先生一直急著離婚 - 離婚

Lauren avatar
By Lauren
at 2021-08-28T22:35

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※ 引述《kaoru0913 (Doris)》之銘言:
: 前一段婚姻…我已經獨立撫養二個小孩,前夫也是擺爛…不給撫養費。

跟我碰到的事一樣,我前妻也是擺
爛不給撫養費,由我這邊撫養兩個
小孩,跟妳握握手。

債權憑證也下來多
: 年...遲遲因為他沒特定工作及財產無法做執行。

我前妻也是説她沒錢。


: 目前這是我的第二段婚姻。
: 認識一年多,交往一年多,結婚一年。目前懷孕29週。
: 從交往到婚後,他一直是位嘴甜貼心的另一伴。
: 婚後除了偶發性吃醋的小爭執外,沒什麼特別大的問題。
: 因為工作的關係…我們是週末夫妻。
: 就在這週,他突然性的鬧脾氣,說無法繼續跟我過日子。一直要求要離婚...肚子裡的

: 寶他也不想要了...要求去做引產。
: (會懷這個孩子…是他要求的。他獨生子,第一段婚姻。很喜歡小孩…也說好只生這一

: 。)
: 因為他年紀比我小,我一直當他在鬧脾氣。好言相待與他溝通...也以為讓他心情沈澱

: 下會有好轉
: 但他的態度時好時壞…一下會像往常一樣關心妳...一下又鬧著問我何時可以簽字離婚

: 他四處詢問肯做人工引產的醫院/診所…週數這麼大...生下來都會哭會活了…基於法令

: 人道…沒有任何合法醫療機構肯做。
: 現階段…我以為讓他獨自冷靜,情形會有所好轉,但我錯了!
: 他想趕在寶寶出生前辦離婚...我不肯。
: 當然我也明白留得住人…留不住心的道理。
: 我只希望在寶寶出生後釐清寶寶撫養責任再做結束。
: 目前...
: 他不同意共同監護,共同撫養
: 他不要監護權,撫養費只願意每月負擔5,000元
: 我每個月負擔10,000撫養費,由他獨立執行監護,他也不要。


你們都很清楚,養大一個小孩,每個月
的花費,要遠遠高於這個數字,你們都
是精明的人。


: 我自己傾向放棄監護權,負擔撫養費。不想再重蹈覆轍…
: 寶寶還沒出生…離婚協議就談不攏...寶寶該怎麼辦?

