婚禮已經準備一半,女朋友卻發現的癌了 - 結婚

By Suhail Hany
at 2014-02-10T01:27

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婚期訂在5月多

原本以為可以像正常人開開心心的過人生另一個階段

一個天大的玩笑卻發生在我身上

去年10月多發現那的分泌物變多也沒太在意

拖到去年底才去檢查發現是子宮頸癌1b期

知道結果後女友不敢在我面前哭偷偷的哭被我發現

我眼眶的水龍頭也打開了

我跟她說不論怎麼樣我都會永遠陪著她

叫她不要想太多好好治療

醫生是打算整個子宮拿掉

但女友爸爸說這樣就不能生育了

所以決定先切掉子宮頸1/3和附近淋巴拿掉

手術在過年前開開了6個小時

過年期間也是瞞著我爸媽去醫院陪在身旁

以為手術成功了

但2個禮拜後

醫生來個不好的消息

淋巴有發現癌細胞表示有可能會復發或轉移

所以必須要做放射和化療

但是選擇放射就不能生育化療有副作用

我很煎熬我爸媽也還不知道

我大概也猜的到結果(反對取消婚約)

所以我想瞞一輩子但是後面的治療一定會被發現

化療會掉髮這很難瞞

我完全不知道跟我不合的老爸怎麼開口講這件事

現在跟女朋友父母決定是先做化療但不保證有機會成功

而且一定會影響結婚當天

如果搭配放射機會會比較大

我很怕因為如果為了以後有機會可以生育只選擇化療

癌細胞轉移怎麼辦轉移就沒機會了

我一輩子也對不起我女朋友

女生會得這個病有一半的原因可以歸到男生

希望有女朋友的男生或即將結婚的

好好愛惜你的另一半

帶她去做子宮抹片及乳癌檢查

這個通常發現已經都是中後期了..

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Tags: 結婚

All Comments

By Isla
at 2014-02-13T18:34

看了好沉重...希望你們之後可以順利平安~!

By Odelette
at 2014-02-17T10:23

希望你女朋友能好轉康復

By Hedda
at 2014-02-18T02:02

看得真的很心疼，有你的陪伴她會更有勇氣，加油!!

By Franklin
at 2014-02-21T14:53

你一定要加油，給她和自己點勇氣面對接下來的挑戰!!

By Harry
at 2014-02-25T14:15

加油!無論最後什麼決定，都一定要陪著她

By Kyle
at 2014-02-28T06:15

加油，這真的太煎熬了，希望你們能一起渡過這個難關

By Joe
at 2014-02-28T21:26

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By Una
at 2014-03-01T18:11

加油哦要是我我會先不告知父母先結

By Puput
at 2014-03-02T02:40

有考慮冷凍卵子嗎? 先凍起來然後做化療以後身體可以

By Rae
at 2014-03-03T16:11

負擔就把受精卵移回來不能負擔就到國外找代孕

By Yuri
at 2014-03-05T12:59

眼眶紅了~你們要加油呦

By Olive
at 2014-03-06T13:26

看了好難過為你們打氣希望有好結果

By Valerie
at 2014-03-08T05:20

加油！只要活著就都有希望，祝你女友早日康復，你們

By Mason
at 2014-03-13T03:20

婚禮一切順利！我之前也是定期檢查時發現有細胞異常
，現正積極追蹤中！一起加油

By Emily
at 2014-03-15T05:10

加油!!

By Christine
at 2014-03-18T11:22

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at 2014-03-20T16:25

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By Odelette
at 2014-03-21T22:39

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By Franklin
at 2014-03-24T13:29

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By Kelly
at 2014-03-28T03:53

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By John
at 2014-03-30T21:41

我也是要辦婚禮前一個月癌症開刀，婚禮後化療放療，

By Suhail Hany
at 2014-04-03T22:18

要對彼此有信心。這條路很長，我相信你們會走過的。

By Todd Johnson
at 2014-04-04T20:28

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By Edith
at 2014-04-08T18:33

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By Lydia
at 2014-04-12T14:55

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By Callum
at 2014-04-15T11:07

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By Jack
at 2014-04-18T04:44

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By Jacob
at 2014-04-20T22:58

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By Elvira
at 2014-04-25T12:37

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By Genevieve
at 2014-04-25T16:02

加油~~一定要撐下去!!再往更之後的畫面想像撐下去

By Dora
at 2014-04-26T22:34

讓未來的你們可以笑著看現在吧!!

