如何說服另一半家庭不要辦婚禮 - 結婚
By Doris
at 2014-04-08T20:07
at 2014-04-08T20:07
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我是女方
但我不想辦
只想要登記
但男方目前透漏出他們家想要辦的訊息
目前不想辦的原因有以下幾點
1. 我本身很討厭麻煩
光是想到要宴客就頭皮發麻
要馬怕人不來
又要怕人太多
我連婚紗都不想拍
國中的時候就有拍過家族的紀念照
當然也知道類似的東西只有頭一年有翻過
然後就只會長灰塵
而且我非常討厭婚紗放大照放床頭
會有睡覺都被看得fu 相當不舒服
2. 不喜歡習俗
討厭三姑六婆說這個要做那個要做
迎娶要看時辰
啥米篩鬼東西通通都不想弄
連迎娶也不要
所有習俗都做全了也不代表婚姻會幸福
非常不屑
3. 對方家庭有某部分很"傳統"
例如男友媽媽會迷信的說女生月經來不可以進廟拜拜
哪個神明生日要去拜拜之類的
只有登記啥都不要的話就可以跳過這些傳統該有的東西...XDDDD
4. 沒錢
男友因為還未考上教甄所以工作不穩定也沒有多少存款
我則因為我家人要幫我買房子所以之後所有現金存款
全部應該都投入房貸 (沒意外的話就是我跟男友以後居住的房子)
所以幾乎是沒有剩餘的錢了
連蜜月可能都得省下來
目前正在想辦法跟男方溝通不要辦喜宴
況且男生弟弟已經在一兩年前結婚
也辦過喜事了......!!
我方則是爸媽沒意見
爸爸有說過不辦也可以
除了第四點可能可以跟男方談之外
前面三點我也不敢講啊XDD
有沒有人能提供不同的說法說服男方不要辦婚禮阿...
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