如何與婆婆大姑相處? - 婚姻
By Jake
at 2011-06-20T18:00
at 2011-06-20T18:00
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※ 引述《laula1980 (laula)》之銘言:
: 標題: Re: [苦惱] 如何與婆婆大姑相處?
: 時間: Mon Jun 20 17:28:02 2011
:
: 很抱歉 我想再說詳細一點
:
: 我大姑是有婆婆的,只是他一直強調他婆婆吃素很難搞,為了怕他同住
: 甚至不敢跟他婆婆說有買房買車,所以我大姑才會習慣性的把事情都丟給娘家。
:
: 早在我婆婆跟我老公討論做月子的事之前,其實我們就已經計畫好要買月子餐了,
: 目的也是盡量減低婆婆的負擔。
:
: 房子是公公買的,將來即便有能力搬出去,我老公還是會帶著他媽媽一起搬,
: 芥蒂還是一直存在,所以無解。
:
: 我大姑的小孩吃飯會用手抓盤裡的菜,不給他要的東西會哭會鬧,
: 他的爸媽跟我婆婆看到只會說好淘氣之類的話但不會制止,
: 我看到我會拍他手心,示意他停止
: 結果就跟我小姑抱怨我打小孩,而我小姑就跟我說別人的小孩只能罵不能打,
: 結果最後連我小姑也受不了。
:
: 我很想回家待產甚至坐月子,是我老公不肯,
: 所以我才選擇自己買月子餐讓自己跟婆婆輕鬆一點。
:
: 我沒有跟自己的大姑競爭婆婆的人力,
: 我也挑明跟我老公說過我無法接受婆婆的衛生習慣,
: 例如讓我小姑的孩子舔發霉的推車,餵6個月大的嬰兒吃豬肉
: 所以大姑小孩的存在對我而言反倒是解脫
: 所以有能力小孩一定自己照顧
:
: 我婆婆是很單純,單純到自己想的都是對的別人都是錯的,
: 我沒跟他正面衝突過,
:
: 那 我還能做什麼嗎?
:
:
: --
: 標題: Re: [苦惱] 如何與婆婆大姑相處?
: 時間: Mon Jun 20 17:28:02 2011
:
: 很抱歉 我想再說詳細一點
:
: 我大姑是有婆婆的,只是他一直強調他婆婆吃素很難搞,為了怕他同住
: 甚至不敢跟他婆婆說有買房買車,所以我大姑才會習慣性的把事情都丟給娘家。
:
: 早在我婆婆跟我老公討論做月子的事之前,其實我們就已經計畫好要買月子餐了,
: 目的也是盡量減低婆婆的負擔。
:
: 房子是公公買的,將來即便有能力搬出去,我老公還是會帶著他媽媽一起搬,
: 芥蒂還是一直存在,所以無解。
:
: 我大姑的小孩吃飯會用手抓盤裡的菜,不給他要的東西會哭會鬧,
: 他的爸媽跟我婆婆看到只會說好淘氣之類的話但不會制止,
: 我看到我會拍他手心,示意他停止
: 結果就跟我小姑抱怨我打小孩,而我小姑就跟我說別人的小孩只能罵不能打,
: 結果最後連我小姑也受不了。
:
: 我很想回家待產甚至坐月子,是我老公不肯,
: 所以我才選擇自己買月子餐讓自己跟婆婆輕鬆一點。
:
: 我沒有跟自己的大姑競爭婆婆的人力,
: 我也挑明跟我老公說過我無法接受婆婆的衛生習慣,
: 例如讓我小姑的孩子舔發霉的推車,餵6個月大的嬰兒吃豬肉
: 所以大姑小孩的存在對我而言反倒是解脫
: 所以有能力小孩一定自己照顧
:
: 我婆婆是很單純,單純到自己想的都是對的別人都是錯的,
: 我沒跟他正面衝突過,
:
: 那 我還能做什麼嗎?
:
:
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