定婚後結婚前姑婆喪事 - 結婚
By Isabella
at 2015-10-20T10:41
at 2015-10-20T10:41
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10月初訂婚,明年1月初要結婚
姑婆突如其來的發病到前天離世,外公家整個籠罩在哀傷中
在姑婆發病後,我一直有去看她,甚至危急前請示過葬儀社人員及男方家長,幸好有見到姑婆最後一面不至抱憾,
姑婆過世後,人家說千萬不能見青(大體)
葬儀社當初說法是說未完婚都沒關係,何況長輩過世誰能預測,捻香、送終均可
男方那邊則說帶個紅包在身(含要進新娘房的伴娘、丈母娘等人),順從自己心意可去捻香,
但能避則避,所以我有邀先生一起去捻他有這層顧忌不敢去,甚至希望我能少去就少去
因為他認為姑婆在外公家斷氣,那邊算不乾淨,雖然遺體移置殯儀館看不到,還是認為我再兩個月左右就要當新娘,盡量少接觸
所以想請問大家是否我或先生是否可去幫姑婆上香?出殯送終呢?是否只要不要瞻仰遺容即可?
希望能遵守習俗但又不要讓自己有遺憾,懇請大家能告訴我該怎麼辦?謝謝
(ps.大體已移至殯儀館冰存,外公家有設靈堂,所以捻香不會見到大體)
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姑婆突如其來的發病到前天離世,外公家整個籠罩在哀傷中
在姑婆發病後,我一直有去看她,甚至危急前請示過葬儀社人員及男方家長,幸好有見到姑婆最後一面不至抱憾,
姑婆過世後,人家說千萬不能見青(大體)
葬儀社當初說法是說未完婚都沒關係,何況長輩過世誰能預測,捻香、送終均可
男方那邊則說帶個紅包在身(含要進新娘房的伴娘、丈母娘等人),順從自己心意可去捻香,
但能避則避,所以我有邀先生一起去捻他有這層顧忌不敢去,甚至希望我能少去就少去
因為他認為姑婆在外公家斷氣,那邊算不乾淨,雖然遺體移置殯儀館看不到,還是認為我再兩個月左右就要當新娘,盡量少接觸
所以想請問大家是否我或先生是否可去幫姑婆上香?出殯送終呢?是否只要不要瞻仰遺容即可?
希望能遵守習俗但又不要讓自己有遺憾,懇請大家能告訴我該怎麼辦?謝謝
(ps.大體已移至殯儀館冰存,外公家有設靈堂,所以捻香不會見到大體)
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