想結婚卻沒錢 - 結婚
By Todd Johnson
at 2015-05-04T19:36
at 2015-05-04T19:36
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如題, 我跟男友交往多年,也到適婚年齡
最近也討論到結婚的費用
試算後覺得真的是一筆很大的開銷
於是就說好各自回家問父母的意見
結果,我爸竟然雙手一攤,表示他沒錢
所以他不收聘不過問紅包錢
但言下之意就是也不打算出一毛錢的意思了
哈哈哈.......
聽到當下很無言,我爸是公務員
這輩子卻都在亂投資搞的自己欠一屁股債
其實我現在收入尚可
也有做好最壞打算就是自己出錢幫自己辦婚禮
只是真的聽到爸爸這樣講還是很傷阿
而且也不知道怎麼跟男友說...
也不知道這樣之後要怎麼跟男友家人溝通
假設我自己出錢,男友家那邊是否該假裝是我家出的比較好?
不過男友那邊是打算跟他說實話....
這樣的做法好嗎?唉....
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最近也討論到結婚的費用
試算後覺得真的是一筆很大的開銷
於是就說好各自回家問父母的意見
結果,我爸竟然雙手一攤,表示他沒錢
所以他不收聘不過問紅包錢
但言下之意就是也不打算出一毛錢的意思了
哈哈哈.......
聽到當下很無言,我爸是公務員
這輩子卻都在亂投資搞的自己欠一屁股債
其實我現在收入尚可
也有做好最壞打算就是自己出錢幫自己辦婚禮
只是真的聽到爸爸這樣講還是很傷阿
而且也不知道怎麼跟男友說...
也不知道這樣之後要怎麼跟男友家人溝通
假設我自己出錢,男友家那邊是否該假裝是我家出的比較好?
不過男友那邊是打算跟他說實話....
這樣的做法好嗎?唉....
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Sent from my Android
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