因為老公打小孩而吵架 - 婚姻

By Olivia
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Table of Contents
現在的社會怎麼了,正確的事要跟錯誤的行為妥協,正確的教育觀念,在暴力行為前需要容
忍。
這不是有模糊空間的問題,打人和教育完全沒有半毛錢關係,打人就是不對的行為,如果打
人有教育效果,那麼為什麼併排停車不用體罰取代罰款?事實就是打人本身就是錯誤行為。
至於還有把打人當成教育方法的另一半,要如何溝通改變他們的想法呢?其實沒有辦法改變
成年人的想法了,只有盡力阻止暴力行為,這不叫干涉管教,保護孩子不受暴力對待,這是
在執行正義。
至於說孩子會被寵壞,沒這回事,當孩子了解有人在保護他時,長大之後他有能力就會去保
護別人。反正是小時候受到暴力,對方還合理自己行為,那麼孩子長大後也可能用暴力對待
弱者並合理化自己行為。
正義不是一件輕鬆的事,英雄保護弱勢,其實都有付出代價,但身為父母,還是必須當孩子
的英雄,才是對的。
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忍。
這不是有模糊空間的問題,打人和教育完全沒有半毛錢關係,打人就是不對的行為,如果打
人有教育效果,那麼為什麼併排停車不用體罰取代罰款?事實就是打人本身就是錯誤行為。
至於還有把打人當成教育方法的另一半,要如何溝通改變他們的想法呢?其實沒有辦法改變
成年人的想法了,只有盡力阻止暴力行為,這不叫干涉管教,保護孩子不受暴力對待,這是
在執行正義。
至於說孩子會被寵壞,沒這回事,當孩子了解有人在保護他時,長大之後他有能力就會去保
護別人。反正是小時候受到暴力,對方還合理自己行為,那麼孩子長大後也可能用暴力對待
弱者並合理化自己行為。
正義不是一件輕鬆的事,英雄保護弱勢,其實都有付出代價,但身為父母,還是必須當孩子
的英雄,才是對的。
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By Jessica
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By Edwina
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By Donna
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By Andrew
at 2022-11-14T03:39
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還不聽被打就是活該 真的可悲

By Genevieve
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By Faithe
at 2022-11-17T19:44
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段的事了吧?
新加坡還有鞭刑,體罰能不能採用是比例原則的問題
。

By Rebecca
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By Eden
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By Queena
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By Bennie
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By Jake
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By Daniel
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By Odelette
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By Steve
at 2022-11-22T20:57
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vs難道殺人就不用償命嗎?

By Joseph
at 2022-11-21T00:55
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掉耶...其背後最主要的核心是,任何小孩做不對的事
情時,要讓小孩知道為什麼,做錯了什麼,下次改正。
無意義無成效的懲罰還是打罵才是最不對的事情

By Sarah
at 2022-11-22T20:57
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本身也不是很好...小孩子就是父母的鏡子,看看一堆
在學校上課一堆鳥樣的小孩就知道了

By Vanessa
at 2022-11-21T00:55
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巴採取貶低的挫折教育,小孩子在同儕間因自覺外貌差
,偏自卑無自信,我一個當補習班老師的,除了教導學
校念書學習之外,還要協助建立自信心導正觀念,連家
長的父母都要一併教導導正那樣的挫折教育方法對孩子
成長無助於事,累死了,重點是,也沒賺多少錢,就當
是為了國家幼苗進盡心力了

By Liam
at 2022-11-22T20:57
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行的,打小孩有嗎?

By Quintina
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By Anthony
at 2022-11-22T20:57
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件有必要打嗎?更何況那個爸爸只是跳針的警告幾次,
也沒嘗試其他的教育方案,就打下去了耶

By Suhail Hany
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By Andrew
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By Rae
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By Edith
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By Doris
at 2022-11-22T01:33
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甚至要跟自己的童年和解,因為太費力了,打罵相對
簡單很多,還能給人「我有在教」的說法

By Catherine
at 2022-11-21T00:55
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,那就都是大人自己的情緒發洩而已

By Rachel
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By Anthony
at 2022-11-21T00:55
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崽子累死自己,很多時候就是條件不足才會走捷徑,
真要照你們這樣說,那給條件充足的去生就好了,最
好入法加強力執行,看看生育率能不能再砍半

By Genevieve
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By Carol
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By Odelette
at 2022-11-22T20:57
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然後體罰欸......

By Harry
at 2022-11-21T00:55
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是不是也可以合理體罰管教?如果老人不行、為什麼小
孩可以?

By Skylar DavisLinda
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By Leila
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By Tracy
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By Hedwig
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不會混淆嗎?

By Delia
at 2022-11-22T20:57
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的自己找的,這樣比較好?

By Connor
at 2022-11-21T00:55
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人耶 胡扯

By Victoria
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By Una
at 2022-11-21T00:55
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嘆「哇噻爸媽感情超好的」

By Hamiltion
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By Valerie
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By Rosalind
at 2022-11-22T20:57
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、打人、殺人就是不對的,這種武斷式結論事實上是經
不起檢驗

By Carol
at 2022-11-21T00:55
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用死刑 還關一輩子懲罰全民養壞蛋 做錯事當然要懲罰

By Belly
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By Isla
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By Ula
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By Harry
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更好的國家可以舉嗎? 舉一個校園槍擊那麼頻繁的
國家跟一個小偷滿街是的國家

By Gary
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By Candice
at 2022-11-21T00:55
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定不能打小孩 所以說打就是錯甚至違法是太過了
不過回到原文案例 那情境下我認為根本不需要處罰小
孩 那小孩沒有做錯事阿

By Mason
at 2022-11-22T20:57
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成小孩對應該年紀犯了他明明知道明顯非常極端不可
取的錯誤才使用棍子來教 這個以外本來就是家長要用
正常對話的方式來教導的,原po放任小孩無端被打真
的也夠誇張,在當下意識到的時候就該在開始動手前
趕快把小孩帶離先生了….

By Selena
at 2022-11-21T00:55
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家暴地步,我暫且相信。所以這是他們夫妻要去協調哪
個階段、何種行為要不要使用到最終手段的問題,這是
他們夫妻間溝通的問題沒錯。

By Olive
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By Mary
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By Mary
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By Annie
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By Isla
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By Daniel
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當防衛。

By Bennie
at 2022-11-22T20:57
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因為教育而體罰小孩是完全不同的概念

By Emma
at 2022-11-21T00:55
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往今來所有情境角度中都是“絕對不對”。

By Heather
at 2022-11-22T20:57
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的情境中,你認為打人是不恰當的”。但不要推展到
連你自己也不清楚的情境中。

By Sarah
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By Dorothy
at 2022-11-22T20:57
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20歲年輕人跟80歲慢性病老人體罰標準要一致,對嗎

By Agatha
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By Delia
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By Heather
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不也是一種暴力...

By Cara
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By Jessica
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By Christine
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By Donna
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任何妳加諸在小孩的非自願行為都可以稱為精神暴力阿

By Edwina
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By Regina
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你看過有小朋友放火燒家裡的嗎

By Olga
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By Isla
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By Wallis
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2歲就開槍有夠邪惡 嗚嗚

By Thomas
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By Doris
at 2022-11-22T20:57
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自己的孩子就是天生惡魔來的,不打不行,那你的孩子
很可能就會往那個方向長去了。天下無不是的父母大多

By Irma
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By Barb Cronin
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