。
他很努力關心我,不停地說謝謝,讓我深感溫暖

流產/外孕都經歷過
每次去婦產科都會發現新問題
這次療程竟然沒有被醫師說哪裡不好
我已經非常滿足了.....
取卵取了比我們想像更多的卵,今天是D5決勝日,希望他們好好的。

不被婆家樂見/跟婆家關係差
對夫妻關係而言是有一定殺傷力
要雙方感情夠好,夠感恩彼此,夠包容才行。
雖然我跟婆家關係還是很差,絕不見面
但最少已經11個月沒有叫我們離婚了
前兩年大概每三個月就一次XD

目前我們已經不讓這個問題是問題了
且戰且走,勇敢前行
很像選舉口號,但這是我面對婚姻的方式

我們每天都會謝謝彼此,跟彼此表達愛
我很喜歡這樣的關係

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Tags: 婚姻

All Comments

Jacob avatar
By Jacob
at 2020-10-02T03:06
你們這樣比較正常
Olive avatar
By Olive
at 2020-10-05T09:58
希望你們能成功
Hedda avatar
By Hedda
at 2020-10-10T03:33
祝好孕
Edwina avatar
By Edwina
at 2020-10-10T22:43
你們很棒!
Blanche avatar
By Blanche
at 2020-10-15T06:17
祝好孕
Eden avatar
By Eden
at 2020-10-16T10:35
我覺得原原po與家人同住時就把關係搞壞了,老婆被羞
辱他好像不覺得怎樣,等到人家受夠了不願意再跟他家
人相處,他又說自己像入贅的,但有因就有果@@
Charlie avatar
By Charlie
at 2020-10-21T02:56
Carol avatar
By Carol
at 2020-10-23T02:46
加油!祝好孕!
Erin avatar
By Erin
at 2020-10-25T17:38
這一定要祝好孕
Joseph avatar
By Joseph
at 2020-10-27T22:31
老婆被他家人羞辱不見面不是很正常嗎,那一趴根本帶
Megan avatar
By Megan
at 2020-10-30T14:58
推伴侶要相互扶持不是相互欠債。也祝你們一切順利
Ingrid avatar
By Ingrid
at 2020-11-02T11:56
祝好孕!我也是不喜歡請先生幫忙娘家什麼事的人,
我覺得一家子歸一家子。他們需要什麼,我很樂意也主
動協助,但我家就不用了,他可以來幫忙就是對他很感
謝。
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By Skylar DavisLinda
at 2020-11-03T15:20
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By David
at 2020-11-05T01:42
祝好孕!加油!
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By Kristin
at 2020-11-08T04:19
祝好孕+1
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By Hardy
at 2020-11-10T22:46
祝妳好孕:)
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By Kama
at 2020-11-11T20:35
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By Ursula
at 2020-11-16T05:46
祝好孕:)
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By Zenobia
at 2020-11-20T05:54
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By Ingrid
at 2020-11-21T05:08
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at 2020-11-23T08:27
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at 2020-11-23T16:54
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at 2020-11-25T13:24
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at 2020-11-29T20:49
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at 2020-12-03T01:08
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at 2020-12-06T02:23
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at 2020-12-10T19:06
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at 2020-12-12T09:22
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at 2020-12-15T00:50
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at 2020-12-17T00:39
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By Carol
at 2020-12-19T10:06
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By Dinah
at 2020-12-20T19:36
祝福好孕
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By Harry
at 2020-12-22T07:35
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By Quanna
at 2020-12-24T14:28
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By Dorothy
at 2020-12-28T04:53
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By Jacob
at 2020-12-28T23:41
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By Hedwig
at 2020-12-30T20:01
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By Blanche
at 2021-01-04T11:57
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By Oliver
at 2021-01-09T04:35
祝福你們
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By Gary
at 2021-01-11T18:16
推~當個好女婿完全不會拉近婆家距離
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By John
at 2021-01-14T08:07
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By Edith
at 2021-01-17T18:08
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at 2021-01-21T04:01
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By Dorothy
at 2021-01-23T03:48
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By Damian
at 2021-01-25T20:28
祝福你們
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By Susan
at 2021-01-28T23:43
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By Bennie
at 2021-02-02T22:24
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By Belly
at 2021-02-04T02:31
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By Enid
at 2021-02-08T07:17
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By Mary
at 2021-02-11T17:23
祝好孕!很喜歡妳的文,妳一定會是好媽媽的!
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By Audriana
at 2021-02-13T09:49
祝你好孕到!
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By Cara
at 2021-02-15T00:43
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By Hedwig
at 2021-02-18T01:45
祝好孕! 您一定會是一位好媽媽的:)
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By Anonymous
at 2021-02-22T21:05
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By Regina
at 2021-02-23T22:07
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By Joseph
at 2021-02-28T14:41
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By Doris
at 2021-03-01T02:33
z大超棒的,祝福你們心想事成!
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By Daniel
at 2021-03-05T13:41
喜歡你的態度!祝好運!!
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By Andy
at 2021-03-08T09:33
祝好孕!!我們正在努力!一起加油
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By Dorothy
at 2021-03-09T06:27
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By Olive
at 2021-03-10T18:51
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at 2021-03-13T09:03
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at 2021-03-17T20:35
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at 2021-03-22T09:27
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at 2021-03-24T22:09
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By Madame
at 2021-03-25T16:32
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at 2021-03-27T19:48
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at 2021-03-29T22:08
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By Brianna
at 2021-04-01T03:50
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By Kumar
at 2021-04-02T12:18
祝成功!!(念力)
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By Necoo
at 2021-04-02T19:46
祝成功
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By Yuri
at 2021-04-03T10:17
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By Ursula
at 2021-04-08T08:35
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By Caitlin
at 2021-04-13T06:55
祝好孕~
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By Lauren
at 2021-04-16T18:19
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By Megan
at 2021-04-19T03:24
祝好孕!:)
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By Bethany
at 2021-04-23T05:09
好正面!真好~祝福中秋好孕到!
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By Linda
at 2021-04-27T08:45
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By Queena
at 2021-05-01T07:50