By Megan
at 2014-04-27T20:13

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By Annie
at 2014-04-28T03:38

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By Catherine
at 2014-04-30T03:10

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By Elma
at 2014-05-02T18:34

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at 2014-05-03T21:47

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By Rae
at 2014-05-06T20:42

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By Kyle
at 2014-05-11T15:57

加油~祝福你們

By Callum
at 2014-05-13T16:18

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By Valerie
at 2014-05-14T10:23

一定會好起來的你要給他正面力量阿!! 加油加油

By Ida
at 2014-05-19T03:02

加油加油先求健康就好祝福你們!!!

By Joe
at 2014-05-22T02:08

加油~~化療後的掉髮可以戴假髮~現在假髮都做的很真

By Hedwig
at 2014-05-22T08:39

希望會好轉的你們都要加油喔

By Poppy
at 2014-05-26T03:52

加油加油!!!

By Hamiltion
at 2014-05-27T05:31

加油阿～之後找代理孕母也是一個方法

By Hazel
at 2014-06-01T05:08

加油!!

By Audriana
at 2014-06-04T13:34

你自己都擔心只做化療的話會不夠,現在醫療那麼發達
總會有很多辦法的,女朋友的命比較重要吧

By Cara
at 2014-06-07T21:53

加油,以後一切會好轉的

By Liam
at 2014-06-11T13:41

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By Zora
at 2014-06-15T13:05

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By Annie
at 2014-06-18T11:15

加油

By Zora
at 2014-06-21T12:42

加油有機會就不要放棄

By Kristin
at 2014-06-26T10:22

加油！一定會更好的~

By Gary
at 2014-06-29T21:14

加油一切會好

By Quanna
at 2014-07-04T11:12

加油！

By Thomas
at 2014-07-06T22:21

加油，一定會有奇蹟的，不要放棄

By Freda
at 2014-07-10T16:23

加油!!

By Quintina
at 2014-07-13T06:29

加油！！不要放棄希望

By Hazel
at 2014-07-16T06:58

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By Charlie
at 2014-07-20T17:55

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By Kama
at 2014-07-23T15:17

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By Andy
at 2014-07-27T08:19

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By Andrew
at 2014-08-01T04:08

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By Megan
at 2014-08-04T14:00

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By Ina
at 2014-08-08T07:44

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By Zora
at 2014-08-10T08:43

加油遇到這種事真的很辛苦只能堅持下去加油!!!

By Jack
at 2014-08-15T07:48

加油~

By Daph Bay
at 2014-08-17T14:13

加油！！

By Mason
at 2014-08-20T23:10

加油，祝福你們

By Connor
at 2014-08-21T08:29

加油!

By Elizabeth
at 2014-08-24T22:31

我媽媽也是子宮頸癌而且是2b..但是我媽媽沒有開刀(我
很驚訝為什麼1B要開刀)，當初是化療+放射治療的
療程結束後隔一年也發現...癌細胞轉到淋巴...

By Callum
at 2014-08-27T12:50

後來還是化療+放射治療的..一直到現在3.4年持續追蹤

By Candice
at 2014-08-27T15:02

沒有再復發的情況...子宮頸癌也5年了..所以你不用太
擔心...你女朋友一定會痊癒的^^ 癌症沒那麼可怕的

By Todd Johnson
at 2014-08-31T01:05

順便再說一下不是每一種化療都會掉光頭髮的我媽做
化療有掉髮但並沒有到光(連禿都沒有) 所以別擔心哦
你如果有需要我可以跟你說我媽媽去哪間醫院的!!

By Enid
at 2014-09-02T23:48

加油喔!年紀輕救命第一了!其餘的都之後再打算吧

By Kristin
at 2014-09-07T05:17

加油!!!!!

By Damian
at 2014-09-08T12:00

加油！

By Ethan
at 2014-09-11T08:31

加油!!

By Genevieve
at 2014-09-14T16:35

有需要可以介紹你醫生~不過都是自費的

By Frederic
at 2014-09-15T12:02

加油!!! 也祝你未婚妻早日康復

By Vanessa
at 2014-09-17T19:30

加油

By Bethany
at 2014-09-19T23:39

加油! 她一定會康復的

By Charlie
at 2014-09-24T12:01

加油~!!為你和女友集氣!!堅強的你們一定可以度過難關

By Donna
at 2014-09-28T11:54

原PO加油...

