我覺得自己無法開心起來 - 家務

By Tom
at 2021-08-29T10:14
at 2021-08-29T10:14
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簡而言之,爸媽當初是作媒認識結婚的,生長
環境差很多,爸從小家裡很窮造成他把錢看超
重,媽是小康家庭
三姐妹只有我從小就觀察到,媽很常為了我們
隱忍自己的情緒(爸脾氣不好講話又大聲)
爸從4年前身體不好提前退休後,跟媽吵架更頻繁,最嚴重是一年前媽來台北跟我們住了
三週(老家在台中),最後在親友勸和下回家
最近又被我爸氣到來台北住了(已經住1個月了),我的情況是跟妹妹室友租一層3房,心
裏已經鬱悶了(因為自由慣了,早就沒想要跟媽媽住這麼久,而且媽說這次她真的不回去
了,要過自己的生活)
其實從小看我媽一直忍耐,我內心替她開心,
她勇敢踏出離開我爸這一步,但現實面是
面臨我爸一個人在台中沒人照顧,加上他是那種很不喜歡一個人在家的人,以及他會很常
跟我們訴說一個人住很不安全,以及各種不方便(我爸牙齒不好,食物都要再蒸爛,身體
有各種小毛病,很常覺得自己體虛)
我們3姐妹都在台北工作,根本無法回台中顧他(重點是他是一個極度難相處的人,自我
感覺良好,永遠負面思考,都覺得是別人對不起他,以及事情可以重複一直說,快發瘋,
我基本上回台中兩天就是極限)
說要幫他請煮飯阿姨也不要,雖然覺得無法相處但還是會擔心
他會希望我們早晚各打一通電話給他(他很怕自己在家裡出意外)
對於爸媽我真的無言以對,可黏之人必有可恨之處,我爸真的太難相處,吵架時講的話又
很難聽,經年累月我媽才會受不了
但我爸完全覺得我媽在無理取鬧,夫妻吵架難免何必搞成這樣
問題我們遠在台北,一想到他一個人在家,又想到他最不喜歡自己獨居就心情掛在
當然最好的方法是勸我媽回去,但我也不想媽媽再回到不開心的生活
今早打給爸,他說被我媽氣到全身不舒服去醫院吊點滴,又讓我心裡開始操心
真的不知道該怎麼辦.........
我媽說唯一條件是我爸把台中家賣掉,來台北生活(我媽根本不想再回台中,她說左右鄰
居每次都聽到爸很大聲再罵她,覺得很丟臉),
搬來台北她才願意同住屋簷下照顧他,但我爸不答應(其實他根本不習慣台北生活)
總之,現在每天回家要面對我媽的悶悶不樂(雖然她離開我爸但還是心情鬱悶)
以及我爸總是透露他一個人在家多可憐
我真的不知道該怎麼辦............
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環境差很多,爸從小家裡很窮造成他把錢看超
重,媽是小康家庭
三姐妹只有我從小就觀察到,媽很常為了我們
隱忍自己的情緒(爸脾氣不好講話又大聲)
爸從4年前身體不好提前退休後,跟媽吵架更頻繁,最嚴重是一年前媽來台北跟我們住了
三週(老家在台中),最後在親友勸和下回家
最近又被我爸氣到來台北住了(已經住1個月了),我的情況是跟妹妹室友租一層3房,心
裏已經鬱悶了(因為自由慣了,早就沒想要跟媽媽住這麼久,而且媽說這次她真的不回去
了,要過自己的生活)
其實從小看我媽一直忍耐,我內心替她開心,
她勇敢踏出離開我爸這一步,但現實面是
面臨我爸一個人在台中沒人照顧,加上他是那種很不喜歡一個人在家的人,以及他會很常
跟我們訴說一個人住很不安全,以及各種不方便(我爸牙齒不好,食物都要再蒸爛,身體
有各種小毛病,很常覺得自己體虛)
我們3姐妹都在台北工作,根本無法回台中顧他(重點是他是一個極度難相處的人,自我
感覺良好,永遠負面思考,都覺得是別人對不起他,以及事情可以重複一直說,快發瘋,
我基本上回台中兩天就是極限)
說要幫他請煮飯阿姨也不要,雖然覺得無法相處但還是會擔心
他會希望我們早晚各打一通電話給他(他很怕自己在家裡出意外)
對於爸媽我真的無言以對,可黏之人必有可恨之處,我爸真的太難相處,吵架時講的話又
很難聽,經年累月我媽才會受不了
但我爸完全覺得我媽在無理取鬧,夫妻吵架難免何必搞成這樣
問題我們遠在台北,一想到他一個人在家,又想到他最不喜歡自己獨居就心情掛在
當然最好的方法是勸我媽回去,但我也不想媽媽再回到不開心的生活
今早打給爸,他說被我媽氣到全身不舒服去醫院吊點滴,又讓我心裡開始操心
真的不知道該怎麼辦.........
我媽說唯一條件是我爸把台中家賣掉,來台北生活(我媽根本不想再回台中,她說左右鄰
居每次都聽到爸很大聲再罵她,覺得很丟臉),
搬來台北她才願意同住屋簷下照顧他,但我爸不答應(其實他根本不習慣台北生活)
總之,現在每天回家要面對我媽的悶悶不樂(雖然她離開我爸但還是心情鬱悶)
以及我爸總是透露他一個人在家多可憐
我真的不知道該怎麼辦............
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