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By Rae
at 2021-05-04T16:27
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By Jacob
at 2021-05-05T22:47
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By Carolina Franco
at 2021-05-08T19:41
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By Madame
at 2021-05-11T09:18
還以為來到好孕版 XDDD 祝試管成功!
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By Donna
at 2021-05-13T21:02
加油!試管很辛苦,有個會關心體諒的老公很重要!你
很幸福也很勇敢,一定會成功的!
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By Kelly
at 2021-05-14T19:50
祝好孕!真的是彼此願意相扶持才有繼續走下去的理由
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By Linda
at 2021-05-15T06:31
加油,baby快來了
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By Hamiltion
at 2021-05-16T20:07
祝好孕
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By Linda
at 2021-05-20T07:53
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By Agatha
at 2021-05-24T12:36
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By Hamiltion
at 2021-05-25T13:48
祝好孕~
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By Emily
at 2021-05-27T17:54
看到下面滿滿祝好孕,我也以為跑錯版XD
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By Sandy
at 2021-05-30T23:52
祝好孕呦!
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By Candice
at 2021-06-03T22:34
祝您好孕到!!記得回來跟大家分享結果喔
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By Donna
at 2021-06-05T15:29
祝好孕
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By Catherine
at 2021-06-07T14:04
祝福妳,希望妳願望能快快實現
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By Olive
at 2021-06-12T01:38
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By Ula
at 2021-06-13T12:48
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By Megan
at 2021-06-14T03:09
祝好孕!加油!
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at 2021-06-18T05:35
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at 2021-06-19T01:51
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at 2021-06-22T23:21
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at 2021-06-27T19:32
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By Callum
at 2021-06-29T23:19
祝好孕,推推,夫妻夠穩固一同面對真的很棒
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By Freda
at 2021-06-30T04:10
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By Gary
at 2021-07-01T11:30
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By Oliver
at 2021-07-04T17:13
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at 2021-07-09T02:54
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By Kristin
at 2021-07-13T19:56
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at 2021-07-16T07:49
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By Delia
at 2021-07-17T15:26
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By Jacob
at 2021-07-18T15:10
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at 2021-07-22T18:05
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at 2021-07-26T17:36
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at 2021-07-28T11:44
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at 2021-07-30T18:27
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By Hedda
at 2021-08-02T04:43
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By Skylar Davis
at 2021-08-04T01:14
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By Una
at 2021-08-05T09:56
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By Rachel
at 2021-08-09T02:10
祝好孕!他聲明不會花言巧語,可能不像你老公溫暖
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By William
at 2021-08-10T15:06
祝好孕
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By Emma
at 2021-08-12T16:32
祝福好孕到:)
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By Catherine
at 2021-08-15T04:01
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By Charlie
at 2021-08-16T07:47
祝好孕~
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By Hedda
at 2021-08-18T08:51
正面文必需推 祝好孕
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By Selena
at 2021-08-21T21:50
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By Christine
at 2021-08-22T00:21
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at 2021-08-24T14:21
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By Gary
at 2021-08-29T10:31
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By Valerie
at 2021-09-03T00:03
祝好孕~
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By Kyle
at 2021-09-05T05:12
祝好運
好孕
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By Quanna
at 2021-09-09T01:23
祝好孕 希望有更多夫妻學習你們的心態
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By Gilbert
at 2021-09-11T00:17
祝好孕+1
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By Tracy
at 2021-09-13T19:41
祝福你得償所願
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at 2021-09-17T11:43
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By Tom
at 2021-09-17T18:47
祝好孕!
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By Una
at 2021-09-18T07:53
就是不要對別人的付出當做應該或理所當然,要感恩
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By Carolina Franco
at 2021-09-21T12:37
祝好孕!!心肝寶貝很快就來找妳了!
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at 2021-09-22T05:24
加油,祝好孕
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at 2021-09-26T06:22
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at 2021-09-30T11:14
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at 2021-10-10T13:30
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at 2021-10-13T18:43
加油,做試管很累
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By Joe
at 2021-10-16T13:26
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By Rachel
at 2021-10-20T15:49
祝好孕!!
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at 2021-10-24T07:48
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at 2021-10-25T09:46
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By James
at 2021-10-29T01:21
加油 好孕
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By Kelly
at 2021-11-01T04:49
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By Edwina
at 2021-11-04T21:22
祝好孕!寶寶快來!
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at 2021-11-08T17:33
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By Joe
at 2021-11-11T17:52
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By Selena
at 2021-11-13T13:48
祝好孕!!!
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By Daph Bay
at 2021-11-15T11:49
祝好孕~ 相信妳會是個好媽媽!
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By Poppy
at 2021-11-19T09:25
祝好孕
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By Hazel
at 2021-11-21T10:46
祝好孕!
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By Jessica
at 2021-11-23T18:08
祝福
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By Frederica
at 2021-11-25T00:50
祝好孕! 我35/38/44生了男男女 願幸運也降福予妳