找個律師來問吧。要不然法院把小孩
判給寄養家庭,同時讓你們兩個放棄
小孩監護權,然後你跟你前夫兩個人
都要一起出小孩撫養費,我覺得這是
比較合理的做法。

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Tags: 離婚

All Comments

Charlotte avatar
By Charlotte
at 2021-08-31T20:46
雖然你在這版常被噓,我是非常能理解你的感受的,因為我
Caroline avatar
By Caroline
at 2021-09-03T18:56
對造,也是跟你前妻一樣的爛人
Connor avatar
By Connor
at 2021-09-06T17:07
記得你太太原本要小孩的…後來談成的條件
Andy avatar
By Andy
at 2021-09-09T15:18
小孩如你所願跟著你
Hedy avatar
By Hedy
at 2021-09-12T13:29
自己答應免付撫養費把監護權給你,講的好像前妻蓄意不
付。真會扭曲事實
Poppy avatar
By Poppy
at 2021-09-15T11:39
以為消失一陣子網友就忘記你以前的發言了嗎?真是本性
難移
Joe avatar
By Joe
at 2021-09-18T09:50
或許B大對前妻不友善, 但是前妻沒出小孩撫養費是事實..
這兩件事應該分開看吧..
Carol avatar
By Carol
at 2021-09-21T08:01
樓上你不知道前妻本來要一個小孩的,B大擺爛不談,是他
媽媽去談離婚,條件是兩個小孩都給爸爸不用扶養費,前
妻才答應的。離婚中自己提出的條件交換變成對方擺爛不
付?完全不一樣的事情
Joe avatar
By Joe
at 2021-09-24T06:12
B前妻有這麼想要小孩就會上法院訴訟啦 笑死
James avatar
By James
at 2021-09-27T04:23
真的愛小孩就應該要付好扶養費 那是小孩的資源與發展
David avatar
By David
at 2021-09-30T02:33
兩邊都有問題 不用只撻伐B
Oscar avatar
By Oscar
at 2021-10-03T00:44
挖~鐵粉又出來說話,愛小孩就要付撫養費那當初何必
做協議
Bethany avatar
By Bethany
at 2021-10-05T22:55
你真愛小孩的話,就不會對自己的小孩男女有差別待遇
Quanna avatar
By Quanna
at 2021-10-08T21:06
真的不想要離婚,當初就應該好好處理你們的問題
Franklin avatar
By Franklin
at 2021-10-11T19:16
不是只覺得不該離婚,不該兄妹分開
Wallis avatar
By Wallis
at 2021-10-14T17:27
You still can't accept your ex dumps you. You have
been disrespecting single parent family and you are
not able to accept the fact you become a failure by
Daph Bay avatar
By Daph Bay
at 2021-10-17T15:38
your own standard regarding single parent family.
Edith avatar
By Edith
at 2021-10-20T13:49
There are many great single parents including in
this board who deserve respect, but since you always
Selena avatar
By Selena
at 2021-10-23T11:59
disrespect any single parent family, you still can't
Vanessa avatar
By Vanessa
at 2021-10-26T10:10
accept your ex dumped you and you become a failure
by your own disdain of single parent families.
Aaliyah avatar
By Aaliyah
at 2021-10-29T08:21
that's great, if you really think it's case-by-case,
there is really no reaso your daughter can't find
good husband due to growing up in a single parent
Eden avatar
By Eden
at 2021-11-01T06:32
family and it's time for you to accept the fact you
Damian avatar
By Damian
at 2021-11-04T04:42
got dumped by your ex and become a failure by your
standard of disdaining single parent families.
Queena avatar
By Queena
at 2021-11-07T02:53
某sunny就只會急著扣帽子 我說雙方都有問題
Daniel avatar
By Daniel
at 2021-11-10T01:04
希望小孩好 你經濟可以的話 為什麼不付撫養費
Hedy avatar
By Hedy
at 2021-11-12T23:15
的確協議就是協議 所以我支持B去法院訴訟撫養費問題
他不去又一直抱怨就是他的問題 你sunny就只是B酸而已
Anonymous avatar
By Anonymous
at 2021-11-15T21:26
You simply can't accept you got dumped, it's really
not about your ex, it's about you got dumped and
Zora avatar
By Zora
at 2021-11-18T19:36
become a failure by your own standard. It's a pity
Linda avatar
By Linda
at 2021-11-21T17:47
you still can't accept this simple fact after these
years. You're just too proud to accept failure.
Tom avatar
By Tom
at 2021-11-24T15:58
Most people are able to accept the divorce and move
Edwina avatar
By Edwina
at 2021-11-27T14:09
on, but you obviously can't accept the fact you got
Caitlin avatar
By Caitlin
at 2021-11-30T12:19
dumped after these years. You're just too proud to
face rejection.
Kumar avatar
By Kumar
at 2021-12-03T10:30
924,經濟許可跟付撫養費是兩回事,當初不要有協議讓
William avatar
By William
at 2021-12-06T08:41
小孩選擇想跟哪一個不就沒事,難不成因為小孩說要跟 09/07 12:03
Olive avatar
By Olive
at 2021-12-09T06:52
前妻是因為某B不夠愛小孩?
用撫養費來定義愛不愛小孩的好像是你吧,沒付撫養費
不表示前妻沒花資源在小孩身上。
Regina avatar
By Regina
at 2021-12-12T05:02
keep telling yourself whatever makes you avoid
reality. It's a pity you still can't accept the fact
Annie avatar
By Annie
at 2021-12-15T03:13
that you got dumped after these years. You're just
too proud to admit rejection.
Adele avatar
By Adele
at 2021-12-18T01:24
it doesn't matter, it's not really about your ex.
Gilbert avatar
By Gilbert
at 2021-12-20T23:35
it's about you too proud to admit rejection. It's a
pity you still can't accept the fact you got dumped
after these years.
Thomas avatar
By Thomas
at 2021-12-23T21:46
妳前妻不付撫養費,是因為你要二個孩子的監護權
Yuri avatar
By Yuri
at 2021-12-26T19:56
你把一個孩子給前妻,就沒有這個問題了。
別睜眼說瞎話
Freda avatar
By Freda
at 2021-12-29T18:07
你搶了小孩的監護權,賺了這麼大,還在這邊哭爹叫娘,實在
Joe avatar
By Joe
at 2022-01-01T16:18
看不下去。覺得我不對的話,覺得有小孩不是最好的,就把
一個送回給媽媽啊!
Necoo avatar
By Necoo
at 2022-01-04T14:29
again, it's not really about your ex. It's about you
Harry avatar
By Harry
at 2022-01-07T12:39
not able to accept the fact you got dumped. It's a
pity you're still too proud to admit rejection after
these years.
Madame avatar
By Madame
at 2022-01-10T10:50
no, it's not always equal in every relation. You got
