我這樣很奇怪嗎? - 婚姻
By Susan
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※ 引述《twocm (吐吸麵)》之銘言:
: 我的另一半想要規劃跟朋友去日本玩一週
: 因為他也很想帶爸媽去日本玩
: 所以他想說他直接安排兩周
: 第一周他跟朋友玩,然後後一週我跟他父母一起搭飛機去找他,這樣他可以省一次機票錢
: 。
: 我不太願意
: 他父母很好相處,我也喜歡他們,但我就是不太想,我覺得很有壓力,畢竟我有沒有很熟
: 機場流程,而且英文也不太好
: 我跟他說如果你想帶父母去日本玩,那你應該親自帶他們去
: 他很不開心,很不解的問我為什麼,我回答不出來,我只知道我心理很不願意
: 我有說,最多就是我們一起出發,搭同一班飛機(但他要搭星宇比較貴,我很窮坐不起)
: ,他認為我就是只想跟團什麼都不想做,我很難過,因為我沒有這樣想,我也可以幫忙規
: 劃行程,但就是不想單獨帶兩位長輩去,後來我就說不然妳們去就好,我就不要去了
: 他很不解,認為這麼簡單的事,不就是跟搭計程車一樣,一起搭個交通工具過去而已,是
: ”一起”去不是“帶”他們去,問我到底為什麼不願意。
: 我沉默了一陣子,我只能說出我不太想,後來他非常不開心的說,不說那就算了,我也不
: 想知道。
: 看他很失落,我很自責,我覺得我好像做錯什麼,我說不出原因,但我真的就不想。
: 請問我這樣很奇怪嗎?
: 是否同意記者抄文:NO
每個人都有奇怪的點
問題就在於有多少奇怪的點
以及這個奇怪的點影響多大
例如我前妻很不喜歡去轉帳匯款
包含使用ATM(當年沒有銀行app)
我在20年前規畫買房,
要製造銀行金流所以要每個月轉帳
但他就非常不願意做這種
在我看起來根本就是舉手之勞的小事
當時也的確給我造成很大的困擾
不過其他方面沒啥問題
所以也就忍忍過去了
現在的老婆奇怪的點更多
但是他可愛的地方也更多
所以我也是忍著
回答你的問題
是的,出發點目的地都相同
拒絕陪另一半長輩過海關上飛機
特別還是日本這種毫無難度的地方
不是什麼突尼西亞,羅馬尼亞
這種莫名其妙的鬼國家
這點真的很奇怪
海關機場流程不熟這根本不是理由
特別是日本,
台灣每年有近500萬人次去日本
資訊這麼多這麼透明
隨便做點功課就搞定了
如果這麼簡單的問題都有壓力的話
估計你面對人生其他問題都要壓力爆棚了
回到你的問題
我覺得你心裡隱約知道為啥不願意
只是你不願意面對這個問題
如果是這個狀況,
建議你放開心胸跟另一半談談
如果你就像我前妻一樣
拒絕溝通也不願意妥協
那就是消耗夫妻感情存摺來渡過
顯然你現在正在這樣做
那也不用上網問,幫自己尋找正當性
因為有一種奇怪是另一半覺得奇怪
全世界挺你都沒用
另外除非你宅到爆根本不出國
也不 soical
否則平常到處玩的飛起
但拒絕另一半在特殊情況需要你幫忙
陪關係還不錯長輩一起坐飛機出關
這種行為是真的很奇怪!
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: 我的另一半想要規劃跟朋友去日本玩一週
: 因為他也很想帶爸媽去日本玩
: 所以他想說他直接安排兩周
: 第一周他跟朋友玩,然後後一週我跟他父母一起搭飛機去找他,這樣他可以省一次機票錢
: 。
: 我不太願意
: 他父母很好相處,我也喜歡他們,但我就是不太想,我覺得很有壓力,畢竟我有沒有很熟
: 機場流程,而且英文也不太好
: 我跟他說如果你想帶父母去日本玩,那你應該親自帶他們去
: 他很不開心,很不解的問我為什麼,我回答不出來,我只知道我心理很不願意
: 我有說,最多就是我們一起出發,搭同一班飛機(但他要搭星宇比較貴,我很窮坐不起)
: ,他認為我就是只想跟團什麼都不想做,我很難過,因為我沒有這樣想,我也可以幫忙規
: 劃行程,但就是不想單獨帶兩位長輩去,後來我就說不然妳們去就好,我就不要去了
: 他很不解,認為這麼簡單的事,不就是跟搭計程車一樣,一起搭個交通工具過去而已,是
: ”一起”去不是“帶”他們去,問我到底為什麼不願意。
: 我沉默了一陣子,我只能說出我不太想,後來他非常不開心的說,不說那就算了,我也不
: 想知道。
: 看他很失落,我很自責,我覺得我好像做錯什麼,我說不出原因,但我真的就不想。
: 請問我這樣很奇怪嗎?
: 是否同意記者抄文:NO
每個人都有奇怪的點
問題就在於有多少奇怪的點
以及這個奇怪的點影響多大
例如我前妻很不喜歡去轉帳匯款
包含使用ATM(當年沒有銀行app)
我在20年前規畫買房,
要製造銀行金流所以要每個月轉帳
但他就非常不願意做這種
在我看起來根本就是舉手之勞的小事
當時也的確給我造成很大的困擾
不過其他方面沒啥問題
所以也就忍忍過去了
現在的老婆奇怪的點更多
但是他可愛的地方也更多
所以我也是忍著
回答你的問題
是的,出發點目的地都相同
拒絕陪另一半長輩過海關上飛機
特別還是日本這種毫無難度的地方
不是什麼突尼西亞,羅馬尼亞
這種莫名其妙的鬼國家
這點真的很奇怪
海關機場流程不熟這根本不是理由
特別是日本,
台灣每年有近500萬人次去日本
資訊這麼多這麼透明
隨便做點功課就搞定了
如果這麼簡單的問題都有壓力的話
估計你面對人生其他問題都要壓力爆棚了
回到你的問題
我覺得你心裡隱約知道為啥不願意
只是你不願意面對這個問題
如果是這個狀況,
建議你放開心胸跟另一半談談
如果你就像我前妻一樣
拒絕溝通也不願意妥協
那就是消耗夫妻感情存摺來渡過
顯然你現在正在這樣做
那也不用上網問,幫自己尋找正當性
因為有一種奇怪是另一半覺得奇怪
全世界挺你都沒用
另外除非你宅到爆根本不出國
也不 soical
否則平常到處玩的飛起
但拒絕另一半在特殊情況需要你幫忙
陪關係還不錯長輩一起坐飛機出關
這種行為是真的很奇怪!
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