年夜飯婆媳關係問題? - 婚姻
By Regina
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※ 引述《dear520168 (風雲無忌)》之銘言:
: 是否同意記者抄文:NO
: 事情是這樣的~
: 婚前因為我本身有答應過老婆年夜飯可以今年在婆家過隔年在娘家過
: 我本來以為這件事也不是什麼大事?
: 婚後跟父母溝通後
: 才知道父母不是很認同這件事情
: 認為這件事情是我胡亂答應的
: 他們守舊的觀念就是除夕夜跟初一在婆家
: 初二跟初三回娘家是一件很正常的事情
: 不需要因此做改變
: 老婆家中是三姊妹
: 而我家中一女二男
: 我父母的觀念就是認為大家都是一人兩天很合理不需要打破
: 若是我今年除夕夜在家
: 明年除夕夜不在家,那我弟弟是不是也可以這樣
: 以後整個過年就亂套了
: 兩個兒子除夕夜都不在家?
: 所以強烈的反對此事
: 認為我不懂事亂答應太太這件事
: 於是後來發生了
: 我媽媽用電話跟我太太說
: [妳已經結婚了,婚後要以夫家為重的話]
: 我媽的觀念跟我說
: 她覺得婚後在節慶習俗上就應該以夫家為重
: 認為如果因為這件事的改變
: 變成我們家的關係不和睦
: 那這樣乾脆[當初就不要結婚就好了啊,幹嘛出來害人]
: 因為我太太家都是女生
: 我媽媽脫口而出[誰叫他們不生兒子]才會有今天這個問題
: 整個過程我太太是沒有回應任何的對話
: 完全沉默
: 後來因為這件事我跟我爸媽努力/爭吵?最後有達成共識
: 除夕夜可以回娘過
: 但就因為上面打的三段話
: [[妳已經結婚了,婚後要以夫家為重的話]
: [當初就不要結婚就好了啊,幹嘛出來害人]
: [誰叫他們不生兒子]
: 我太太覺得這三句話太惡毒/不尊重她及太太的父母
: 無法諒解我媽媽
: 只要看到我媽媽她就反感
: 所以她為了不想要有這方面的情緒
: 從此以後拒絕回婆家
: 我家中的聚餐她也打算拒絕參加
: 請問大家有什麼建議可以幫我嗎?
: 我該怎麼處理?
你現在立刻馬上放下家和萬事興的執念
這已經是婚姻保衛戰的問題了
你稍有不慎就要被離婚了
或者未來二三十年你們會一直吵這件事,然後離婚
不想要這種結果的話
我就給個題組,你來檢視看看
1.請問你太太現在去你家,你媽媽會不會再噴她這件事?
2.你媽有沒有其他習以為常的迂腐觀念,看不慣再噴你太太?
3.你媽噴你太太,你擋得住嗎?
4.你可以直接噴回去 叫你媽閉嘴嗎?
5.你媽一哭二鬧三上吊,罵你不孝,你依舊堅定自己的立場嗎?
6.當你爸、你兄弟姊妹、你親戚大罵你妻奴、不孝
你能「他橫由他橫,明月照大江」,再噴回去嗎?
如果答案是否定的
那你幹嘛拿石頭砸自己的腳?
當然是物理性隔離她們,還要太太跟娘家都封鎖你父母電話
這樣讓自己輕鬆,也讓大家輕鬆
啊,除了你父母
你父母應該會更火大啦
但是呢
一個講話如此惡毒的人(罵你太太,還講到人家父母)
還敢直接講給對方聽
這已經不是一般婆婆等級了
你想要扭轉她的觀念,不如去研發火箭到火星 來得簡單
並且你媽還說節慶習俗要以夫家為主
是說要過年、端午、中秋、清明去你家
該不會母親節、父親節也是比照辦理吧
這樣誰吞得下去 = =
所以我再問
你確定要把責任轉嫁到你太太身上?
當然也可以
你太太受不了就會選擇 永久性物理性隔離:離婚
一輩子都不用跟你們這家人見面
還可以回家吃年夜飯
這樣你家也可以永遠跟兒子們吃年夜飯
也不錯喔
皆大歡喜
記得你弟要結婚的時候,也要跟對方講喔
不要再騙婚害人了
以上
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