dumped and you're just too proud to admit it. Keep
Sandy avatar
By Sandy
at 2022-01-13T09:01
finding excuses to help you avoid reality. It's a
pity you still can't admit rejection after years.
Ophelia avatar
By Ophelia
at 2022-01-16T07:12
ha ha, you're really desparated. What's written in
Selena avatar
By Selena
at 2022-01-19T05:22
constistuion doesn't always reflect reality. Anyway,
it must be hard for you to realize this world is not
George avatar
By George
at 2022-01-22T03:33
fair and not everything is equal. Keep finding more
excuses to help you avoid reality. It's a pity you
still can't accept the fact you got dumped nor admit
Todd Johnson avatar
By Todd Johnson
at 2022-01-25T01:44
rejection after these years.
Selena avatar
By Selena
at 2022-01-27T23:55
it's actually kind of sad you're so desparate that
Catherine avatar
By Catherine
at 2022-01-30T22:05
you use equality in front of law to imply equality
Edward Lewis avatar
By Edward Lewis
at 2022-02-02T20:16
in every relationship. No, not everything is equal
in this workld and it's time for you to man up to
Lauren avatar
By Lauren
at 2022-02-05T18:27
accept you got dumped.
Ina avatar
By Ina
at 2022-02-08T16:38
Again, you can keep pretending this world is an
Isabella avatar
By Isabella
at 2022-02-11T14:49
utopia so you have excuses to not admit rejection.
Erin avatar
By Erin
at 2022-02-14T12:59
It's a pity you still can't accept the fact you got
dumped after these years.
Valerie avatar
By Valerie
at 2022-02-17T11:10
I guess you finally realize this world is not fair
Mason avatar
By Mason
at 2022-02-20T09:21
and not everything is equal. Feel free to make more
excuses so you can avoid reality. You're just too
proud to admit rejection. It's really a pity you
still can't even acknowledge you got dumped after
Barb Cronin avatar
By Barb Cronin
at 2022-02-23T07:32
those years.
Liam avatar
By Liam
at 2022-02-26T05:42
Yes, it's not always equal in all relationship, but
you can't keep making excuses to not admit rejection
Lydia avatar
By Lydia
at 2022-03-01T03:53
it's a pity you're still not able to accept the fact
you got dumped after these years.
Keep denying your ex asked to divorce you first, you
Gary avatar
By Gary
at 2022-03-04T02:04
got dumped and you're just too proud to admit it.
Ophelia avatar
By Ophelia
at 2022-03-07T00:15
Your ex asked for divorce first, you got dumped and
your feeling is hurt. You're just too proud to admit
Olive avatar
By Olive
at 2022-03-09T22:25
rejection. It's a pity you refuse to acknowledge you
got dumped after these years.
Suhail Hany avatar
By Suhail Hany
at 2022-03-12T20:36
again, keep telling whatever helps you to avoid
reality. Your ex asked for divorce first, you got
Andrew avatar
By Andrew
at 2022-03-15T18:47
dumped and you're just too proud to admit rejection.
your feeling is so hurt that it's such a pity you
still can't even acknowledge you got dumped after
many years.
Odelette avatar
By Odelette
at 2022-03-18T16:58
他已經承認他被拒絕了 看清楚再打英文
Daniel avatar
By Daniel
at 2022-03-21T15:09
Cool!! He finally admited he got rejected and got
dumped by his ex after these years.
Faithe avatar
By Faithe
at 2022-03-24T13:19
Really happy for you to finally admit you got dumped
by your ex after these years. This is a big step for
you!
Connor avatar
By Connor
at 2022-03-27T11:30
btw, both your friend and you misunderstand the
rejection here, it refers to rejection in relation-
Suhail Hany avatar
By Suhail Hany
at 2022-03-30T09:41
ship, but anyway, so glad you admit it now and can
Madame avatar
By Madame
at 2022-04-02T07:52
face the fact you got dumped by your ex.
Wallis avatar
By Wallis
at 2022-04-05T06:02
Again, you mistand the rejection here refers to
rejection in relationship. It looks like your friend
is wrong and you're still too proud to admit you got
Bennie avatar
By Bennie
at 2022-04-08T04:13
rejected and got dumped. It's such a pity you are
still not able to even acknowledge you got dumped
after these years
Olga avatar
By Olga
at 2022-04-11T02:24
You're trying so hard it's actually kind of sad for
Erin avatar
By Erin
at 2022-04-14T00:35
you. You, as a person, got rejected in the relation-
Anthony avatar
By Anthony
at 2022-04-16T22:45
ship, totally different to buying a puppy. You're
just too hurt to admit you got dumped.
Joseph avatar
By Joseph
at 2022-04-19T20:56
Keep telling yourself whatever helps you to avoid
reality. Your ex asked for divorce first, you got
Ula avatar
By Ula
at 2022-04-22T19:07
dumped. You're just too proud to admit you, as a
person, got rejected in the relationship. It's such
Kyle avatar
By Kyle
at 2022-04-25T17:18
a pity you can't even acknowledge you got dumped
after these years.
Lauren avatar
By Lauren
at 2022-04-28T15:28
