我會不會太杞人憂天了? - 結婚
By Valerie
at 2015-06-25T19:02
at 2015-06-25T19:02
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跟他交往七年半
他似乎沒有想跟我結婚的感覺,他推拖沒錢
平常相處還可以~但只要一吵架,他會一直翻舊帳
(其實都是他在做傷害我的事,又能這樣惡人先告狀,都覺得乾脆分手吧~很累)
我們兩家家境有點差距
我爸媽一直希望我門當戶對,但覺得我講不聽,很愛他似的(其實我也還好)
就說隨便我,反正是我自己選擇的對象,以後自己負責
有次剛好我媽遇到我男友,有跟他說,結婚儀式簡單就好
只是希望他跟我在一起那麼久了,至少對我有個交代
我最近這一年多來,感覺不出男友對我有任何愛的感覺
(可是他每天就會來載我去他家過夜,隔天再載我上班,金錢上的付出也不吝嗇)
(我也不懂他對我到底是什麼樣的打算?每天這樣的模式我也覺得很累)
其實我對他也是有種,「既然不想結婚,那就直接分手」
(其實我也明講過很多次我的心情,但他就是討厭我的家人,覺得我家有錢看不起人)
七年半來只見過我媽兩次,第一次還是我媽約的
第二次是被我家人打小報告,我媽跑出來找我,才遇到我男友
我杞人耶憂天的點可能很怪
1、他家可能沒什麼錢(近年來好像才把兩樓半的透天厝的二十年貸款繳完)
跟我家比,他家有點小…(我想在市區買自己的房子)
(他家兩間房間,他房間還有三隻狗,兩隻擠床上,以後有小孩,小孩要睡哪)
(我很喜歡小孩,但他非常討厭小孩)
(他抽菸抽很重,也常只在房間開窗抽菸,將來生出來的小孩會不會毛病一堆?)
2、他不愛拍照,我們倆的合照很少(想說若以後要結婚,拍婚紗的感覺很怪)
看別人的婚紗照都覺得是倆人相愛,心情好拍出來的照片
目前跟他相處的感覺,無法想像兩人拍婚紗的樣子
3、我哥哥們的婚禮都是辦在大飯店(我也希望能夠如此)
婚宴流程一開始都會放倆人各自家庭的生活照吧,然後倆人的合照
(我不知道為啥,每次看到這種幸福畫面,內心都會感動的流淚@@")
OS:可能也是感慨的心情
(他家裡只有三人,平常也沒在拍照,更別說男友有什麼生活照)
4、對方是鄉下人,就是都純樸打扮,男方媽身體不好,常在不舒服
常跑醫院,他爸媽也沒跟我提過結婚的事
我希望我的婚禮是能受到大家的祝福,而不是因為久了才不得已才娶我
我家經濟雖然不錯,但我也不會亂花錢,反而都把錢花在他的身上較多
生活圈就是只有家裡、跟他家(沒有任何的壞習慣、不菸不酒不跑趴)
我實在不知道他到底在不滿我什麼,因為沒錢所以自卑嗎?
我也花了一萬多買營養補充食品希望他媽媽能改善體質
(但她媽也不願意主動去吃去調養,就怕吃了身體又不舒服)
(第一次吃沒有不舒服,後來某次我去泡,他媽說吃了沒多久就又不舒服,
男友就在怪我,用那種很恨我的表情罵我,我實在很無奈又難過)
某次吵架,我就說「你媽的死活關我什麼事,我就是這樣笨蛋倒貼!」
我說我受夠了,想分手,我沒辦法繼續等他浪費我的時間
他回說「妳想滾就滾」,晚上又裝沒事來找我去他家
明明連他跨進我家一步的勇氣都沒有,我在就腦補想這些奇怪的事
最近我媽難得示出善意,要我拿幾顆粽子給他們家人吃
但他總是對我家人有很強烈的敵意!!總叫我不要講我家裡的事給他聽
說我家不關他的事(那如何結婚,若不結婚為什麼還要在一起?)
看著朋友都一一成家立業了,我還在要分不分的階段
我真替我的未來感到憂心...
真抱歉有點語無倫次
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