對於這段婚姻的無力感 - 婚姻
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看到文章本來以為是反串,A了一下你ID發現是真人,我也是準媽媽,希望你要堅強捏,
以下儘量語氣好
首先孩子和老公要分開看待
你講話的方式好有我媽的既視感,人設也有點相信,不過我媽是本人超愛小朋友,你可能
本來没有很想要,但既然來了也會珍惜那款。有了小朋友就當上天恩賜吧,如果你有能力
自己養,你完全可以把老公當借種對象。很多人吐槽你打算離婚還無套中出,我是覺得不
要緊,就當借種吧,不過你也別對借種對象有甚麼期待就是
其次是老公,你的問題癥結是1. 不捨得錢和 2. 對他有錯誤期待
不捨得錢這點很像我媽,我從小就鼓勵她離婚,但她不肯,也是因為財產分配問題,因為
老覺得樓房是自己的血汗錢,對方不配得一半。也不捨得花錢找律師,覺得律師是外人。
但你得尊重專業,看醫生你要花錢,律師幫你討錢怎麼就不值得薪水了?捨不得孩子套不
住狼,想又不用花錢請律師又讓準前夫乖乖奉上錢錢,世界上没那麼兩全其美的事。話說
你老公拿話術嚇你,你就真的以為他CLAIM甚麼法庭就會給他甚麼,法律知識有待增加,你
真的很需要律師。
是說如果最後真的虧了錢,你就放寛心當借種費吧。最近我媽又講起她覺得我爸會揮霍他
們的共同財產,我這樣安慰她︰「這些年來你不想離婚就是覺得離婚羞人,你借用他的名
字四十年,給他一點工資也很合理,別那麼小氣啦~」
期待這點也是,你老公顯然對你没感情,畢竟都說要離婚了,為甚麼你會對他有所期待
呢?人世界大部份的失望,都是出於期望落差。你會責備你同事不關心你嗎?你跟我媽一
樣奇怪,明明和我爸没感情,以前卻會期待他關心家裏,或是期待他誇讚自己持家有道。
這就是聖母病吧。我對我媽的建議是放棄期待,同時每當她在意爸的感受時,我就提醒她
爸的情緒不是你的責任,他高興了不會多給你一分錢,他不開心到生癌症也與你無關,說
到底他不是巨嬰。
如果你真的因各種因素而不想離婚,那你起碼要放寛心態把他當室友看,他再發牌氣你就
告訴他「你没有資格這樣跟我講話」(這句話是我媽最近在我爸發牌氣時講的,灑花!)
,放下無謂期待,你會好過很多。
孩子再過幾個月就要出世了,為母則強,你要加油~
最後回你一段你幾個月前的推文
妳先生已經結婚了,當爸爸了,但卻沒有任何當父親的自覺!他還在過單身的日子,只想
自己爽!也沒顧慮你多累,就是想要他要的!建議你就直接讓他單身算了!你要想的是,
如果沒有他,你會不會比現在快樂?如果答案是yes,離婚吧!
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以下儘量語氣好
首先孩子和老公要分開看待
你講話的方式好有我媽的既視感,人設也有點相信,不過我媽是本人超愛小朋友,你可能
本來没有很想要,但既然來了也會珍惜那款。有了小朋友就當上天恩賜吧,如果你有能力
自己養,你完全可以把老公當借種對象。很多人吐槽你打算離婚還無套中出,我是覺得不
要緊,就當借種吧,不過你也別對借種對象有甚麼期待就是
其次是老公,你的問題癥結是1. 不捨得錢和 2. 對他有錯誤期待
不捨得錢這點很像我媽,我從小就鼓勵她離婚,但她不肯,也是因為財產分配問題,因為
老覺得樓房是自己的血汗錢,對方不配得一半。也不捨得花錢找律師,覺得律師是外人。
但你得尊重專業,看醫生你要花錢,律師幫你討錢怎麼就不值得薪水了?捨不得孩子套不
住狼,想又不用花錢請律師又讓準前夫乖乖奉上錢錢,世界上没那麼兩全其美的事。話說
你老公拿話術嚇你,你就真的以為他CLAIM甚麼法庭就會給他甚麼,法律知識有待增加,你
真的很需要律師。
是說如果最後真的虧了錢,你就放寛心當借種費吧。最近我媽又講起她覺得我爸會揮霍他
們的共同財產,我這樣安慰她︰「這些年來你不想離婚就是覺得離婚羞人,你借用他的名
字四十年,給他一點工資也很合理,別那麼小氣啦~」
期待這點也是,你老公顯然對你没感情,畢竟都說要離婚了,為甚麼你會對他有所期待
呢?人世界大部份的失望,都是出於期望落差。你會責備你同事不關心你嗎?你跟我媽一
樣奇怪,明明和我爸没感情,以前卻會期待他關心家裏,或是期待他誇讚自己持家有道。
這就是聖母病吧。我對我媽的建議是放棄期待,同時每當她在意爸的感受時,我就提醒她
爸的情緒不是你的責任,他高興了不會多給你一分錢,他不開心到生癌症也與你無關,說
到底他不是巨嬰。
如果你真的因各種因素而不想離婚,那你起碼要放寛心態把他當室友看,他再發牌氣你就
告訴他「你没有資格這樣跟我講話」(這句話是我媽最近在我爸發牌氣時講的,灑花!)
,放下無謂期待,你會好過很多。
孩子再過幾個月就要出世了,為母則強,你要加油~
最後回你一段你幾個月前的推文
妳先生已經結婚了,當爸爸了,但卻沒有任何當父親的自覺!他還在過單身的日子,只想
自己爽!也沒顧慮你多累,就是想要他要的!建議你就直接讓他單身算了!你要想的是,
如果沒有他,你會不會比現在快樂?如果答案是yes,離婚吧!
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