去夫妻朋友家..... - 婚姻

By Hedda
at 2011-08-11T10:23

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有一個情境提想請教大家

家庭主婦A在煮飯
她的朋友B女來訪暫住
A的先生C下班回家正在用ipad上網
A洗米時跟C說了 "米很像不夠你可以幫我去買一下嗎?"(和顏悅色)
C回說"剛下班很累可以不要嗎不夠的可以煮麵"(和顏悅色)
(當時B在現場)
A感覺C有點不給她面子不願意一起招待B
臉色就不高興了起來...
C發現後趕快跑去問A要買哪一種米
可是A說就吃麵吧都不理C
C就回房間了

問題是

1.有朋友在所以C是不是應該第一時間就去買米?
而不是說自己上班很累直到A生氣了才願意去買

2.A不爽的原因是感覺C很不給他面子在朋友B面前拒絕他
夫妻是共同體應該一起招待朋友
C的解釋是他只是累了表達一下自己的意見而且態度ok
若A願意再凹一下 C當然願意去買
A則是認為他一口氣就拒絕吃飯是大家的事難道還要求他喔?
C則是認為A脾氣太大他只是說一下自己的感想是A自己封阻了溝通管道

看官們認為是先生C太白目還是太太A脾氣太大呢?

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Tags: 婚姻

All Comments

By Erin
at 2011-08-11T13:13

a脾氣太大（我不是說我喔～）

By Vanessa
at 2011-08-15T18:17

C沒有錯阿在公司被當奴隸回家還要被使喚，而且他後來不
也願意去了千萬不要把A放生雖然結婚了

By Connor
at 2011-08-16T06:34

是有點沒待客之道,兩人私下討論比較好..米不夠煮麵是真的

By Adele
at 2011-08-16T23:58

A脾氣很大呀跟她當"生命共同體"壓力好大...

By Agnes
at 2011-08-19T12:11

"A感覺C有點不給她面子不願意一起招待B" 太跳躍了這句
煮麵就不是招待了嗎??為什麼要歧視麵只愛米呢

By Tracy
at 2011-08-21T18:45

A感覺C很不給他面子在朋友B面前拒絕他->不爽->脾氣大無誤

By Odelette
at 2011-08-21T22:42

這不可能是是非題的啦~~~

By Sierra Rose
at 2011-08-26T20:49

a脾氣有點大

By Hedwig
at 2011-08-28T10:54

A脾氣太大若是全職家庭主婦要煮了才發現米不夠蠻失職的

By Faithe
at 2011-08-31T10:45

A脾氣大又白目 C無辜

By Megan
at 2011-09-04T12:34

A有點太容易生氣

By Gilbert
at 2011-09-08T23:55

A脾氣真大...這樣也能生氣...

By Mia
at 2011-09-13T18:00

A在自己朋友前對老公這樣老公也會覺得沒面子阿

By Eartha
at 2011-09-14T22:28

A脾氣大+白目米不夠就煮麵阿老公下班還要跑腿也是會累的吧

By Brianna
at 2011-09-18T07:27

C又不是故意不給面子。事情都過了，快點去和好吧～

By Carol
at 2011-09-21T01:17

我覺得B整個有雖到

By Poppy
at 2011-09-24T12:14

跑去找朋友搞得人家夫妻吵架傻眼~

By Olivia
at 2011-09-26T20:36

A不只脾氣大還很愛面子

By Megan
at 2011-09-27T05:04

還生命共同體咧.....那怎不叫B一起來煮飯
說錯是叫C一起煮拉
A感覺C有點不給她面子不願意一起招待B---->過度腦補

By Hedwig
at 2011-09-28T03:28

家庭主婦耶米不夠了才臨時要老公去買是哪招

By Zora
at 2011-10-02T17:42

個人覺得C沒問題就是了~

By Jake
at 2011-10-07T17:16

在朋友B面前拒絕他------>整篇重點不就是這個??

By Sandy
at 2011-10-10T19:46

B心中默默的OS:其實我比較想吃麵....

By Edwina
at 2011-10-13T02:45

A脾氣大

By Jake
at 2011-10-13T15:01

我覺得老公願意讓老婆的友人暫住這已經是很大的招待了
耶畢竟要讓一個外人住在自己家裡勢必會造成原本生活

By Joe
at 2011-10-18T13:24

的一些不方便

By Harry
at 2011-10-18T22:35

A肚量太小這樣就不高興那不是三不五時就在吵架了?

