可以接受親戚帶小孩去公園玩如何因應 - 婚姻

By Zora
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說點不一樣的看法,當現在的非常時期變成常態時,你能以現況生活多久?
這不是危言聳聽,而是在國外各地切切實實發生過的事,現在在台灣重演。
疫情不是只有染病的人受傷,因為疫情在家造成的身心壓力、增加的摩擦、
家暴、經濟影響常常是傷害到更多的人。
英國封城這一年已經因為增加的家暴率推出”Ask for Annie”,受暴者只要到
藥房和櫃檯人員說你要找Annie,他們會帶你進諮詢室提供適當的資源。
國外兒童因為疫情受到的影響則包括弱勢者失去營養午餐和逃離家暴場所
的時間。
低社經地位家庭的小孩缺乏線上資源與設備,在家自學後拉大和高社經
家庭兒童的學業差距。
以及年幼兒童隔離一年後因為壓力和環境改變帶來的種種影響。
我在變種病毒肆虐、災情也曾經很嚴重的英國。
英國一開始宣布是三週封城,
三週過了又三週,第一次封城三月封到直接
放暑假,學齡兒童整整半年都在家。
即使是停班停課最嚴重的時期,英國做法也允許人民一天一次的出外單獨
(或同家戶)運動。公園遊戲場不一定有開,但出門散步一直是可以的。
身邊也有朋友的朋友例子,疫情初始時說自己是高標準防疫,四個月不出門、
餐餐自煮的。一年後疲乏了帶小孩去參加體育活動,結果就染疫的。
我沒有想說哪種防疫方法最好,而是當非常時期成為新的日常時,你能
堅持多久?說到底,防疫到最後誰能安然待在家比的就是你有多少資源
和心理健康強度。
※ 引述《Hftb (我需要一點力量)》之銘言:
: 是否同意記者抄文:NO
: 有爸媽可以接受
: 幫忙照顧小孩的親戚,每天看新聞
: 在政府升級3級警戒時
: 帶自己的小孩去公園玩
: 玩溜滑梯
: 然後自己加班回家
: 得知後
: 到未來直到復學的期間
: 還敢放心給這親戚帶的爸媽嗎
: 有人可以接受嗎?
: 我不能接受
: 是我有問題嗎?
: 我嚇到自己請假帶
: 然後我被另一半罵
: 是我的錯嗎
: 為了小孩非常時期少賺一點錢
: 求小孩平安健康
: 是我的錯?我太計較?太高標準?
: 大大們你們會怎麼應變處理比較好?
--
這不是危言聳聽,而是在國外各地切切實實發生過的事,現在在台灣重演。
疫情不是只有染病的人受傷,因為疫情在家造成的身心壓力、增加的摩擦、
家暴、經濟影響常常是傷害到更多的人。
英國封城這一年已經因為增加的家暴率推出”Ask for Annie”,受暴者只要到
藥房和櫃檯人員說你要找Annie,他們會帶你進諮詢室提供適當的資源。
國外兒童因為疫情受到的影響則包括弱勢者失去營養午餐和逃離家暴場所
的時間。
低社經地位家庭的小孩缺乏線上資源與設備,在家自學後拉大和高社經
家庭兒童的學業差距。
以及年幼兒童隔離一年後因為壓力和環境改變帶來的種種影響。
我在變種病毒肆虐、災情也曾經很嚴重的英國。
英國一開始宣布是三週封城,
三週過了又三週,第一次封城三月封到直接
放暑假,學齡兒童整整半年都在家。
即使是停班停課最嚴重的時期,英國做法也允許人民一天一次的出外單獨
(或同家戶)運動。公園遊戲場不一定有開,但出門散步一直是可以的。
身邊也有朋友的朋友例子,疫情初始時說自己是高標準防疫,四個月不出門、
餐餐自煮的。一年後疲乏了帶小孩去參加體育活動,結果就染疫的。
我沒有想說哪種防疫方法最好,而是當非常時期成為新的日常時,你能
堅持多久?說到底,防疫到最後誰能安然待在家比的就是你有多少資源
和心理健康強度。
※ 引述《Hftb (我需要一點力量)》之銘言:
: 是否同意記者抄文:NO
: 有爸媽可以接受
: 幫忙照顧小孩的親戚,每天看新聞
: 在政府升級3級警戒時
: 帶自己的小孩去公園玩
: 玩溜滑梯
: 然後自己加班回家
: 得知後
: 到未來直到復學的期間
: 還敢放心給這親戚帶的爸媽嗎
: 有人可以接受嗎?
: 我不能接受
: 是我有問題嗎?
: 我嚇到自己請假帶
: 然後我被另一半罵
: 是我的錯嗎
: 為了小孩非常時期少賺一點錢
: 求小孩平安健康
: 是我的錯?我太計較?太高標準?
: 大大們你們會怎麼應變處理比較好?
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