Again, tell whatever you like to hear to yourself.
It's a pity you still can't even acknowledge you got
dumped after these years.
Jack avatar
By Jack
at 2022-05-01T13:39
Feel free to keep avoiding reality. You simply are
too proud to admit you, as a person, got rejected in
Isla avatar
By Isla
at 2022-05-04T11:50
the realationship. You keep blaming others but you-
Harry avatar
By Harry
at 2022-05-07T10:01
self. It's such a pity that you still fail to even
Hazel avatar
By Hazel
at 2022-05-10T08:12
achknowledge the simpl fact that you got dumped
after so many years.
Queena avatar
By Queena
at 2022-05-13T06:22
自己都養不起了還養小孩,是要感謝啥?要小孩的一方有
本事就自己養啦 在那邊哭撫養費真的好笑
Rae avatar
By Rae
at 2022-05-16T04:33
基本上沒同住就沒什麼感情了
Leila avatar
By Leila
at 2022-05-19T02:44
只會越看越厭惡
Sarah avatar
By Sarah
at 2022-05-22T00:55
那麼愛錢當初不跟有錢人在一起?
Victoria avatar
By Victoria
at 2022-05-24T23:05
Again, keep making more excuses to avoid reality.
Doris avatar
By Doris
at 2022-05-27T21:16
None of the excuses you make matters until you can
acknowledge the simple fact you got dumped. You're
Frederic avatar
By Frederic
at 2022-05-30T19:27
too hurt and too proud to admit that you, as a
person, got rejected in the relationship. It's a
James avatar
By James
at 2022-06-02T17:38
pity you still can't face the fact you got dumped
after these years.
Kelly avatar
By Kelly
at 2022-06-05T15:48
No, the reality is that you got dumped and you're so
hurt about it. You're just too proud to admit that
Agatha avatar
By Agatha
at 2022-06-08T13:59
you, as a person, got dumped in the relationship.
But feel free to make more excuses to avoid reality,
none of your excuses matters until you admit you got
Wallis avatar
By Wallis
at 2022-06-11T12:10
dumped after these years.
Irma avatar
By Irma
at 2022-06-14T10:21
Again, keep making more excuses, all of your excuses
Edwina avatar
By Edwina
at 2022-06-17T08:32
just show how hurt you're by getting dumpped. You're
just too proud to admit that you, as a person, got
Skylar DavisLinda avatar
By Skylar DavisLinda
at 2022-06-20T06:42
rejected in the relationship. It's such a pity you
still can't even acknowledge you got dumpped after
these years.
Franklin avatar
By Franklin
at 2022-06-23T04:53
keep side-steping and making up excuses to pretend
it's not a big deal when in fact, all your excuses
Charlie avatar
By Charlie
at 2022-06-26T03:04
show you're so hurt by being dumpped. It's not about
Robert avatar
By Robert
at 2022-06-29T01:15
your ex, it's about you being too proud to admin you
, as a person, got rejected in the relationship. It
Suhail Hany avatar
By Suhail Hany
at 2022-07-01T23:25
is a pity you're still refuse to acknowledge you got
Valerie avatar
By Valerie
at 2022-07-04T21:36
dumped after these years.
Isla avatar
By Isla
at 2022-07-07T19:47
Keep making more excuses, all your excuses just show
Kristin avatar
By Kristin
at 2022-07-10T17:58
you're really hurt by getting dumped. Feel free to
keep pretending it's not a big deal when in fact you
Freda avatar
By Freda
at 2022-07-13T16:08
keep side stepping and are just too proud to admit
you got dumped. It's such a pity you still refuse to
even acknowledge the fact you got dumped after years
Una avatar
By Una
at 2022-07-16T14:19
You, as a person, got rejected in the relationship,
Candice avatar
By Candice
at 2022-07-19T12:30
totally different to rejecting a request. Read again
, you, as a person, got dumped.
Ethan avatar
By Ethan
at 2022-07-22T10:41
Again, keep side-stepping, it's not about your ex,
it's about you're so hurt by getting dumped. You, as
Irma avatar
By Irma
at 2022-07-25T08:51
a person, got rejected in the relationship and you
are too proud to admit it. Feel free to make more
Dora avatar
By Dora
at 2022-07-22T22:10
excuses, it's such a pity you still can't even
Hamiltion avatar
By Hamiltion
at 2022-07-25T20:21
acknowledge you got dumped after these years.
Faithe avatar
By Faithe
at 2022-07-22T22:10
No, the reality is that you're so hurt by getting
dumped and you're too proud to admit it. It's not
Carol avatar
By Carol
at 2022-07-25T20:21
about your ex, it's about you, as a person, got
rejected in the relationship and you just can't
stand it. Keep side stepping to avoid the reality.
Jacob avatar
By Jacob
at 2022-07-22T22:10
it's such a pity you're still not able to face the
fact you got dumped ater these years.
Regina avatar
By Regina
at 2022-07-25T20:21
講人的壞話也是會做孽,更何況你前妻的孽是你一手造下的
Jacob avatar
By Jacob
at 2022-07-22T22:10
離婚時前妻不是沒給其他條件,你寧願選擇她不用付錢的條件
代表前妻現在造的孽,你也要分一半。還有講人壞話的孽
你在板上給越多人看到,這造孽就造得越深
Audriana avatar
By Audriana
at 2022-07-25T20:21
你又再講給你的小孩聽,讓小孩恨自己的母親
小孩也開始累積他的孽緣。
Ina avatar
By Ina
at 2022-07-22T22:10
只有你放下仇恨,接受自己的失敗並用健康的心承擔這失敗
這一切的冤孽才會終止