By Barb Cronin
at 2011-10-22T13:12

C下麵給B女吃(誤) 下班的時候,打電話給老公~買包米回來

By Selena
at 2011-10-24T05:57

喔對了忘了先問, 原po你是A還B還C啊??

By Liam
at 2011-10-26T15:27

我猜是A 文中只提到A的心路歷程

By Harry
at 2011-10-28T05:52

看文章覺得是A 因為都在罵C呀XD

By Oscar
at 2011-10-30T21:27

下面給好朋友吃不好嗎?

By Suhail Hany
at 2011-11-01T21:21

推文走向糟糕化惹

By Hardy
at 2011-11-06T02:35

那A在朋友面前對老公擺臉色，這樣就有給老公面子了嗎?還
是自己的面子比老公的重要?太雙重標準了吧

By Candice
at 2011-11-06T16:32

A脾氣大!!!

By Jessica
at 2011-11-07T07:46

A好兇

By Damian
at 2011-11-09T11:31

都要煮飯才覺得米不夠如果是專職的家庭主婦很遜沒存糧

By Leila
at 2011-11-10T12:43

到外面吃 ( ￣ c￣)y▂ξ

By Caroline
at 2011-11-14T04:05

a脾氣太壞還好別人娶走了

By Dinah
at 2011-11-15T17:32

A脾氣太大

By Lily
at 2011-11-20T03:55

只是一點小事而已也這麼大脾氣還上網找鄉民評論給分囧rz

By Iris
at 2011-11-23T01:46

脾氣大這麼尷尬我要是B的話我都想出去買了

By Una
at 2011-11-25T08:37

我論這篇有自刪的可能性..(?)

By Hazel
at 2011-11-25T14:03

我覺得A脾氣太大了吧要我是b C不想去我不會尷尬
A一點小事就不開心才會讓我很不自在...... = ="

By Rae
at 2011-11-27T00:49

我是專職主婦還是常會忘了買米XDDDDDDD

By Gary
at 2011-11-30T19:57

會覺得我幹麻要變成你們吵架的藉口...... = =

By Genevieve
at 2011-12-02T10:08

不過如果是我的話我會直接就說換吃麵吧，大概就不會叫老

By Ingrid
at 2011-12-04T11:48

謝謝大家熱情的回覆這是AC合好後共同波的文章!
但是現在他們又要開始吵架了.....XD

By George
at 2011-12-07T23:59

公去買米了。（不過我想我老公會很樂意去跑腿買米XD）

By Andrew
at 2011-12-11T01:46

和好了po來讓鄉民話修是為何??

By Zora
at 2011-12-12T08:21

和好了幹嘛要PO

By Steve
at 2011-12-17T06:40

都已經和好了還要論對錯嗎XD

By Carolina Franco
at 2011-12-21T00:48

沒事找事做嗎和好又po文看了文又要吵架
這樣一開始根本就沒真正和好吧 = =

By Dora
at 2011-12-23T06:39

是非對錯總要分個明白呀!謝謝大家提供寶貴的意見^^!

By Rachel
at 2011-12-23T18:12

B很倒楣，被迫觀賞茶壺風暴

By George
at 2011-12-26T19:13

大俠原PO，你是C嗎...

By Sierra Rose
at 2011-12-27T08:42

推"為何要歧視麵只愛米"?

By Olive
at 2011-12-27T11:49

婚姻裡面沒有是非對錯，又不是電腦，只有0與1

By Edith
at 2011-12-31T06:21

你是朋友b嗎 XD

By Daph Bay
at 2012-01-04T16:54

若原po是B 我覺得發這篇很不應該讓AC自己處理比較好

By Mason
at 2012-01-08T12:42

B來PO的話就有點管太多了

By Catherine
at 2012-01-13T02:10

我猜原P是C..看對推文應該很開心XDDDD

By Cara
at 2012-01-13T03:42

我只能說，這對夫妻默契不夠好..因為兩個人也都沒有對錯
A比較有問題的是假設錯誤，假設錯了就錯了，沒啥好氣的

By Isla
at 2012-01-16T20:58

推樓上，兩個人默契不夠好，沒什麼對錯可言。

By Tracy
at 2012-01-17T19:27

A脾氣太大 + 失職

By Queena
at 2012-01-20T20:21

吃麵就是沒誠意招待友人嗎????!!!
先生說的話沒錯啊,沒米就煮麵呀,
況且米買回來又要等一陣子才能吃,這才是叫虧待友人吧

By Todd Johnson
at 2012-01-22T18:45

A氣啥ㄚ!!上班很累耶!

