嫁出去的女兒須要給娘家孝親費嗎? - 婚姻
By Leila
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at 2011-05-09T13:20
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有必要計較成這樣嗎?如果是,那就放大來檢視吧!
相信很多人都看過一則新聞,撫養一名子女到成年,
如果只讓他上公立學校,無任何補習旅遊零用等等最小花費,
至少需要五百萬,是「至少」,而非最多。
如果一個月孝親費一萬元,每年才負擔十二萬元,
可能等到父母老死這筆錢都未還完。
但是父母撫養子女,是這樣用金錢衡量的嗎?
你出生下來含金戴銀,所以父母對你好,是這樣嗎?
父母遺產是她們一輩子打拼來的,難道你是子女,
就有義務一定要給你嗎?那為何不說那些虐待子女的父母呢?
父母有義務照顧子女,但沒義務用心用力用愛疼惜子女吧!?
這一切都是甘願做歡喜受,「有多少力量就回饋父母多少」
今天父母要把遺產花光光,要用來環遊世界,
或是住頂級養老院,還是要把所有給你哥你弟,
只要是父母意願,或許子女會受傷,
但是要拿來抹滅掉父母對子女的養育之恩,個人不贊同。
量力而為,沒有一定規則,只看你願意怎麼做,不是這樣嗎?
好吧!我承認我認真了...
而且我只是為了回「我認為,當父母自己把遺產跟撫養畫上等號時,
子女為什麼不能照做?」 .....我還回了真大篇:P
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相信很多人都看過一則新聞,撫養一名子女到成年,
如果只讓他上公立學校,無任何補習旅遊零用等等最小花費,
至少需要五百萬,是「至少」,而非最多。
如果一個月孝親費一萬元,每年才負擔十二萬元,
可能等到父母老死這筆錢都未還完。
但是父母撫養子女,是這樣用金錢衡量的嗎?
你出生下來含金戴銀,所以父母對你好,是這樣嗎?
父母遺產是她們一輩子打拼來的,難道你是子女,
就有義務一定要給你嗎?那為何不說那些虐待子女的父母呢?
父母有義務照顧子女,但沒義務用心用力用愛疼惜子女吧!?
這一切都是甘願做歡喜受,「有多少力量就回饋父母多少」
今天父母要把遺產花光光,要用來環遊世界,
或是住頂級養老院,還是要把所有給你哥你弟,
只要是父母意願,或許子女會受傷,
但是要拿來抹滅掉父母對子女的養育之恩,個人不贊同。
量力而為,沒有一定規則,只看你願意怎麼做,不是這樣嗎?
好吧!我承認我認真了...
而且我只是為了回「我認為,當父母自己把遺產跟撫養畫上等號時,
子女為什麼不能照做?」 .....我還回了真大篇:P
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