到底是哪方該「主動」? - 結婚
By Enid
at 2019-04-25T09:08
at 2019-04-25T09:08
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手機排版請見諒。
和男友希望婚禮從簡,舉凡迎娶及訂婚儀式的繁文縟節都沒有。
在當初提親的時候我也照著許多網路上分享的注意事項,
大家都說來提親的時候很大一部分是做做樣子,
所以新人可以先和父母試探想法,提親當天做確認就好,
於是我問我媽一些婚禮上的要求,好像就被不爽的問說:「妳現在是要充當媒人是嗎?」
搞得當時我直接放棄先試探這件事情...Orz
婚期訂在明年初,
所以最近我也問我媽喜餅是否有打算去試吃,有沒有中意的了,
她回我:「現在是連喜餅都要你們(應該是指新人)處理哦?」
囧?我只是想問問意見啊...而且喜餅不是就女方挑嗎....
其實還有其他我覺得很弔詭的事,
我不知道是不是因為男方父母沒有這種經驗,且也沒有和親戚詢問太多,
很多事情據說應該是男方需要來跟女方說,但男友父母好像不知道=_=?
像是宴客日期的確定,我跟我媽說應該確定是哪天了,
我媽只說這種事情會有人跟她說。(是誰要說?QAQ)
其實宴客日期還是我和男友不停的催促才出來,
從原本他父母堅持合日子但卻一直沒來拿八字...
到最後我們自己說哪天,男方父母答應才確定(我們家不在意日子)
不知道是他們覺得不用那麼急還是怎麼樣...
總之我很多事情都不知道到底是誰要主動去和對方詢問及商量,
多問好像還會被我媽說話,而且也讓她對男方觀感不佳?Orz
請問各位學長姊可以分享一下雙方父母的溝通狀況嗎....
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和男友希望婚禮從簡,舉凡迎娶及訂婚儀式的繁文縟節都沒有。
在當初提親的時候我也照著許多網路上分享的注意事項,
大家都說來提親的時候很大一部分是做做樣子,
所以新人可以先和父母試探想法,提親當天做確認就好,
於是我問我媽一些婚禮上的要求,好像就被不爽的問說:「妳現在是要充當媒人是嗎?」
搞得當時我直接放棄先試探這件事情...Orz
婚期訂在明年初,
所以最近我也問我媽喜餅是否有打算去試吃,有沒有中意的了,
她回我:「現在是連喜餅都要你們(應該是指新人)處理哦?」
囧?我只是想問問意見啊...而且喜餅不是就女方挑嗎....
其實還有其他我覺得很弔詭的事,
我不知道是不是因為男方父母沒有這種經驗,且也沒有和親戚詢問太多,
很多事情據說應該是男方需要來跟女方說,但男友父母好像不知道=_=?
像是宴客日期的確定,我跟我媽說應該確定是哪天了,
我媽只說這種事情會有人跟她說。(是誰要說?QAQ)
其實宴客日期還是我和男友不停的催促才出來,
從原本他父母堅持合日子但卻一直沒來拿八字...
到最後我們自己說哪天,男方父母答應才確定(我們家不在意日子)
不知道是他們覺得不用那麼急還是怎麼樣...
總之我很多事情都不知道到底是誰要主動去和對方詢問及商量,
多問好像還會被我媽說話,而且也讓她對男方觀感不佳?Orz
請問各位學長姊可以分享一下雙方父母的溝通狀況嗎....
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