命運會這樣安排的道理? - 婚姻
By Ivy
at 2011-05-19T16:02
at 2011-05-19T16:02
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真 心 寒!
當然你很可憐...大家都可憐....
也希望妳老公早日康復.....
通篇錢錢錢,,未來工作職涯發展... 一整個鐵達尼號還沒沉 已經要跳船的味道
雖說夫妻本是同林鳥,大難臨頭各自飛.
你先生正處在人生最最重要,需要你支持的關鍵時刻,
而且這種時刻非常非常很可能一去不返
結果你在這邊錢錢錢,未來職涯不能停,不想跟公婆伸手.....
工作可以找,錢可以賺/可以借, 可以委屈伸手日後還,
命只有一條......肝癌是重症
蘋果電腦賈伯斯有全世界最好的醫療資源跟最多的金錢,也換了肝,你看他最近的照片?
瘦成皮包骨,
這邊的版友都太客氣了......抱歉我修養很差...
很多事情是不能兼顧的, 例如貞節牌坊與某職業,
你就自己默默自私就好,還來討拍.....
我要是推你一個讚,不就良心被狗吃了.
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你婆婆其實修養算不錯呀.沒口出惡言.
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退一億步想
如果是你得肝癌,情況嚴重,你先生用加班/周末來看你喔.還可鍛鍊駕駛技術這種話
來告訴你...你會怎想?
患難見真情,日久見人心...難怪 婆婆齒冷,老公心寒....
欲知前世因,今生受者是
欲知來世果,今生作者是
祝你身體健康!
誠摯希望您外子 身體健康/闔家平安,病體早日恢復,
※ 引述《girlF (天使暫時離開)》之銘言:
: 這幾天,老公開始接受栓塞治療,非手術,除了第一天的等待,
: 第二天治療及第三天觀察後就回家休養。
: 我在第二天治療後需臥床六小時的時間,有請假去照顧,其他沒有點滴的休息時間,
: 都是由他家人陪伴,果然,昨天(第三天觀察日),
: 我十點下班回家(最近是企業上市櫃的旺季,這個時間下班只是還好而已),
: 到家發現門沒有鎖,打開門婆婆跟小姑在我家客廳,
: 婆婆一臉臉色不豫的質問,XX(老公)在住院妳怎麼這麼晚回家?
: 我只來得及回說因為我現在才下班,婆婆就怒氣沖沖的甩門走人了
: 真的好累阿...
: 之前發這篇文章,有熱心的板友是說應該把相處的時間放在第一位,錢可以再賺
: 我想說的是,這個問題不是工作不工作如此簡單...
: 首先,老公自己也是每月領公公的零用錢,若我辭職,我也得一起當伸手牌
: 也許有人會覺得有什麼關係,我實在不知如何說關係很大
: 關係已經不是特別好,還要看臉色,而且沒有工作後生活步調就得完全跟婆家一致
: 連我養我媽的錢都得伸手跟公婆拿,這樣真的很奇怪...
: 另外,我知道我老公的病況不明朗,如果真的有那麼一天,我還是得自己養活自己
: 說了這些不知道會不會被大家罵自私,如果有我也認了
: 我老公是覺得我只想著我自己,才會想要工作,不想跟當伸手牌是見外
: 他不能理解對未來的不安全感
: 現在離開金融業這種職場,其他人都在進步的時候,妳停滯了就是退後,日後要回頭,
: 不要說機會有沒有這麼好了,還不一定有機會...
: 老公打算去外縣市找個空氣好水乾淨的地方靜養,如果要工作我就不能跟了
: 頂多把駕駛技術練熟一些週末去陪伴
: 不好意思了各位板友,實在心情太低落也許講得有點凌亂
: 老公後來知道了婆婆來審問的事情,也沒有站在我這邊,他認為我的選擇不是他要的選擇
: 猜測他可能有放棄這婚姻的念頭吧
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