性情暴躁有得解嗎? - 婚姻
By Charlie
at 2022-05-24T23:07
at 2022-05-24T23:07
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我是1992年生的小孩 目前30歲了
深覺原生家庭加上父母兩邊的問題 是我此生最難的功課
爸媽在我3歲時離婚
後來媽媽到法院提告後 應該是法官有判共同扶養
所以我週一到週五會在爸爸家
週末六日去媽媽家
小時候非常抗拒 常常都哭鬧著不想去
長大後才了解 這可能是一種分離焦慮?
爸媽會離婚 據兩邊說法
媽媽說 爸爸脾氣太火爆 暴躁 只能用哭的跟他溝通
有被賞巴掌 離婚前一段時間 疑似第二胎流產住院
我爸沒去看過
爸爸說 媽媽沒經過他同意 就擅自去買房付訂金
後來違約 都要賠違約金給人家 (媽媽說爸爸婚前答應要在外婆家附近買房)
家族親友中有個阿姨要選舉
媽媽不滿這個阿姨 因為當年有婦女保障名額 躺著選就會上
所以出來跟她競爭 結果被家族排擠
被騙投資買了某塊林保地
這個部分 兩方說法不一 互相責怪
這部分導致離婚後 我爸曾在民國85年左右 負債300萬
後來靠著做很多副業 才把錢都還清
打到這邊都覺得厭世
黃金歲月 一家團圓 劇組如果欠缺劇本的話
可以參考以上
但說真的 與我爸相處30年的感覺
他真的是工作很忙又累的時候 脾氣會非常火爆
說話風格類似廖老大那種 87%像
但是他很勤奮 又很能賺錢 對阿公阿嬤非常孝順
阿嬤晚年不太能自理後 都是我爸去幫她洗澡
可是真的很好奇 脾氣火爆這件事
真的有機會有辦法改嗎?
越來越相信有時候一個人的個性是天性
雖然很無奈 但是也不能強迫改
只是我覺得他這樣對他自己身體不好
明年開始他要退休了 真的想好好找時間
跟他聊一下這個問題
也想請教比較有經驗的人
有脾氣火爆 暴躁的家人 該怎麼勸說呢? 感謝
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