太太說婚姻很苦 但我覺得已經還行 - 婚姻

By Candice
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: 太太說我身在福中不知福 我上輩子應該救了全宇宙
:
: 太太有工作 大都準時上下班
: 總之她一直抱怨 說我過太爽 但我的工作確實很累
: (另外提一下我年薪約200 她大概是60左右)
: 相對開銷來說也負責了幾乎大部分
: 請問各位 我真的是過太爽嗎?
你們是真的還行啦,沒有到很苦,但這應該是一個感受問題。
為什麼媽媽不換一個更高薪的工作?因為主負責小孩的一方有兩個機會成本,不只是原本
的收入,還有「能好好帶小孩」的機會成本。
我自己也曾想要換到更高薪的工作,但是現在的工作我已經取得平衡,可以上班同時顧好
小孩,如果換新工作,所有都重新來,要非常幸運才有辦法在短時間內就穩定下來吧!而
這個賭注,身為媽媽我還真不敢賭,萬一新工作不加班不行或沒有彈性,小孩誰顧?
我主負責小孩,找學校、學東西、功課等等都是我負責,所以我老公就不用煩惱。他可以
全心在他的工作上,換工作往前衝也不用太顧慮這些事。
不知道原po有沒有意識到他可以專心打拼,是因為有太太在維持家事。太太的收入比較低
,是媽媽衡量過全局和機會成本後的抉擇。
要太太薪水翻個三倍再來說,根本就不是解決問題的方法。原po可以接受小孩沒人管,讓
太太去花時間專心打拼?
為什麼太太會覺得很苦,老公很爽?
我想是太太沒有得到應有的尊重?也許太太不是沒機會有更好工作,但是考慮全局之後還
是維持現狀是最佳解。
但是如果因此被說低薪不上進,任何人都不會爽吧,一個家是夫妻雙方的共同努力,而不
是只用收入來衡量付出,否則誰想要顧家呢?
從文中看不出來老婆在抱怨什麼,但我想應該脫不了態度問題。我也常覺得我老公是全世
界最爽的人,他只要自己衝就好,無後顧之憂。但他會讓我覺得受到100%的應有尊重,就
算有時我累一點也覺得只是為這個家一起努力。
「能夠好好顧小孩」的隱形機會成本,真的非常容易被忽略。
原po要不要先問問老婆覺得苦的地方在哪裏?要對症下藥。
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: 太太有工作 大都準時上下班
: 總之她一直抱怨 說我過太爽 但我的工作確實很累
: (另外提一下我年薪約200 她大概是60左右)
: 相對開銷來說也負責了幾乎大部分
: 請問各位 我真的是過太爽嗎?
你們是真的還行啦,沒有到很苦,但這應該是一個感受問題。
為什麼媽媽不換一個更高薪的工作?因為主負責小孩的一方有兩個機會成本,不只是原本
的收入,還有「能好好帶小孩」的機會成本。
我自己也曾想要換到更高薪的工作,但是現在的工作我已經取得平衡,可以上班同時顧好
小孩,如果換新工作,所有都重新來,要非常幸運才有辦法在短時間內就穩定下來吧!而
這個賭注,身為媽媽我還真不敢賭,萬一新工作不加班不行或沒有彈性,小孩誰顧?
我主負責小孩,找學校、學東西、功課等等都是我負責,所以我老公就不用煩惱。他可以
全心在他的工作上,換工作往前衝也不用太顧慮這些事。
不知道原po有沒有意識到他可以專心打拼,是因為有太太在維持家事。太太的收入比較低
,是媽媽衡量過全局和機會成本後的抉擇。
要太太薪水翻個三倍再來說,根本就不是解決問題的方法。原po可以接受小孩沒人管,讓
太太去花時間專心打拼?
為什麼太太會覺得很苦,老公很爽?
我想是太太沒有得到應有的尊重?也許太太不是沒機會有更好工作,但是考慮全局之後還
是維持現狀是最佳解。
但是如果因此被說低薪不上進,任何人都不會爽吧,一個家是夫妻雙方的共同努力,而不
是只用收入來衡量付出,否則誰想要顧家呢?
從文中看不出來老婆在抱怨什麼,但我想應該脫不了態度問題。我也常覺得我老公是全世
界最爽的人,他只要自己衝就好,無後顧之憂。但他會讓我覺得受到100%的應有尊重,就
算有時我累一點也覺得只是為這個家一起努力。
「能夠好好顧小孩」的隱形機會成本,真的非常容易被忽略。
原po要不要先問問老婆覺得苦的地方在哪裏?要對症下藥。
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