By Anthony
at 2012-01-24T05:04

A，完全看不懂不爽什麼東西，C說的很中肯

By Iris
at 2012-01-28T12:10

和好了又要po文找架吵，婚姻是這樣經營的嗎??

By Todd Johnson
at 2012-01-31T10:26

A脾氣大+1 看過一篇文下班回家後的半小時內是沉澱期

By Hedy
at 2012-02-05T05:13

雙方都需要轉換心情所以能理解C的不滿

By Ivy
at 2012-02-05T10:57

可是米都洗了，表示菜是配飯合適，要怎麼改煮麵啊?

By Hardy
at 2012-02-08T17:12

to roccoon:也許問A為什麼米洗到一半才說不夠要C去買米吧 XD

By Hardy
at 2012-02-13T16:33

A脾氣大~家庭主婦就失職了~在者朋友來之前完全沒通知?

By Eden
at 2012-02-15T09:28

提前有講有時間怎麼不去準備一下? 雖然是共同體
是否能互相體諒才是重點吧?~老公的確也上班辛苦

By Dora
at 2012-02-19T11:43

米夠不夠最慢不是在用米杯舀米時就會發現嗎米不夠時不馬上

By Bethany
at 2012-02-20T12:36

如果朋友沒事先說為什麼煮麵就是沒有招呼呢?

By Jacky
at 2012-02-21T12:18

處理卻假設C會『表現出疼愛嬌妻的樣子讓A在B面前有面子』而

By Queena
at 2012-02-23T01:33

先把不夠的米洗下去了再叫C去買而不是自己去買米之後再洗米

By Andrew
at 2012-02-25T00:33

我覺得A因為這件事不高興就算了，但要事情要懂得見好就收呀

By Frederica
at 2012-02-25T20:00

C都已經讓步去買了，A顧著進房間才不知道是哪來的待客之道

By Leila
at 2012-02-27T07:03

A洗米時跟C說了 "米很像不夠---->還沒洗之前就知道夠不夠

By Hamiltion
at 2012-03-02T14:05

怎會是洗下去了才發現不夠好難理解喔

By Frederic
at 2012-03-04T15:34

不過我如果是A也是會希望還是可以去買

By Noah
at 2012-03-07T20:54

主要是如果已經到了煮飯的時間，要準備什麼已經差不多處理
好了，煮麵反而沒什麼東西好煮，再另外買其它材料更不省事

By Kyle
at 2012-03-11T02:31

A該死。B白目，還不快點說想吃麵。

By Thomas
at 2012-03-12T11:08

所以可能還會再多凹一下，我覺得煮麵還要多準備材料的理由
還比較說服人，什麼生命共同體之類的只讓人覺得壓力好大喔

By Candice
at 2012-03-16T12:02

我猜A在B面前炫耀C很聽A的話，結果C不買米，讓A沒面子

By Steve
at 2012-03-17T17:52

A脾氣太大....下班很累錯了嗎

By Thomas
at 2012-03-21T16:18

A脾氣太大

By Anthony
at 2012-03-22T06:40

A脾氣太大

By Olga
at 2012-03-24T18:21

以前的我應該是A 現在的我覺得A脾氣太大....

