兩人合八字吵得不和 - 結婚
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By Skylar Davis
at 2014-03-09T08:32
at 2014-03-09T08:32
Table of Contents
我和女友已經論及婚嫁了
雙方的父母也見過面了
也跟女方父母要我女友的八字了
女方家人是希望一切從簡
可是我爸好像想完全依照古禮習俗
前天我爸打電話去說要請媒人一事
電話中有提到說要找我姑姑當媒人
就說到還想要我女友父母兩人的八字
我女友爸爸並沒有答應 且她媽也不答應(女友轉述的)
我爸最後還說如果八字不合就當朋友
事後我爸也完全沒打電話給我說明這些情況
而我女友也是聽聞他爸的敘述再轉述給我的
所以當下兩人電話中的口氣態度如何我不知道
另外
我爸是希望能宴客
也願意租遊覽車載女方親戚過來
可是女友並不是很想宴客
因為她覺得很麻煩,一想到大排場她就不想結了
而女友的爸在電話中是說因為他們親戚多數沒在來往
所以到時候去可能不到十人
下午我就要打回去了家裡了
可是我現在很煩很生氣
感覺我爸會因此習俗斷送掉我每一段好事
問題:
1.合八字真的是還要雙方父母的八字嗎?我真的很想叫我姑姑或是伯伯來說說我爸。
因為很可能卡在這裡兩方人就絕裂了。
2.合八字的意思到底是什麼?會真的兩人八字不合硬要兩人分手嗎?(我還沒聽過這樣的)
3.宴客一事該如何和我女友、和我爸協商?
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雙方的父母也見過面了
也跟女方父母要我女友的八字了
女方家人是希望一切從簡
可是我爸好像想完全依照古禮習俗
前天我爸打電話去說要請媒人一事
電話中有提到說要找我姑姑當媒人
就說到還想要我女友父母兩人的八字
我女友爸爸並沒有答應 且她媽也不答應(女友轉述的)
我爸最後還說如果八字不合就當朋友
事後我爸也完全沒打電話給我說明這些情況
而我女友也是聽聞他爸的敘述再轉述給我的
所以當下兩人電話中的口氣態度如何我不知道
另外
我爸是希望能宴客
也願意租遊覽車載女方親戚過來
可是女友並不是很想宴客
因為她覺得很麻煩,一想到大排場她就不想結了
而女友的爸在電話中是說因為他們親戚多數沒在來往
所以到時候去可能不到十人
下午我就要打回去了家裡了
可是我現在很煩很生氣
感覺我爸會因此習俗斷送掉我每一段好事
問題:
1.合八字真的是還要雙方父母的八字嗎?我真的很想叫我姑姑或是伯伯來說說我爸。
因為很可能卡在這裡兩方人就絕裂了。
2.合八字的意思到底是什麼?會真的兩人八字不合硬要兩人分手嗎?(我還沒聽過這樣的)
3.宴客一事該如何和我女友、和我爸協商?
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