先生一直急著離婚

Bennie avatar
By Bennie
at 2021-08-28T13:59
前一段婚姻…我已經獨立撫養二個小孩,前夫也是擺爛…不給撫養費。債權憑證也下來多 年...遲遲因為他沒特定工作及財產無法做執行。 目前這是我的第二段婚姻。 認識一年多,交往一年多,結婚一年。目前懷孕29週。 從交往到婚後,他一直是位嘴甜貼心的另一伴。 婚後除了偶發性吃醋的小爭執外,沒什麼特別大的問題。 ...

該不該離婚

Agatha avatar
By Agatha
at 2021-08-28T09:07
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By Emily
at 2021-08-25T23:20
跟先生認識五年 結婚三年多,戀愛的時候就知道他有吵架冷暴力的習慣,但畢竟沒住在 一起,感受沒有很深刻。 結婚後慢慢發現兩個人不太適合: 1. 我喜歡往外跑,到處逛,但他假日只喜歡待在家。有時候陪我出門也很不情願的樣子 ,甚至會直接全程臭臉不講話 2. 吵架的時候喜歡冷戰,一言不合後就是長久的沈默,完全把我當 ...

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By Callum
at 2021-08-25T18:08
推薦文章! 希望給有困擾的朋友們一些幫助 1.打離婚監護權官司前一定要搞清楚的七件事 https://bit.ly/3kp0rmB 2.爭取小孩監護權,律師教你怎麼做 https://bit.ly/3jcVsWX 3.誰可以做離婚協議書的證人 https://bit.ly/3jdEo2R ...

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By Dinah
at 2021-08-24T08:14
我有兩個女兒,因為不堪同居對待,與丈夫(快變前夫)離婚後,需要一個屬於自己的房 子。考量的點有以下,是設定好了,但是覺得要買多大的房子,還有沒有沒注意到的方面 ,懇請有經驗點大家提供意見讓我參考 1.房型:有管理員的大樓,透天太貴太大,又怕他找上來騷擾我,不考慮 2.價格取向優於地點取向:本身會開車,可以居 ...