By Annie
at 2012-03-26T03:50

A脾氣有點大 @@

By David
at 2012-03-29T22:30

不過以前的我也有自知之明自己的脾氣大!! XD

By Quanna
at 2012-04-02T06:33

不過夏天時人在廚房真的很容易火就上來了，可能太熱吧

By Blanche
at 2012-04-02T23:37

有天我煮飯，老公跑來講了句話，我聽不清楚，竟然回他一句
:"撒笅?!"嚇得他*^%$

By Kristin
at 2012-04-04T04:49

By Gary
at 2012-04-08T07:57

A脾氣太大,"夫妻共同體"什麼鬼? 自己的朋友自己負責~

By Sarah
at 2012-04-09T05:00

A脾氣太大吃麵不錯呀

By Selena
at 2012-04-13T22:04

可以去自助餐買白飯，而且萬一老公買錯米的牌子更該死。

By Jessica
at 2012-04-15T13:43

和好了還來po文看了推文又要吵架很像情侶的感覺XD

By Ingrid
at 2012-04-19T01:49

這種叫鄉民評評理的文章是很BG沒錯XDDD

By Faithe
at 2012-04-20T16:21

我老公也會說,上班很累下班就不想出門了..以前在台灣時,白

By Margaret
at 2012-04-24T18:32

天工作晚上兼差,難得休假,要我出去也不幹呀... 我是太太
也會覺得A脾氣太大(是我應該躺在地上打滾,跟老公一起去買

By Kristin
at 2012-04-28T00:31

大不了把朋友一起帶上摟...

By Victoria
at 2012-04-29T03:04

麵有什麼問題嗎..

By Ida
at 2012-04-30T07:33

我把樓上的推文看成「老公把朋友帶上樓」─___-|||

By Annie
at 2012-05-04T20:38

連著看，看成：我老公也會說,大不了把朋友一起帶上摟...

By John
at 2012-05-06T22:57

我也看錯了想說帶朋友上樓想幹嘛...

By Hedwig
at 2012-05-08T10:06

是我的話我會出門買，走到小7也不過來回15分鐘

By William
at 2012-05-10T07:41

A脾氣大

By Hedwig
at 2012-05-14T00:28

可是我怎麼覺得c不給A面子阿@@

By Belly
at 2012-05-14T23:59

只是c若求和要去買 A不該繼續生氣就是了

By Daph Bay
at 2012-05-16T09:35

XDD 哈哈哈...帶上樓....打電動XDD

By Daph Bay
at 2012-05-20T14:46

一開始就應該要發現米不夠吧，真的有在煮飯不會沒發現

By Anonymous
at 2012-05-22T15:47

A脾氣太大

By Irma
at 2012-05-25T00:56

A 脾氣太大.....持家務很累...上班也很累耶...

By Daph Bay
at 2012-05-27T21:35

a脾氣太大了有朋友在這樣也挺難看

By Sierra Rose
at 2012-06-01T17:25

把場子搞爛的是A無誤呀 C也是和顏悅色的說明理由婉拒

By George
at 2012-06-04T00:33

要說不懂待客之道的絕對是A 竟然在朋友拜訪時硬起爭執

By Necoo
at 2012-06-05T23:58

B來的不是時後 ~~~~~~~~~~

By Heather
at 2012-06-06T09:07

A的脾氣不好

By Thomas
at 2012-06-09T08:20

千錯萬錯都是D的錯

By Charlie
at 2012-06-09T11:16

完全可以理解C

By Delia
at 2012-06-14T06:31

C應該立即答應然後約B一起去買米順便培養待客的感情，這

By Valerie
at 2012-06-19T00:42

麼熱情又主動的買米又幫A照顧B，如此ABC三人都開心

By Belly
at 2012-06-21T11:13

那樣子A會爆更大的氣吧

By Sandy
at 2012-06-22T13:30

因為太太A自述生氣的點:不給她面子不願意一起招待

By Lauren
at 2012-06-27T02:12

先生C就乾脆給他"好好"招待ㄧ下囉~~~~

By Skylar DavisLinda
at 2012-06-30T23:04

A脾氣大

By Thomas
at 2012-07-05T09:05

話說回來，就算是感情再好的女性友人，我也不會讓她跟老

By Ophelia
at 2012-07-05T16:42

公同在一個屋簷下住(一晚都不行)

By Tristan Cohan
at 2012-07-08T09:57

乾飯加一盤乾麵大家分食不就好了，小事情好解決啊

By Hardy
at 2012-07-10T04:28

明天誰有空誰去買就好啦....再說B怎麼沒有進廚房幫忙?

By Queena
at 2012-07-10T20:49

呃我讓我同學在我家住一週耶......

By Dorothy
at 2012-07-11T09:12

家庭主婦還讓家裡沒米喔...不是應該把家裡上下打點好嗎？

By Puput
at 2012-07-12T10:31

家庭主婦還讓家裡沒米喔?過太爽嗎? 還遷怒

By Una
at 2012-07-15T01:19

家庭主婦還等到煮飯才發現米不夠真的有點扯
既然不夠幹嘛不改成全部都煮麵? = =

By Connor
at 2012-07-15T04:26

A 完全就是A

By Hedwig
at 2012-07-17T20:25

我毫不考慮地選a脾氣太大...

