是否當假日夫妻 - 婚姻
By Freda
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個人淺見,在考慮假日夫妻甚至通勤的可能性與成本之前,
你是不是應該先去思考更基本的問題:這符合你入職的規劃嗎?
或是該問:這符合你人生的規劃嗎?
會這樣說是因為我覺得,
除非你的專業領域讓你很難找到比公職還好的工作,
或是你入公職就是一心想升遷當官。
不然你選擇了公職,卻還考慮把事業放在家庭與生活之前,
其實是一件很矛盾,很本末倒置的事情。
當然魚與熊掌有可能兼得,但至少目前看起來不能。
所以是不是應該先思考,現在的改變有沒有衝擊到你的生涯規劃?
如果有,那請問你的規畫有改變嗎?
如果沒有變,那這個衝擊是暫時的,
甚至度過之後可以幫助你更快達成目標嗎?機率多高?
如果說不準,那對於相應的代價,你究竟能不能承受?
說的白話文一點就是:
搞清楚啊,你是吃不飽餓不死的公職!
要追求收入與事業,你應該優先選擇的是換工作而不是換單位,懂?
所謂的假日夫妻四個字只是假象,讓你覺得至少還有假日,
事實上就是一年中大部分的時間你是隱形/不存在的。
當然,如果你期待的就是可以當一個隱形的先生/父親,
當個偽單身,那就另當別論了...懂XD?
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你是不是應該先去思考更基本的問題:這符合你入職的規劃嗎?
或是該問:這符合你人生的規劃嗎?
會這樣說是因為我覺得,
除非你的專業領域讓你很難找到比公職還好的工作,
或是你入公職就是一心想升遷當官。
不然你選擇了公職,卻還考慮把事業放在家庭與生活之前,
其實是一件很矛盾,很本末倒置的事情。
當然魚與熊掌有可能兼得,但至少目前看起來不能。
所以是不是應該先思考,現在的改變有沒有衝擊到你的生涯規劃?
如果有,那請問你的規畫有改變嗎?
如果沒有變,那這個衝擊是暫時的,
甚至度過之後可以幫助你更快達成目標嗎?機率多高?
如果說不準,那對於相應的代價,你究竟能不能承受?
說的白話文一點就是:
搞清楚啊,你是吃不飽餓不死的公職!
要追求收入與事業,你應該優先選擇的是換工作而不是換單位,懂?
所謂的假日夫妻四個字只是假象,讓你覺得至少還有假日,
事實上就是一年中大部分的時間你是隱形/不存在的。
當然,如果你期待的就是可以當一個隱形的先生/父親,
當個偽單身,那就另當別論了...懂XD?
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