是難解還是無解?

Faithe avatar
By Faithe
at 2020-10-01T10:17
※ 引述 《jwujwu08》 之銘言: : 標題: [心情] 是難解還是無解? : 時間: Thu Oct 1 02:00:14 2020 :   :   : 是否同意記者抄文:NO :   : 我35歲 老婆37歲 : 我們交往10年,結婚1年 : 小吵不斷,大吵到離婚協議書也簽了好幾次,始終都還是維持 ...

是難解還是無解?

Ivy avatar
By Ivy
at 2020-10-01T10:06
※ 引述《jwujwu08 ()》之銘言: : 是否同意記者抄文:NO : 我35歲 老婆37歲 : 我們交往10年,結婚1年 : 小吵不斷,大吵到離婚協議書也簽了好幾次,始終都還是維持著。 : 每次吵架都會想來看了這個版找找有沒有相同的影子?應該怎麼面對?怎麼做? : 但所有的問題看來都不是往解決的方向再走 ...

是難解還是無解?

Susan avatar
By Susan
at 2020-10-01T09:42
※ 引述《jwujwu08 ()》之銘言: : 是否同意記者抄文:NO : 我35歲 老婆37歲 : 我們交往10年,結婚1年 : 小吵不斷,大吵到離婚協議書也簽了好幾次,始終都還是維持著。 : 每次吵架都會想來看了這個版找找有沒有相同的影子?應該怎麼面對?怎麼做? : 但所有的問題看來都不是往解決的方向再走 ...

是難解還是無解?

Franklin avatar
By Franklin
at 2020-10-01T07:44
其實我覺得你們還沒到適合生小孩的狀況,養小孩是越級打怪,你要想像現在的問題小孩出來後會乘以十倍不只,身體更累問題更多,很多當初幸福懷孕的夫妻,在頭一年吵到快離婚的比比皆是。 而且如果你想要孩子的心比她多很多,她會覺得孩子是為你生的也很正常,如果她本身就沒有那麼看重有孩子這件事,生下來有可能你需要擔負更多照顧 ...

是難解還是無解?

Ursula avatar
By Ursula
at 2020-10-01T06:57
別生 不然產後憂鬱是你不是她。 你有能力養活自己,不用怕她,快閃人。 ※ 引述《jwujwu08 ()》之銘言 : 是否同意記者抄文:NO : 我35歲 老婆37歲 : 我們交往10年,結婚1年 : 小吵不斷,大吵到離婚協議書也簽了好幾次,始終都還是維持著。 沒小孩 要趁還能兩人世界努力享受愛情 這麼單純 ...