工作跟婚姻的抉擇 - 婚姻
By Ophelia
at 2020-10-25T21:27
at 2020-10-25T21:27
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我要回的跟其他人觀點不同
我也沒小孩
但看原文和推文
原po年薪高卻不肯請保姆
他也說是老婆標準很高
所以我推測,
他老婆是不是本來就有產後憂鬱症
加上憂慮疫情而雪上加霜?
我同樣住在疫情很慘重的國家
疫情爆開的最初期
我加了3個海外台灣人Covid自救會的臉書社團
剛開始封城天天在家
加上對疫情的無助和恐懼
天天看那幾個臉書社團
真的都要得到:恐慌症、燥鬱症、憂鬱症
這些是住台灣的台灣人很難理解的
很多海外的台灣人,由其是當媽媽的
真的是焦慮爆表
看她們的po文和討論
都覺得是世界末日要來了
例如不少人全家疫情以來幾乎都完全不出門
開門領個包裹也戴口罩和穿防護衣
外帶不敢叫、連超市的蛋糕、生菜、
沒有皮的水果這種無法加熱的食物也不敢吃
然後不少人看到別人聚會、去餐廳、叫外賣
會當正義魔人指責他人
連用到「武漢肺炎」這幾個字都會引起筆戰
大家關太久都太閒,心情也不好吧
我幾個海外台媽臉友,到現在7、8個月過去了
還是幾乎不出門,維持高度警戒的狀態
還是天天臉書狂發文在抱怨疫情
抱怨外國人自私、抱怨當地政府的政策
曾經勸過一、兩位不要那麼焦慮
但我被反駁說,我沒小孩所以不懂媽媽的擔心
不少版友建議可花錢請保姆、清潔人員、
加上周末多出去玩
但在疫情嚴重的美國,
也許原po老婆並不敢這麼做呀!
除了老婆可能不敢請陌生人來家裡
而原po在醫療業 若又在醫院上班
可能她也會焦慮原po帶病毒回家?
離大城市2小時車程而以
也許這樣她也是害怕疫情而不願意出門??
看原po文章 她很重視有沒有台灣人的朋友
我想應該也是心情惡劣的原因吧
我個人建議
也許她先帶小孩回台灣比較好
有緣的話以後還會在ㄧ起
無緣就算了
補個婚姻點:
疫情前幾個月,
我們婚姻關係也常弄得很不愉快
我也是ㄧ直看海外自救會的社團
看到都有憂鬱、燥鬱、恐慌症
我隊友要進辦公室 我很焦慮他會帶病回家
整天叮嚀他有沒戴口罩、洗澡、洗衣服
他覺得非常煩(我也覺得我很煩)
而我因為可以在家上班
他很嫉妒我,也常在言語挑釁
ㄧ度兩人都有默契疫情結束後要離婚
但後來我不再看海外那幾個版
不再follow 幾個天天狂抱怨疫情的臉友
盡量和隊友出門散步、去海邊、森林ㄧ日遊、
去別的城市ㄧ日遊
ㄧ起去超市購物、去逛街
也會去餐廳吃飯:例如下午2點吃午餐
下午5、6點吃晚餐(當地人都8點以後吃)
也有去酒吧、選擇有廣大戶外庭園
老人多的區,人比較少
不方便停車的地方,火車公車也照坐
我們的生活型態po到海外自救社團
應該會被鞭到爆
可是幾乎沒有再吵架了
反正口罩都有戴好
回家換衣服和洗澡
7月開始盡量「正常生活」到現在還沒生病
(或是無症狀)
其他的就聽天由命
因為再關下去真的都會瘋掉。
--
我也沒小孩
但看原文和推文
原po年薪高卻不肯請保姆
他也說是老婆標準很高
所以我推測,
他老婆是不是本來就有產後憂鬱症
加上憂慮疫情而雪上加霜?
我同樣住在疫情很慘重的國家
疫情爆開的最初期
我加了3個海外台灣人Covid自救會的臉書社團
剛開始封城天天在家
加上對疫情的無助和恐懼
天天看那幾個臉書社團
真的都要得到:恐慌症、燥鬱症、憂鬱症
這些是住台灣的台灣人很難理解的
很多海外的台灣人,由其是當媽媽的
真的是焦慮爆表
看她們的po文和討論
都覺得是世界末日要來了
例如不少人全家疫情以來幾乎都完全不出門
開門領個包裹也戴口罩和穿防護衣
外帶不敢叫、連超市的蛋糕、生菜、
沒有皮的水果這種無法加熱的食物也不敢吃
然後不少人看到別人聚會、去餐廳、叫外賣
會當正義魔人指責他人
連用到「武漢肺炎」這幾個字都會引起筆戰
大家關太久都太閒,心情也不好吧
我幾個海外台媽臉友,到現在7、8個月過去了
還是幾乎不出門,維持高度警戒的狀態
還是天天臉書狂發文在抱怨疫情
抱怨外國人自私、抱怨當地政府的政策
曾經勸過一、兩位不要那麼焦慮
但我被反駁說,我沒小孩所以不懂媽媽的擔心
不少版友建議可花錢請保姆、清潔人員、
加上周末多出去玩
但在疫情嚴重的美國,
也許原po老婆並不敢這麼做呀!
除了老婆可能不敢請陌生人來家裡
而原po在醫療業 若又在醫院上班
可能她也會焦慮原po帶病毒回家?
離大城市2小時車程而以
也許這樣她也是害怕疫情而不願意出門??
看原po文章 她很重視有沒有台灣人的朋友
我想應該也是心情惡劣的原因吧
我個人建議
也許她先帶小孩回台灣比較好
有緣的話以後還會在ㄧ起
無緣就算了
補個婚姻點:
疫情前幾個月,
我們婚姻關係也常弄得很不愉快
我也是ㄧ直看海外自救會的社團
看到都有憂鬱、燥鬱、恐慌症
我隊友要進辦公室 我很焦慮他會帶病回家
整天叮嚀他有沒戴口罩、洗澡、洗衣服
他覺得非常煩(我也覺得我很煩)
而我因為可以在家上班
他很嫉妒我,也常在言語挑釁
ㄧ度兩人都有默契疫情結束後要離婚
但後來我不再看海外那幾個版
不再follow 幾個天天狂抱怨疫情的臉友
盡量和隊友出門散步、去海邊、森林ㄧ日遊、
去別的城市ㄧ日遊
ㄧ起去超市購物、去逛街
也會去餐廳吃飯:例如下午2點吃午餐
下午5、6點吃晚餐(當地人都8點以後吃)
也有去酒吧、選擇有廣大戶外庭園
老人多的區,人比較少
不方便停車的地方,火車公車也照坐
我們的生活型態po到海外自救社團
應該會被鞭到爆
可是幾乎沒有再吵架了
反正口罩都有戴好
回家換衣服和洗澡
7月開始盡量「正常生活」到現在還沒生病
(或是無症狀)
其他的就聽天由命
因為再關下去真的都會瘋掉。
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