原來大家都在這個moment分手的 - 結婚
By Hedwig
at 2017-07-04T13:36
at 2017-07-04T13:36
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這標題下的有的聳動XD"
身邊有不少朋友,到了談到要結婚了才分手
之前我都無法理解,
能交往到談結婚應該都沒問題了,
為什麼會分手?
直到昨天我終於懂了...
我們已經交往超級久,
身邊的朋友、長輩也一直催促我們趕快結婚,
但因為真的是交往超級久,
已經沒有什麼浪漫婚禮的憧憬,
取而代之的是經濟實惠的現實問題,
其實是新人本身非常懶惰不想弄那些麻煩的"程序"XD
由於家庭教育的關係,男友家的家庭"凝聚力"非常弱!
可是大家族的"凝聚觀念"非常非常非常強!
男友與家人的感情並不親密(但媽媽非常疼我們)
所以他很大部分都以我為準,幾乎都我說了算,
不太需要去請示家人的意見。
前幾天我躺在床上當鄉民爬了一個小時的文後,
突然跟男友說我們XX月XX日結婚
(是一個很近的日子)
男友只回了個"喔"表示同意
男友的媽媽(以下簡稱婆婆)之前就有跟我表示
:錢的部分都不用擔心!我來處理!
排除錢的問題,其實問題也滿好解決的!
宴客場地、菜色、喜帖我就速速找好決定好了!
昨天請婆婆來家裡想進行"通知"(我們同居,跟家人分開住)
我開門見山的說:我們XX月XX日結婚,好嗎?
婆婆開心的表示:趕快結婚都好!
一樣一切我決定就好XDDDDDD
只要可以順利圓滿,我的家人開心,這樣就好!
看到這裡應該滿多人羨慕而且覺得順利,
其實問題才剛要開始...
男友的姑姑、姑丈家是做辦桌的,
家族裡所有的兄弟姊妹結婚通通找姑丈,
在住家前辦流水席,
就連他們女兒兒子結婚,
新娘新郎也是自己下去煮!
我不是說辦流水席不好,
但我實在無法接受要配蒼蠅吃飯,
然後大顆汗小顆汗的一直滴。
家人結婚就該漂漂亮亮的坐下來一起吃飯,
而不是穿著工作服忙進忙出!
是來參加婚宴還是來工作的?
重點是!!我們算比較晚結婚的,
姑丈那桌菜我們已經吃了不下10次!!
每次哪個兄弟姊妹要結婚都是
一樣那個場景、一樣那桌菜!
一樣的蒼蠅、一樣的汗水!
我跟男友天生反骨(?)
大家都一樣我們就不想照做!!
而且宴客後還要我跟男友去清掃家裡,
其他人只會出一張嘴!!
所以我們計畫在飯店宴客,
賓客輕鬆,我們也輕鬆!!
這時候爸爸(公公)有意見了...
為什麼要辦在飯店?
大家都辦在家裡你們為什麼要辦在飯店?
為什麼不找姑丈煮?
這樣人家怎麼去?
(家裡在鄉下,飯店選在市區,大概距離20公里)
為什麼沒有儀式?為什麼沒有拜拜?
(男友的)阿伯也有意見了...
你們這樣做就不對了!
應該要找姑丈煮!
應該要回來家裡這裡辦!
應該要有傳統儀式!
所以呢?
有意見的人既不出錢也不出力!!
就只會出一張嘴!!
是我們要結婚還是他們要結婚!!
難怪很多人在這個moment分手!!
兩家人根本喬不攏啊!!
那些有意見的長輩才是促成晚輩無法結婚或不想結婚的殺手吧!!
謝謝大家看完那麼長的心情...
好了...
抱怨完我繼續去挑戰他們一家人的"應該要..."
我!!不!!要!!XDDDDD
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