因為婚戒和老公意見不合,怎麼辦? - 結婚
By Franklin
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其實我一直以來都夢想結婚時會有鑽戒,覺得鑽石非常的美麗,也代表和伴侶之間的永恆愛情,所以在老公求婚前其實也一直有暗示他我很想要鑽戒,不過他個人覺得鑽石不好,人工炒作、品牌溢價、破壞環境……等等
所以後來跟他討論的時候我有先找一些資料,讓他知道那些有產地證書的鑽石不是血鑽石,也想讓他明白我認為鑽石是代表愛情跟恆久象徵(我知道是廣告洗腦),不要每件事情都扯到價值金錢那麼利益,當時他總會說「知道了」來敷衍我QQ
結果求婚時…果不其然他依照自己的意願,求婚戒是金戒,但當下看到他求婚是很開心,不過我還是希望擁有一只愛情的鑽戒阿~~~
到了前陣子挑結婚對戒時候,我就因為一直很想要鑽戒,所以挑選款式有出很多意見,就是希望我這邊要有一個50分或以上的鑽戒款式。
勉強拉了他去趁靠櫃幾間,老公看到價格都很傻眼,更加認為鑽戒根本華而不實,買了很沒用,不肯花這麼多錢在他認為沒價值的東西上,價格貴重平時也不太可能常戴,若戴了又會擔心遺失或弄傷…提出各種反駁買鑽戒的存在。反正他總有他的說法啦
但我認為這根本不是價格問題,畢竟結婚只有一次,婚戒對我來說是代表重大意義的東西,怎麼一直滿嘴「錢錢錢」讓我很不開心。
所以我就說我想要的鑽戒我自己出錢,叫他自己挑喜歡的就好(我口氣有點不好)
導致那天挑婚戒後冷戰了一天,後來和好我也沒有再提戒指的事情QQ
但婚戒之後還是得再挑,可是也不知道該怎麼辦?是不是要退讓妥協?
還是說想辦法再和老公溝通鑽戒的事情?可是怕又跟之前結果一樣
有人因為婚戒和老公吵架過嗎?
我只是希望老公可以了解我的想法跟婚戒夢想然後支持而已…
請大家給我一點建議該怎麼辦
補充:感謝大家的回覆跟意見,已經跟先生討論好了,他的求婚金戒指有步入婚姻務實的想法,他也理解我不是想要多貴重的鑽石,只是想要有個紀念意義,我可以自己挑未來鑽石這種培育鑽,小小的自己每天都戴著
關於是誰出的錢,我們是整個從兩個人一起存的結婚基金支出,所以還是希望獲得共識,感謝各位前輩提供的建議,真的很受用
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