By Callum
at 2014-09-29T22:56

加油！祝福你們平安幸福攜手一輩子

By Kelly
at 2014-10-03T10:48

加油！！！你們一定可以攜手撐過去的！！

By Quintina
at 2014-10-06T18:55

加油……你們一定會幸福的

By Brianna
at 2014-10-08T18:06

加油! 想要孩子有別的方法身體先保重!

By Oliver
at 2014-10-12T13:04

加油~!!為你和女友集氣!!

By Freda
at 2014-10-17T06:36

加油~~~~

By Zenobia
at 2014-10-19T04:57

加油!

By Callum
at 2014-10-23T18:56

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By Necoo
at 2014-10-24T17:34

加油!!

By Franklin
at 2014-10-27T02:20

加油唷~~可以多去幾家醫院問問不同的醫生，說不定會
有比較好的治療方法

By Hedy
at 2014-10-31T04:58

子宮頸癌其實沒有那麼難治療可以先凍卵再多問其他

By Jacky
at 2014-11-02T08:01

醫師的意見加油!

By Faithe
at 2014-11-07T04:24

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By Kristin
at 2014-11-10T09:25

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By Susan
at 2014-11-14T15:37

加油!!!!!!

By Kristin
at 2014-11-17T18:16

真男人～～但也建議你先知會自己的爸媽

By Elma
at 2014-11-21T14:29

就算婚期正常、未婚妻也康復，但你們日後大概很難跟

By Harry
at 2014-11-25T12:58

家裡長輩交代，現在不講，爸媽絕對會更不認同妻子

By Cara
at 2014-11-26T13:21

也無法認同這樣的親家

By David
at 2014-11-30T20:11

加油~~~

By Joseph
at 2014-12-05T09:40

加油!!!

By Necoo
at 2014-12-08T19:48

讓女友快樂生病的人心情很重要

By Candice
at 2014-12-11T22:49

加油~~你們一定會幸福快樂的。

By Callum
at 2014-12-12T17:42

加油!希望你女友趕快好起來

By Puput
at 2014-12-13T16:41

凍卵子+1，祝福你們！請一定要勇敢！

By Kristin
at 2014-12-15T16:36

有性行為女性一定要做子宮頸抹片檢查最好在未有性

By Caroline
at 2014-12-19T03:10

行為之前可以接種二價或四價子宮頸癌疫苗降低罹癌

By Jacky
at 2014-12-22T16:11

機率男生女生都要愛惜自己的身體健康為重阿

By Delia
at 2014-12-27T14:02

加油

By Hamiltion
at 2015-01-01T01:45

天阿~看了好心酸~~~~他一定會沒事的~!!!

By Charlotte
at 2015-01-02T23:57

加油~癌症一定要用好心情去治療~祝福你們!

By Jack
at 2015-01-07T00:31

加油相信你們一定會順利度過難關!!

By Edward Lewis
at 2015-01-10T10:38

加油

By Hamiltion
at 2015-01-14T03:22

加油！

By Noah
at 2015-01-14T23:38

加油，你要陪著她一起面對所有的難關喔

By Iris
at 2015-01-19T18:41

加油啊！！！

By Carolina Franco
at 2015-01-20T21:36

加油!

By Frederic
at 2015-01-23T07:11

加油，會順利的!

By Edward Lewis
at 2015-01-26T18:30

你女友幾歲了呢？加油

By Annie
at 2015-01-30T09:53

加油！加油！

By Daph Bay
at 2015-02-03T12:07

我家人也是1B剛拿掉子宮Orz 祝福你們會有奇蹟!!加油

By Elizabeth
at 2015-02-07T07:10

加油!!念力!!一定會好轉的!!

By Suhail Hany
at 2015-02-07T13:09

加油！！！

By Liam
at 2015-02-11T12:33

有抗癌板可以去逛逛加油喔你們都很勇敢！！

By Margaret
at 2015-02-12T10:15

加油!

By Belly
at 2015-02-12T22:13

眼眶都溼了，要加油

By Bethany
at 2015-02-14T20:46

加油

By Susan
at 2015-02-19T07:58

加油!

By Belly
at 2015-02-22T11:32

加油呀

By Victoria
at 2015-02-26T14:58

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By Faithe
at 2015-02-27T10:50

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By Zora
at 2015-03-03T05:52

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By Oscar
at 2015-03-06T16:31

加油加油!!!! 一切都會順利好起來的!!!!!!!

