怎麼挽救婚姻 - 婚姻
By Ula
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想給原po一點信心~
我自己原生家庭也是道教
不吃牛 因為祖先務農
飲水思源的緣故
還有我阿公是算命師
過世後也傳給我爸
喝符水 拿衣服押金紙拜拜...
這些小時候我都經歷過
長大受環境教育影響
自己也有小孩之後
我也覺得喝符水是是一件很不健康的事情
甚至也對很多祭祀活動
跟妳老公一樣 嗤之以鼻
索性祖業傳到我爸這一代
我爸因為懶散
也不去依照阿公的衣缽
(已經沒有喝符水
其他看似作法的行為)
就只有單純幫人家看八字算命
所以妳說 姓名會沖父母
其實連生肖也是也是會沖父母
所以我小孩的姓名
是我爸看八字取的
其實我心裡有一點點相信算命
但不迷信 而且把幫外孫取名這件事情
當作是外公送給外孫的出生禮物
我婆家
比我家還迷信
但是那是我婆婆自己的信仰自由
只要沒有長期危害身體健康安全
就由她們去吧
而且我小孩給我婆婆帶的時候
都還帶他去精舍拜會師父
妳能如何?
人家花自己的時間成本在幫妳帶孩子啊
如果喝符水 洗符水 酒水這件事情
是不健康的 本來就該禁止
但其他取名那些
我覺得不是迷不迷信的問題
一件事本來就決定好的事情
猶豫不決 舉棋不定
本身就蠻討厭的
加上媽媽有些事情就已讓妳先生
覺得看不順眼
讓你先生借題發揮了
建議先冷處理先生的態度
分居
因為先生顯然現階段
對於妳每個行為都過度解讀
只有他先退一步
你們才有溝通和好的機會
祝福妳
--
我自己原生家庭也是道教
不吃牛 因為祖先務農
飲水思源的緣故
還有我阿公是算命師
過世後也傳給我爸
喝符水 拿衣服押金紙拜拜...
這些小時候我都經歷過
長大受環境教育影響
自己也有小孩之後
我也覺得喝符水是是一件很不健康的事情
甚至也對很多祭祀活動
跟妳老公一樣 嗤之以鼻
索性祖業傳到我爸這一代
我爸因為懶散
也不去依照阿公的衣缽
(已經沒有喝符水
其他看似作法的行為)
就只有單純幫人家看八字算命
所以妳說 姓名會沖父母
其實連生肖也是也是會沖父母
所以我小孩的姓名
是我爸看八字取的
其實我心裡有一點點相信算命
但不迷信 而且把幫外孫取名這件事情
當作是外公送給外孫的出生禮物
我婆家
比我家還迷信
但是那是我婆婆自己的信仰自由
只要沒有長期危害身體健康安全
就由她們去吧
而且我小孩給我婆婆帶的時候
都還帶他去精舍拜會師父
妳能如何?
人家花自己的時間成本在幫妳帶孩子啊
如果喝符水 洗符水 酒水這件事情
是不健康的 本來就該禁止
但其他取名那些
我覺得不是迷不迷信的問題
一件事本來就決定好的事情
猶豫不決 舉棋不定
本身就蠻討厭的
加上媽媽有些事情就已讓妳先生
覺得看不順眼
讓你先生借題發揮了
建議先冷處理先生的態度
分居
因為先生顯然現階段
對於妳每個行為都過度解讀
只有他先退一步
你們才有溝通和好的機會
祝福妳
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