家有兩位尼特族姊姊 - 家庭
By Jessica
at 2013-12-22T22:25
at 2013-12-22T22:25
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簡單家庭背景:
媽媽:55歲 在百貨公司某部門工作
爸爸:大一時去世
大姊:73年次,無工作經驗,私立技術學院畢
二姊:76年次,無工作經驗,學歷同大姊
小弟:我,77年次剛退伍,工作中
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原本住雲林,因故搬來高雄。從她們畢業以來一直沒有工作,有也是被媽媽逼著找,做也不長久(大姊性格有問題又不肯就醫,二姊動作慢又怕生),工作時間都不超過一禮拜。
媽媽用盡各種方法都無效,現在只能讓她們來公司幫忙(工作時間週一到五,每晚6-9點,周休二日),幫忙是沒有錢賺的,因為是媽媽把她賺的錢在分給她們…
原本以為我工作會帶動她們,但我太天真了…還是一樣都沒變,大姊不會騎機車,出入都要二姊載,性格又強勢,所以現在她們兩形影不離。
兩人無男友,也不會打扮,新衣服也不穿偏要穿破的爛的。也感覺不到有什麼物質的慾望(例如智慧型手機或包包)…很難用這個當誘因讓她們走出來工作。
媽媽現在年紀也大了(工作性質需要眼力),雖然她們有點皮毛,但要出師是需要幾年的磨練。媽媽總是很努力的想讓她們振作,但心又太軟 …
會發這文是希望大家可以提供點意見,我的立場是:她們能走出來最好,但要是再這樣下去別想老了我養她們。因為她們(主因),和女友分手了…她說不想結婚之後還要照顧兩個人。
如果還需要什麼資料的我可以提供,謝謝
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媽媽:55歲 在百貨公司某部門工作
爸爸:大一時去世
大姊:73年次,無工作經驗,私立技術學院畢
二姊:76年次,無工作經驗,學歷同大姊
小弟:我,77年次剛退伍,工作中
-----------------------------------------------------
原本住雲林,因故搬來高雄。從她們畢業以來一直沒有工作,有也是被媽媽逼著找,做也不長久(大姊性格有問題又不肯就醫,二姊動作慢又怕生),工作時間都不超過一禮拜。
媽媽用盡各種方法都無效,現在只能讓她們來公司幫忙(工作時間週一到五,每晚6-9點,周休二日),幫忙是沒有錢賺的,因為是媽媽把她賺的錢在分給她們…
原本以為我工作會帶動她們,但我太天真了…還是一樣都沒變,大姊不會騎機車,出入都要二姊載,性格又強勢,所以現在她們兩形影不離。
兩人無男友,也不會打扮,新衣服也不穿偏要穿破的爛的。也感覺不到有什麼物質的慾望(例如智慧型手機或包包)…很難用這個當誘因讓她們走出來工作。
媽媽現在年紀也大了(工作性質需要眼力),雖然她們有點皮毛,但要出師是需要幾年的磨練。媽媽總是很努力的想讓她們振作,但心又太軟 …
會發這文是希望大家可以提供點意見,我的立場是:她們能走出來最好,但要是再這樣下去別想老了我養她們。因為她們(主因),和女友分手了…她說不想結婚之後還要照顧兩個人。
如果還需要什麼資料的我可以提供,謝謝
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