By Olive
at 2012-07-19T21:27

A真的好無聊喔. B都是和顏悅色的,她還氣個屁啊.當家庭主婦煮
到要回到家的老公特地出去買米才有飯吃,還好意思氣

By Hamiltion
at 2012-07-21T05:59

且飯不夠,c沒生氣還願意說吃麵就好了,算很不錯了

By Puput
at 2012-07-25T05:32

A脾氣太大,煮麵為何不行,非要讓人家不能休息一下

By Elizabeth
at 2012-07-29T14:18

那老公也低聲的說願意去買!太太還要張

By Susan
at 2012-08-01T12:23

A脾氣太大了

By Frederic
at 2012-08-04T06:31

如果我是B我也不會覺得不去買會尷尬阿米不夠就吃麵阿

By James
at 2012-08-06T09:00

A脾氣太大+1

By Blanche
at 2012-08-07T09:13

我猜原PO是C 單看本文A脾氣過大

By Audriana
at 2012-08-09T16:05

我是a也會生氣耶~又不是每天,但有朋友在給點面子好唄

By Isabella
at 2012-08-13T16:02

但是不會氣很大和很久,就是和老公說理一番,下次他一定
得做到不能再犯

By John
at 2012-08-17T06:33

A職業婦女要招待朋友沒發現米不夠自己疏失又太快生氣

By Quanna
at 2012-08-18T22:02

老公都已經發現老婆生氣想要幫忙居然還耍性子這...

By Daniel
at 2012-08-18T23:44

啊講錯 A是家庭主婦我覺得等到老公回來才煮飯太慢了

By Valerie
at 2012-08-20T12:41

A脾氣大又愛面子

By Barb Cronin
at 2012-08-23T04:38

A在私下問不就得了？我想是這個A已經很習慣不尊重老公吧

By Steve
at 2012-08-24T12:58

A脾氣太大.家庭主婦不就是可以去買米?

By Harry
at 2012-08-27T11:30

看原PO暱稱好像是C耶= =a 女生應該不太會用大俠吧

By Daph Bay
at 2012-08-29T20:56

幸好身邊朋友的老公都不會跟C一樣我選C太白目

By Isabella
at 2012-08-30T22:56

A脾氣太大，不可能當天才知道米沒了，而且自己要招待朋友

By Robert
at 2012-09-04T03:55

關老公啥事。朋友不能吃麵嗎？

By Ophelia
at 2012-09-04T19:07

如果B是A的真正好朋友應該要出來打個圓場XD

By Barb Cronin
at 2012-09-09T07:58

A太容易被得罪了..

By Kristin
at 2012-09-09T18:26

A脾氣超大...

By Barb Cronin
at 2012-09-12T02:11

而且A是家庭主婦，早該發現米快用光了才對，而不是沒了才要叫
老公買~

By Candice
at 2012-09-15T16:15

A脾氣好大=_=,,,是不能吃麵嗎?

By Selena
at 2012-09-19T09:58

我覺得有更婉轉的處理方式兩個人的處理都有瑕疵

By Daniel
at 2012-09-23T08:35

我支持C

By Lily
at 2012-09-26T11:18

B白目遇到這種情況應該主動說「我比較喜歡A下麵給我吃」

By Callum
at 2012-09-30T21:03

樓上這樣講會更令人爆氣

By Edwina
at 2012-10-01T13:54

A脾氣大

By Hazel
at 2012-10-05T13:01

飯不夠煮麵很ok阿

By Linda
at 2012-10-09T04:08

A脾氣大+1

By Faithe
at 2012-10-09T18:26

A脾氣太大 = =

By Jacob
at 2012-10-10T06:49

A白目

By Sierra Rose
at 2012-10-13T02:06

我選太太A,米不夠再煮個麵也沒關係阿~夫妻之間面子放一邊

By Hazel
at 2012-10-16T06:16

A脾氣大

By Andrew
at 2012-10-20T12:01

a脾氣大老公下班也累了況且後來也願意去買不懂體諒

去夫妻朋友家..... - 婚姻

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