是否該邀請弟弟的女友? - 結婚
By Gilbert
at 2016-09-26T18:32
at 2016-09-26T18:32
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大家晚安,這個問題有點尷尬
想了很久都還是想不到兩全其美的辦法
希望大家有空可以幫我集思廣益一下
感激不盡!
我有兩個弟弟從小感情就都非常好
而跟阿公阿嬤各親戚長輩那些就都沒什麼交集
主桌12人跟男友對分算6人
我跟爸媽佔3人,還有3個位子可以調配
我外公過世了,所以還有3位長輩
但是這樣我個人覺得會顯得外婆很孤單
加上媽媽說有邀請舅舅的習俗
所以我不知道這樣該哪3位來坐比較適合
而其實對我來說,主桌的意義就是最重要的人
我最希望能坐在一起的是我兩個弟弟
(跟其他人根本一點感情都沒有嘛!)
所以有時候討論時我也一直試探我爸媽對於讓弟弟坐主桌的接受度
我爸媽都還蠻民主,如果我誠心和他們溝通我有多希望一生一次的婚禮可以跟弟弟們同席
他們應該是可以接受的!
但問題是我大弟有個交往蠻久的女友
我們認識,也見過很多次面,大家一起出遊過
但就還算不上是朋友,無法私下聊天相約那種熟度
她似乎蠻期待我的婚禮,也有說到要一起來吃什麼的
可是如果我弟坐主桌... 那她要安排在哪裡呢?
一個人被安插在哪都很怪,又不可能一起坐主桌
我有跟我弟直接問這問題,他是說看我決定
可以他坐主桌不邀女友
也可以不坐主桌邀他女友跟親戚坐
問題是我小弟又沒女友,他跟親戚也不熟
為了大弟女友他就不能一起坐主桌了也很怪
(總不能兩個弟弟分開坐吧!)
我頭痛了好久,實在不知道該怎麼辦
總之想問問大家
你們會給長輩還是弟弟坐呢?
給長輩坐的話選哪三個人呢?
最重要的是,其實我已經87%偏向給弟弟坐
所以我想問問大家該如何安排弟弟的女友?
邀了坐哪?還是乾脆不邀
雖然這個問題有點無聊,還是先請別回我文
怕被看到會很尷尬,蒐集一下意見就自刪
謝謝:)
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