姑媳問題如何解決? - 婚姻
By Olivia
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※ 引述《Eckart (it's me.)》之銘言:
: 是否同意記者抄文:NO
: 會抱怨我弟跟我弟媳也是因為覺得我父母承擔很多,原本可以退休放鬆過生活的年紀,
卻
: 還要繼續上班養家,讓我跟我妹妹很不捨.
: 加上我弟弟他們也沒有節約的概念,例如房間沒有人的狀態下,冷氣還是繼續運轉、我
爸
: 買給小孩子喝的鮮奶保久乳,常常喝到一半就放著不再喝(常常在家裡桌上看到不知道
放
: 多久喝了一部分的保久乳)
其他原文恕刪
會保留這段是因為跟我接下來要講的話有關
雖然你們抱怨內容雜七雜八
但最致命的應該還是經濟問題
兩個沒有工作的夫妻,會生了三個小孩
若不是 智力有狀況、過於樂天
那就是有恃無恐,認定有人會幫忙養小孩
從文中資訊來看
我猜測你家小有資產
資產全給一人,應該是綽綽有餘
但若要分給四個人,那問題就大了
而你們抱怨的點幾乎都踩在他們的雷上,也就是金錢
(不工作、花父母的錢、父母不能退休、不夠節約)
對於弟妹來說
他們早就沒辦法找到足以餬口的工作
一個五專肆業,只做過廚房雜工的先生
一個七年沒工作,現今要帶三個小孩的護理師
唯一的希望就是婆家的金援跟財產
現在還有人在後面碎嘴,要父母不要一直金援他們
她當然是跳起來捍衛她的家人
直接對你們視而不見,在大頭貼上寫下對你們的怨恨
這都是很正常的
如果只是抱怨一般相處摩擦
弟妹根本不需要做這麼大的動作,繼續虛情假意地應酬即可
重點還是你們踩到她的底線,阻擋了她對未來的希望
所以你問要不要道歉
我只能說這都隨你,就算道歉,氣氛也不會回到過去
除非你明確說出:你不會分遺產
不然就這樣吧
-----
另外既然是你發文
那我要給你建議:請你把錢好好存下來,不要再買小額禮物
我不清楚你父母最終會怎麼安排財產
但你還是先為自己打算
不用再買童書、衣服還是玩具之類的
一個沒讓小孩念幼稚園大班的父母
說他們多重視小孩教育
我也只能笑笑的
買那些益智玩具或童書,除了彌補你對姪女的愧疚感
其餘的應該沒什麼幫助
不要忘了【升米恩斗米仇】
與其平時給些小恩小惠
倒不如將那些錢存下來做更好的經濟投資
等到父母亟需幫助時
你再拿出來幫助原生家庭
還會是一個明確的名目跟金額
別人無法忽視
會對你有利
(記得要保留收據、轉帳資訊,以免別人忘了)
至於其餘的,有些話我不想說,那太殘酷了
就請你好好思量
以上
--
: 是否同意記者抄文:NO
: 會抱怨我弟跟我弟媳也是因為覺得我父母承擔很多,原本可以退休放鬆過生活的年紀,
卻
: 還要繼續上班養家,讓我跟我妹妹很不捨.
: 加上我弟弟他們也沒有節約的概念,例如房間沒有人的狀態下,冷氣還是繼續運轉、我
爸
: 買給小孩子喝的鮮奶保久乳,常常喝到一半就放著不再喝(常常在家裡桌上看到不知道
放
: 多久喝了一部分的保久乳)
其他原文恕刪
會保留這段是因為跟我接下來要講的話有關
雖然你們抱怨內容雜七雜八
但最致命的應該還是經濟問題
兩個沒有工作的夫妻,會生了三個小孩
若不是 智力有狀況、過於樂天
那就是有恃無恐,認定有人會幫忙養小孩
從文中資訊來看
我猜測你家小有資產
資產全給一人,應該是綽綽有餘
但若要分給四個人,那問題就大了
而你們抱怨的點幾乎都踩在他們的雷上,也就是金錢
(不工作、花父母的錢、父母不能退休、不夠節約)
對於弟妹來說
他們早就沒辦法找到足以餬口的工作
一個五專肆業,只做過廚房雜工的先生
一個七年沒工作,現今要帶三個小孩的護理師
唯一的希望就是婆家的金援跟財產
現在還有人在後面碎嘴,要父母不要一直金援他們
她當然是跳起來捍衛她的家人
直接對你們視而不見,在大頭貼上寫下對你們的怨恨
這都是很正常的
如果只是抱怨一般相處摩擦
弟妹根本不需要做這麼大的動作,繼續虛情假意地應酬即可
重點還是你們踩到她的底線,阻擋了她對未來的希望
所以你問要不要道歉
我只能說這都隨你,就算道歉,氣氛也不會回到過去
除非你明確說出:你不會分遺產
不然就這樣吧
-----
另外既然是你發文
那我要給你建議:請你把錢好好存下來,不要再買小額禮物
我不清楚你父母最終會怎麼安排財產
但你還是先為自己打算
不用再買童書、衣服還是玩具之類的
一個沒讓小孩念幼稚園大班的父母
說他們多重視小孩教育
我也只能笑笑的
買那些益智玩具或童書,除了彌補你對姪女的愧疚感
其餘的應該沒什麼幫助
不要忘了【升米恩斗米仇】
與其平時給些小恩小惠
倒不如將那些錢存下來做更好的經濟投資
等到父母亟需幫助時
你再拿出來幫助原生家庭
還會是一個明確的名目跟金額
別人無法忽視
會對你有利
(記得要保留收據、轉帳資訊,以免別人忘了)
至於其餘的,有些話我不想說,那太殘酷了
就請你好好思量
以上
--
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