夫妻價值觀差異極大 - 婚姻

By Poppy
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上面有篇說本篇是做假的,我覺得還好吧,同樣情形的人看到也可以參考,
還是PTT功用回文只能發文的人參考,其他人不能看?
因為我看到本篇的時候我還以為是我自己半夜睡起來發文,
跟我現在的情形根本幾乎一模一樣,
2個小孩準備上幼兒園,自己一個人工作,老婆在帶小孩沒上班,
老婆也是搜尋各種高檔幼兒園說要上最好的,這時候教育很重要,
我記得前陣子還有發文問幾歲上幼兒園比較好,因為老婆想要兩歲就送,
所以不管他發這篇是真是假,我看到下面推文很多建議我自己也都可以拿來參考,
到底是不是他本人的問題,有差嗎?
不過沒看到他對於錢的回覆,因為我也有一樣的問題,薪水雖然多一些些,
但仍然有房貸要付,所以其實沒多多少,想到未來兩個都要上私立,
只有一個人上班的話,根本想到就睡不著,瑟瑟發抖,
也跟老婆討論過一樣的話題,沒錢怎麼辦,
老婆的回答就是:找你爸媽拿阿,孫子孫女要念書,阿公阿罵幫忙出應該的吧,
因為我跟我老婆家同住,所以主要是我岳父岳母在陪孫子孫女,
我爸媽就偶爾金錢支助一下,但兩個私立幼兒園學費,最少也要一年四五十萬起跳,
我是屬於能不麻煩別人能自己處理就自己搞定的,所以原本想說公立還可以自己處理,
但我老婆就說要上私立好的,沒錢就要我去找我爸媽拿,給孫仔念書應該的,
他們也不會也沒理由拒絕,而我爸媽的確是沒有實際照顧到孫仔,我也不知道回啥。
所以看到本篇我覺得還滿受用,因為跟我情況幾乎一樣,覺得感慨。
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還是PTT功用回文只能發文的人參考,其他人不能看?
因為我看到本篇的時候我還以為是我自己半夜睡起來發文,
跟我現在的情形根本幾乎一模一樣,
2個小孩準備上幼兒園,自己一個人工作,老婆在帶小孩沒上班,
老婆也是搜尋各種高檔幼兒園說要上最好的,這時候教育很重要,
我記得前陣子還有發文問幾歲上幼兒園比較好,因為老婆想要兩歲就送,
所以不管他發這篇是真是假,我看到下面推文很多建議我自己也都可以拿來參考,
到底是不是他本人的問題,有差嗎?
不過沒看到他對於錢的回覆,因為我也有一樣的問題,薪水雖然多一些些,
但仍然有房貸要付,所以其實沒多多少,想到未來兩個都要上私立,
只有一個人上班的話,根本想到就睡不著,瑟瑟發抖,
也跟老婆討論過一樣的話題,沒錢怎麼辦,
老婆的回答就是:找你爸媽拿阿,孫子孫女要念書,阿公阿罵幫忙出應該的吧,
因為我跟我老婆家同住,所以主要是我岳父岳母在陪孫子孫女,
我爸媽就偶爾金錢支助一下,但兩個私立幼兒園學費,最少也要一年四五十萬起跳,
我是屬於能不麻煩別人能自己處理就自己搞定的,所以原本想說公立還可以自己處理,
但我老婆就說要上私立好的,沒錢就要我去找我爸媽拿,給孫仔念書應該的,
他們也不會也沒理由拒絕,而我爸媽的確是沒有實際照顧到孫仔,我也不知道回啥。
所以看到本篇我覺得還滿受用,因為跟我情況幾乎一樣,覺得感慨。
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