工作與家庭的兩難 - 婚姻
By Zanna
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大家好,小弟最近有家庭跟工作的兩難,不知道該怎麼辦,希望大家可以給我一些建議
先說一下背景:
小弟今年33Y已婚,兩人都在台北居住/工作,短期內沒有要生。
我長期在外工作,這次才換到台北現職來約三個月。最近前公司的主管(非直屬)邀請我
去他新公司,同樣的主管階級,薪水比現職多30%,該公司在全球業界也是前十大。
聽起來很好但,公司在中部
如果純以自身考量,薪水多又是Top的公司,對以後職涯發展加分,而且還有認識的人上
手比較快,但是我又要回到以前在外工作的狀態,頂多每週回家一次。
我試著詢問老婆意見,他也沒多說,我猜她不是很希望我去,但又怕影響我的決定。
老婆現職很穩定,中部也沒分公司或相關產業可轉,我去的話一定得分隔兩地。如果我才
20幾歲一定會去,但現在30幾又已婚,勢必得考量家庭。
現在很苦惱,到底該拼一波還是先以家庭為重?
希望大家給我一些建議,謝謝!
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先說一下背景:
小弟今年33Y已婚,兩人都在台北居住/工作,短期內沒有要生。
我長期在外工作,這次才換到台北現職來約三個月。最近前公司的主管(非直屬)邀請我
去他新公司,同樣的主管階級,薪水比現職多30%,該公司在全球業界也是前十大。
聽起來很好但,公司在中部
如果純以自身考量,薪水多又是Top的公司,對以後職涯發展加分,而且還有認識的人上
手比較快,但是我又要回到以前在外工作的狀態,頂多每週回家一次。
我試著詢問老婆意見,他也沒多說,我猜她不是很希望我去,但又怕影響我的決定。
老婆現職很穩定,中部也沒分公司或相關產業可轉,我去的話一定得分隔兩地。如果我才
20幾歲一定會去,但現在30幾又已婚,勢必得考量家庭。
現在很苦惱,到底該拼一波還是先以家庭為重?
希望大家給我一些建議,謝謝!
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