By Elvira
at 2015-03-08T12:50

加油現在醫學科技很發達不用擔心一切都會順利

By Dora
at 2015-03-11T08:23

加油！！

By Daniel
at 2015-03-13T02:02

加油!一定一定會好起來!一定一定一定會幸福一輩子!!!

By Ina
at 2015-03-17T13:25

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By Annie
at 2015-03-20T10:16

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By Joseph
at 2015-03-22T06:14

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By Necoo
at 2015-03-26T13:52

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By Mason
at 2015-03-29T06:05

感觸很深~互相扶持就更有力量，希望你們可以平安度過

By Noah
at 2015-03-31T02:53

加油!祝早日康復

By David
at 2015-03-31T10:33

加油喔！！

By Zanna
at 2015-04-01T04:04

加油!!!

By Brianna
at 2015-04-04T04:47

加油，一定會好起來！

By Tracy
at 2015-04-04T21:10

加油!

By Cara
at 2015-04-07T06:46

加油～祝福你們

By Quintina
at 2015-04-09T09:13

加油

By Doris
at 2015-04-10T23:56

祝福你們~希望能夠有一個圓滿的解決方法!祝早日康復~

By Ina
at 2015-04-15T09:03

加油！

By Poppy
at 2015-04-17T03:39

加油，你們兩個這時彼此都需要依靠對方

By Steve
at 2015-04-20T18:40

加油～

By Wallis
at 2015-04-24T01:24

加油喔！

By Kelly
at 2015-04-24T19:01

加油！一定會好的！

By Dinah
at 2015-04-27T16:51

加油~!!希望最後有好的結果,祝福你們!!

By Rebecca
at 2015-04-27T19:34

加油，子宮頸癌治癒的機率非常高喔，不用擔心
生育倒是其次，重要的是病人的心情及生命最重要

By Audriana
at 2015-05-02T04:38

加油~~~!一切都會順利的!

By Frederic
at 2015-05-06T18:16

加油~一切順利!!!!集氣!!!!!

By Aaliyah
at 2015-05-10T04:46

加油!祝你們順利~

By Mia
at 2015-05-13T21:54

加油!子宮頸癌有很大機會可以治癒，祝福你們順利!!

By Annie
at 2015-05-13T23:35

加油!!!

By Carol
at 2015-05-17T23:42

加油為您祈禱

By Aaliyah
at 2015-05-22T05:01

加油～祝福你們一定會好起來！

By Harry
at 2015-05-22T19:48

加油祝早日康復

By Harry
at 2015-05-25T20:23

加油

By Lily
at 2015-05-27T02:30

加油!!會好起來的!!

By Agatha
at 2015-05-27T12:31

加油！一定會好轉的！

By Zora
at 2015-05-27T23:13

加油！祝你們幸福健康！

By Freda
at 2015-05-28T10:29

加油，祝福你們

By Olga
at 2015-06-02T08:43

加油!!!一定會順利康復的祝福你們

By Daph Bay
at 2015-06-05T13:20

加油!!

By Daph Bay
at 2015-06-06T09:46

加油！一定會平安健康的！

By Hedda
at 2015-06-07T14:58

加油！加油！

By Tom
at 2015-06-12T01:43

加油!祝順利!

By Ina
at 2015-06-16T01:05

加油會沒事的!!

By Vanessa
at 2015-06-21T00:44

加油!!一定會順利平安健康的!!!!!!

By Gilbert
at 2015-06-24T16:31

加油!

By David
at 2015-06-28T22:19

加油加油~~~一定會好的....

By Emma
at 2015-06-30T23:49

加油!!! 自己要先堅強!!! 會順利康復的 :)

By Ida
at 2015-07-04T21:53

加油！祝女友順利康復～你們一定會幸福的！！

By Dorothy
at 2015-07-08T13:44

加油!!!!!一定要努力好起來永永遠遠在一起!!!

By Adele
at 2015-07-10T20:35

加油！老天保佑平安健康！

By Odelette
at 2015-07-13T11:09

加油

By Delia
at 2015-07-17T16:48

加油!會平安順利的！

By Poppy
at 2015-07-20T15:35

加油！也祝福你們順利

By Hedda
at 2015-07-24T08:38

加油!!!幫你們集氣!!!!

By Robert
at 2015-07-26T09:57

加油!!!!

By Isabella
at 2015-07-26T16:39

加油加油！祝她早日康復

By Charlie
at 2015-07-28T06:47

加油

By Steve
at 2015-07-29T05:52

加油!

婚禮已經準備一半,女朋友卻發現的癌了 - 結婚

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