德國能 台灣不能 - 異國戀

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※ [本文轉錄自 Gossiping 看板 #1GJ8ISxD ]
作者: affen (affen) 看板: Gossiping
標題: Re: [問卦] 德國能 台灣不能
時間: Sun Sep 9 19:59:22 2012
CCR有一篇,說台德CCR下場是離婚率70%(也有人說90%)
這是因為德國年輕人,大學念書階段通常會對外國學生比較友善,這時候台女通常覺得:「哇,外國人真的好nice」。但一旦決定成為伴侶,就會用德國女人的標準來要求,這時台女就會發現落差怎麼那麼大,然後開始吵架
什麼叫德國女人標準,我舉個人經驗說明一下
我和兩男一女3個德國人合租公寓,因房子老舊,管線有鉛管,自來水不能直接喝,所以每週要輪流去買水。通常是一組6罐9公斤的礦泉水,一個星期要喝到6-8組,也就是72公斤的水,要獨力抬上4F
我之前碰到不是該我抬的星期,如果是德國妹抬的氣喘噓噓,通常會出手幫抬一下,後來發現同住的德國男,在這種情形只會看熱鬧,所以我直接問德國妹。德國妹說:
1.如果我幫她提她很感激,台灣人真是好人!(但連手都不會讓你摸)
2.不幫她提她覺得正常和應該,因為這是她的工作,應該她自己完成
3.她們從小學開始就是這樣,所有男生的工作,女生一樣要做,不會有性別差異(例如男生要拿重的)
所以台德CCR通常會在婚後開始出現認知裂痕,德男覺得台女超依賴,台女覺得德男婚後就不nice了。第一個爆點通常在生產後,德國是生了以後第三天出院,5天後獨自開始帶新生兒衝超市買菜。他們無法理解台灣人做月子的習俗,你說要一個月不出門在家當公主,老公、婆婆都會抓狂
※ 引述《shawntanco (雄探可)》之銘言:
: 八卦是
: 德國跟台灣一樣 都是中小企業為主的國家
: 可是人家沒有22k 整天cost dowm
: 企業競爭力還很強 許多美國日本做不出來的技術 德國能做
: 勞工保障社會福利都做的很好
: 貧富差距也沒那麼大
: 補卦 另外台灣人也太別崇洋媚外 說啥台灣越級打怪
: 認識幾個德國人 也有朋友留學德國
: 其實人家也沒有特別比台灣人聰明 有的台灣學者也不輸德國
: 台灣人甚至還比德國人勤奮 工時比人家長
: 德國人只不過在歐洲相對努力 至少沒希臘人那麼悠閒
: 不過德國已經算是很強了
: 兩次世界大戰都被中華民國美國英國等國聯盟打敗
: 戰後都能迅速復原
: 都是中小企業 人家是強在哪
: 大家有卦嗎
作者 affen (affen)
標題 Re: 可以同意我轉CCR嗎?
時間 Sun Sep 9 21:30:09 2012
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好啊報歉我用ipad上網不能回水球
但那個新版主好像很兇,不是她認定的姐妹轉文都會被水桶,所以多小心囉
※ 引述《minrurl (FedEx)》之銘言:
: 可以同意我轉CCR嗎
: 想說當一下強者XD
: 謝謝囉^^
作者: affen (affen) 看板: Gossiping
標題: Re: [問卦] 德國能 台灣不能
時間: Sun Sep 9 19:59:22 2012
CCR有一篇,說台德CCR下場是離婚率70%(也有人說90%)
這是因為德國年輕人,大學念書階段通常會對外國學生比較友善,這時候台女通常覺得:「哇,外國人真的好nice」。但一旦決定成為伴侶,就會用德國女人的標準來要求,這時台女就會發現落差怎麼那麼大,然後開始吵架
什麼叫德國女人標準,我舉個人經驗說明一下
我和兩男一女3個德國人合租公寓,因房子老舊,管線有鉛管,自來水不能直接喝,所以每週要輪流去買水。通常是一組6罐9公斤的礦泉水,一個星期要喝到6-8組,也就是72公斤的水,要獨力抬上4F
我之前碰到不是該我抬的星期,如果是德國妹抬的氣喘噓噓,通常會出手幫抬一下,後來發現同住的德國男,在這種情形只會看熱鬧,所以我直接問德國妹。德國妹說:
1.如果我幫她提她很感激,台灣人真是好人!(但連手都不會讓你摸)
2.不幫她提她覺得正常和應該,因為這是她的工作,應該她自己完成
3.她們從小學開始就是這樣,所有男生的工作,女生一樣要做,不會有性別差異(例如男生要拿重的)
所以台德CCR通常會在婚後開始出現認知裂痕,德男覺得台女超依賴,台女覺得德男婚後就不nice了。第一個爆點通常在生產後,德國是生了以後第三天出院,5天後獨自開始帶新生兒衝超市買菜。他們無法理解台灣人做月子的習俗,你說要一個月不出門在家當公主,老公、婆婆都會抓狂
※ 引述《shawntanco (雄探可)》之銘言:
: 八卦是
: 德國跟台灣一樣 都是中小企業為主的國家
: 可是人家沒有22k 整天cost dowm
: 企業競爭力還很強 許多美國日本做不出來的技術 德國能做
: 勞工保障社會福利都做的很好
: 貧富差距也沒那麼大
: 補卦 另外台灣人也太別崇洋媚外 說啥台灣越級打怪
: 認識幾個德國人 也有朋友留學德國
: 其實人家也沒有特別比台灣人聰明 有的台灣學者也不輸德國
: 台灣人甚至還比德國人勤奮 工時比人家長
: 德國人只不過在歐洲相對努力 至少沒希臘人那麼悠閒
: 不過德國已經算是很強了
: 兩次世界大戰都被中華民國美國英國等國聯盟打敗
: 戰後都能迅速復原
: 都是中小企業 人家是強在哪
: 大家有卦嗎
作者 affen (affen)
標題 Re: 可以同意我轉CCR嗎?
時間 Sun Sep 9 21:30:09 2012
───────────────────────────────────────
好啊報歉我用ipad上網不能回水球
但那個新版主好像很兇,不是她認定的姐妹轉文都會被水桶,所以多小心囉
※ 引述《minrurl (FedEx)》之銘言:
: 可以同意我轉CCR嗎
: 想說當一下強者XD
: 謝謝囉^^
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