是我難相處嗎? - 人際關係
By Kama
at 2009-05-14T16:46
at 2009-05-14T16:46
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我和室友一起住
從大一算起到目前有快八年了
偶爾雖有小爭執但最後都互相尊重妥協
直到最近她的妹妹來暫住之後開始出現問題
例一:她妹妹習慣東西吃喝一半就放客廳桌上
每次都放到生一堆果蠅
然後再抱怨我們家很髒
我和室友反應過 或請她幫忙收拾
得到的答案是:那是她的習慣 我管不了
例二:她妹從不穿浴室拖鞋還把鞋子踢飛
不管浴室地板是否乾的 她都穿著外出鞋踩進浴室
我告訴室友請她轉告她妹妹
又得到讓我氣到吐血的回答:
"她說她自己的外出鞋比拖鞋乾淨 所以不需要穿浴室拖鞋"
我說:那不穿也不用把鞋踢飛吧?每次我去廁所都要劈腿很累耶!
室友回:那你就多練習劈腿啊
我:.......(想掀桌了)
例三:她妹妹說是暫住 但是已經住下來兩個月多了
這兩個月裡她都把我們家的衛生紙當毛巾用
她妹來了以後 我家的衛生紙都瞬間消失
衛生紙是我和室友輪流買的 以前都是快兩個月輪到一次
現在不到兩個月就要買一次
因為她妹妹一個月要用掉我們四包200抽的衛生紙(還不包括她拿到房間的)
她妹妹有很多習慣我都請她轉告改善
但是室友都回我:那是她的習慣
是我太愛計較嗎?
我總覺得她妹如果是暫住
那沒理由要我配合她的生活習慣吧?應該是她要尊重我們的方式吧?
而且都溝通這麼多次她依然故我
室友還說:她妹妹不管對錯她都不能讓別人攻擊她
可是我從頭到尾都是很委婉的說
也沒說她妹有錯~我只是說:"可以請你妹幫個忙嗎?"這樣的話
我室友現在認為是我在找碴
如果她妹妹要一直住下去
我想~我還是搬出去好了
免得被認為難搞
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