健身房 (閒聊) - 婚姻

By Margaret
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大家午安 希望可以讓我任性一次把這裡當個版來發
我其實很少跟朋友談論婚姻這塊 這邊就借我抒發一下
我是牡羊座 喜歡冒險 新奇的事務 喜歡運動
頂著一張娃娃臉 認識我的人都覺得我是個長不大的陽光男孩
最近在疫情期間我追了一部劇 (其實我很少看電視)
俗女養成日記一二季
劇中有兩幕印象非常深刻
一幕是爸爸喝著酒 說著以前高職時跟學妹兩人一起辦活動
他彈吉他 學妹跳舞 畢業前 學妹問他要不要跟他一起出國闖闖
爸爸說 他知道自己的能力 唯一有辦法生存的 就只有接下阿公的中藥材店
看到這幕 我整個人眼淚不知道為什麼狂噴 停止不了
因為 我也是那個爸爸 出了社會 好多夢想
碰了一鼻子的灰 最後還不是乖乖回家接家業
每天做著一樣的事情 應付著客戶 一事無成
第二幕 女主角的阿嬤說 自己的名子是李月英 嫁給他阿公了以後
變成了陳太太 醫生娘 媽媽 阿嬤 頭家嬤 四十幾年了
希望死了以後 可以將骨灰灑向大海 再度做回自己的李月英
看到這段我也是泣不成聲 原來每個人對自由的渴望都是一樣的
或許我有把這些遺憾的情感投注在老婆身上
每當我老婆在自己的梳妝台前練習 放著韓團的音樂 跳著舞
其實我可以感覺他的快樂跟自信跟美麗
她也跟我說過 她其實是一個蠻自卑的人 跳舞除了圓夢
更讓她多了份自信 也更加喜歡自己
愛一個人 不就是成全她喜歡的事情嗎
我時常這樣告訴自己
不過現實面還是必須面對 兩個孩子的教養問題
清清楚楚的擺在眼前 我是一個很容易心軟的人
我老婆似乎也很清楚這點 第一次我拒絕 第二次拒絕 第三次就答應了
所以才會造成天平完全傾斜 讓她把時間配置弄成這樣
謝謝所有推文跟寄信給我的朋友 雖然我不認識你們
讓我認清楚現在的重點 教養小孩 把時間重新調整過
在此 萬分感謝
在我迷茫的時候 指點了我
謝謝大家 希望大家家庭都美滿
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我其實很少跟朋友談論婚姻這塊 這邊就借我抒發一下
我是牡羊座 喜歡冒險 新奇的事務 喜歡運動
頂著一張娃娃臉 認識我的人都覺得我是個長不大的陽光男孩
最近在疫情期間我追了一部劇 (其實我很少看電視)
俗女養成日記一二季
劇中有兩幕印象非常深刻
一幕是爸爸喝著酒 說著以前高職時跟學妹兩人一起辦活動
他彈吉他 學妹跳舞 畢業前 學妹問他要不要跟他一起出國闖闖
爸爸說 他知道自己的能力 唯一有辦法生存的 就只有接下阿公的中藥材店
看到這幕 我整個人眼淚不知道為什麼狂噴 停止不了
因為 我也是那個爸爸 出了社會 好多夢想
碰了一鼻子的灰 最後還不是乖乖回家接家業
每天做著一樣的事情 應付著客戶 一事無成
第二幕 女主角的阿嬤說 自己的名子是李月英 嫁給他阿公了以後
變成了陳太太 醫生娘 媽媽 阿嬤 頭家嬤 四十幾年了
希望死了以後 可以將骨灰灑向大海 再度做回自己的李月英
看到這段我也是泣不成聲 原來每個人對自由的渴望都是一樣的
或許我有把這些遺憾的情感投注在老婆身上
每當我老婆在自己的梳妝台前練習 放著韓團的音樂 跳著舞
其實我可以感覺他的快樂跟自信跟美麗
她也跟我說過 她其實是一個蠻自卑的人 跳舞除了圓夢
更讓她多了份自信 也更加喜歡自己
愛一個人 不就是成全她喜歡的事情嗎
我時常這樣告訴自己
不過現實面還是必須面對 兩個孩子的教養問題
清清楚楚的擺在眼前 我是一個很容易心軟的人
我老婆似乎也很清楚這點 第一次我拒絕 第二次拒絕 第三次就答應了
所以才會造成天平完全傾斜 讓她把時間配置弄成這樣
謝謝所有推文跟寄信給我的朋友 雖然我不認識你們
讓我認清楚現在的重點 教養小孩 把時間重新調整過
在此 萬分感謝
在我迷茫的時候 指點了我
謝謝大家 希望大家家庭都美滿
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