收拾餐桌 - 婚姻
By Donna
at 2023-03-06T11:37
at 2023-03-06T11:37
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一碼事歸一碼事,教孩子不難
收一個碗怎麼跟孩子講,奶奶是長輩,媽媽順便收、請老公收、請小孩幫忙都可以
我們長大了,自己的爸媽碗沒有收,當然就我們收啊~
難道還要喊爸~媽~你們碗自己收
(難道以前他們會自己收,現在我們就不能幫忙收?)
伴侶配偶的爸媽,可能是不親的長輩,或是有敵意的長輩,一樣也是可以幫他們收~(因為
收碗這件事太小了,如果其他大事,那另當別論)
當然對於有敵意的長輩,你也可以跟小孩訴苦、跟小孩抱怨,講清楚婆媳關係就是複雜,不
過不要加油添醋要小孩一起討厭長輩,小孩很聰明,媽媽被婆婆欺負他會看得出來,但是奶
奶疼不疼他,他自己也有感受,讓他自己去決定自己的想法
如果因為婆媳關係差,讓自己小孩連收個碗也要談人人公平,談到誰有沒有禮貌,說真的,
小孩是無辜的,不要因為婆媳的怨懟,把每件事都放大,遇到單一事件就教育他很奇怪的三
觀,以後他長大還要社會化,難保不會影響他在外的人際關係
幫長輩收碗,舉手之勞而已,小孩自己的碗自己收是慢慢學習獨立負責,兩者不衝突
誰收碗洗碗是一種家庭習慣,也會隨著家庭成員年齡變化而改變,有的家庭是輪流制也有固
定制,沒有那一種比較好
不爽婆婆就清楚跟孩子說哪些事是受委屈的,也讓他早點知道家庭關係有時候也不是那麼簡
單單純,這也是好事,慢慢長大慢慢體會,以後長大要成家,心裡也有個底,婚姻前後可能
不一樣
收碗歸收碗,婆媳歸婆媳,小孩子都懂
※ 引述《ikebukuro (一個扺兩個)》之銘言
: 請問大家的家庭一般是會自己收自己吃的碗到廚房嗎?不論是誰負責洗碗?
: 婆婆每次吃完,她自己的碗會放在桌上,不收就走掉回房間,
: 因為平時都有要求孩子自己收拾自己的碗,所以孩子說阿嬤沒收,我只好說她忘了,但次
: 數太多,不知道該怎麼教小孩。
: 有跟老公講這件事,他說就包容婆婆小缺點,沒收就幫她收,
: 娘家媽媽從小就教我,自己收拾碗筷是禮貌,所以我想問問其他家庭是如何做的?
: 是否同意記者抄文:NO
: -----
: Sent from JPTT on my iPhone
--
收一個碗怎麼跟孩子講,奶奶是長輩,媽媽順便收、請老公收、請小孩幫忙都可以
我們長大了,自己的爸媽碗沒有收,當然就我們收啊~
難道還要喊爸~媽~你們碗自己收
(難道以前他們會自己收,現在我們就不能幫忙收?)
伴侶配偶的爸媽,可能是不親的長輩,或是有敵意的長輩,一樣也是可以幫他們收~(因為
收碗這件事太小了,如果其他大事,那另當別論)
當然對於有敵意的長輩,你也可以跟小孩訴苦、跟小孩抱怨,講清楚婆媳關係就是複雜,不
過不要加油添醋要小孩一起討厭長輩,小孩很聰明,媽媽被婆婆欺負他會看得出來,但是奶
奶疼不疼他,他自己也有感受,讓他自己去決定自己的想法
如果因為婆媳關係差,讓自己小孩連收個碗也要談人人公平,談到誰有沒有禮貌,說真的,
小孩是無辜的,不要因為婆媳的怨懟,把每件事都放大,遇到單一事件就教育他很奇怪的三
觀,以後他長大還要社會化,難保不會影響他在外的人際關係
幫長輩收碗,舉手之勞而已,小孩自己的碗自己收是慢慢學習獨立負責,兩者不衝突
誰收碗洗碗是一種家庭習慣,也會隨著家庭成員年齡變化而改變,有的家庭是輪流制也有固
定制,沒有那一種比較好
不爽婆婆就清楚跟孩子說哪些事是受委屈的,也讓他早點知道家庭關係有時候也不是那麼簡
單單純,這也是好事,慢慢長大慢慢體會,以後長大要成家,心裡也有個底,婚姻前後可能
不一樣
收碗歸收碗,婆媳歸婆媳,小孩子都懂
※ 引述《ikebukuro (一個扺兩個)》之銘言
: 請問大家的家庭一般是會自己收自己吃的碗到廚房嗎?不論是誰負責洗碗?
: 婆婆每次吃完,她自己的碗會放在桌上,不收就走掉回房間,
: 因為平時都有要求孩子自己收拾自己的碗,所以孩子說阿嬤沒收,我只好說她忘了,但次
: 數太多,不知道該怎麼教小孩。
: 有跟老公講這件事,他說就包容婆婆小缺點,沒收就幫她收,
: 娘家媽媽從小就教我,自己收拾碗筷是禮貌,所以我想問問其他家庭是如何做的?
: 是否同意記者抄文:NO
: -----
: Sent from JPTT on my iPhone
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