可以接受老公跟大嫂抱怨嗎? - 婚姻

By Emma
at 2021-06-15T09:20
at 2021-06-15T09:20
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是否同意記者抄文:NO
老公因為原生家庭的關係,
所以視大伯像爸爸一樣,
有什麼選擇都是先遵從大伯的意思,
剩下才是我們,
常常我會覺得為什麼我都只能選剩下的,
你考慮他們,但他們不一定會考慮你,
拿停車位來說(我們是去年才搬出來住)
大伯先結婚,有兩個小孩,
所以給他們家一個下車不會淋雨就能進室內的位置,
大伯2個小孩目前已經國小了,
我們小孩現在兩歲多了,當初下雨抱嫩嬰上下車不方便,他們也沒說一句要不要跟我們換
車位,
當初這件事我跟我老公反應,
他回他們有小孩,先選走了,
WTF!! 你是沒小孩嗎!!!
最後只能要我吞下「這就是我的原生背景!」來收場,
今年農曆年我們吵到就真的要離婚了,
我也就在那時退出家裡的群組,
(裡面有大伯、大嫂、小叔)
之後發現老公會在那個群組講一些我們的相處以及談話,
幾乎都是大嫂在回應並一起批評我,
我曾經問我老公為什麼要在那邊說我的壞話,
他回我 家醜不可外揚,他跟他的家人抱怨很正常吧!不然要出去講給別人聽嗎!
我還跟我的好朋友說三道四!都沒考慮過別人對他的觀感嗎!
現在回去公婆家,我都不知道他們對我有什麼想法,
他覺得我太敏感了,但感覺真的很不舒服...
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老公因為原生家庭的關係,
所以視大伯像爸爸一樣,
有什麼選擇都是先遵從大伯的意思,
剩下才是我們,
常常我會覺得為什麼我都只能選剩下的,
你考慮他們,但他們不一定會考慮你,
拿停車位來說(我們是去年才搬出來住)
大伯先結婚,有兩個小孩,
所以給他們家一個下車不會淋雨就能進室內的位置,
大伯2個小孩目前已經國小了,
我們小孩現在兩歲多了,當初下雨抱嫩嬰上下車不方便,他們也沒說一句要不要跟我們換
車位,
當初這件事我跟我老公反應,
他回他們有小孩,先選走了,
WTF!! 你是沒小孩嗎!!!
最後只能要我吞下「這就是我的原生背景!」來收場,
今年農曆年我們吵到就真的要離婚了,
我也就在那時退出家裡的群組,
(裡面有大伯、大嫂、小叔)
之後發現老公會在那個群組講一些我們的相處以及談話,
幾乎都是大嫂在回應並一起批評我,
我曾經問我老公為什麼要在那邊說我的壞話,
他回我 家醜不可外揚,他跟他的家人抱怨很正常吧!不然要出去講給別人聽嗎!
我還跟我的好朋友說三道四!都沒考慮過別人對他的觀感嗎!
現在回去公婆家,我都不知道他們對我有什麼想法,
他覺得我太敏感了,但感覺真的很不舒服...
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